Matthew Hussey
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Don't live the life that everyone else decides for you. Other people may have ideas of who you should date whether you should be in a relationship, and what you should be focused on.
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I know there’s something happening in your day right now that’s messing with your ability to be happy. Try doing something to put you in a better place...work out, work on something important, have a great conversation with a friend...this feeling will pass. Promise.
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Show a girl you don't care and she will chase you.
Show a woman you don't care and she'll replace you.
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At the end of dinner on my recent visit to Rome I asked for a cappuccino & the check. The waiter said: “I’ll bring you a cappuccino. The check can wait.” That was code for “Chill the fuck out and enjoy your cappuccino, sir.” Thank you for reminding me what’s important Italy ❤️🇮🇹
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You can be vulnerable and still be powerful.
You can have a kind heart, but still be rock solid at your core.
You can be as gentle as a breeze, but as fierce as a dragon.
The best people always embody both sides.
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We have one chance on this earth: to connect, to laugh, to show kindness, to love, and to experience. Make your future self proud of what you gave today.
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Real Attraction = Sexual Chemistry + Emotional Connection + Respect
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If a guy makes your life more difficult, more stressful, more unpleasant, it's a bad relationship. Doesn't matter how beautiful the flower underneath is if you can never see it through the weeds.
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Never invest in someone based on how much you like them. Invest in someone based on how much they invest in you. - Matthew Hussey
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Fall in love with the person you can laugh with and kiss on a rainy day. Not the person who spends half of it complaining about the weather.
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Surround yourself with people who provide you with at least 4 THINGS: kindness, motivation, wisdom, and joy.
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Loving someone means making them feel safe, appreciated and certain about our feelings. Don’t settle for someone who makes you feel the opposite of the above.
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Don’t be afraid of your weirdness. The right person will fall in love with it. 😍
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Life is difficult. Relationships should make it easier. Brighter. More rewarding. Yet too often we choose relationships that complicate it.
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Loving someone who won't love you back, and choosing to remain in that place, isn't romantic. It's emotional masochism.
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You can be vulnerable and still be powerful. You can have a gentle heart, but still be rock solid at your core. You can be as calm as as breeze but as fierce as a tiger. The best people embody both sides.
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True, long-lasting attraction doesn't come from your looks, achievements, or what you own.
It's the CHARACTER you show in the tiny moments that go under the radar.
That's what makes someone fall in love with you and see you as TRULY irreplaceable.
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A great relationship won't come along to fix your life. You have to fix your life FIRST.
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Relationships aren't a place to dump problems. They're a place where two people can lighten each other's load + make their world brighter.
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Go for the guy who is curious. Who reads. Who looks at what he doesn't know with fascination. Who makes a hobby of understanding himself, and a passion out of exploring your mind
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If nothing else, be a better person. Reach out, give kindness, bring fun energy, and find ways to help where you can. You'll be amazed what can happen.
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You can wait for him to change his mind and decide he wants you, or you can live such an awesome life that you change YOUR mind about waiting for an answer.
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Love will always be massive vulnerability. When we close up and protect too much, we end up with nothing.
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Sometimes the best gift you can give your heart is saying goodbye. Keep the memories, learn the lessons, and start a new chapter.
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Anyone who doesn’t see your value cannot be valuable to you.
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Real love shouldn’t feel like losing yourself. It should feel like becoming more of yourself.
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A most important rule: ALWAYS have something better to do than wait for a text back.
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You can be vulnerable and still be powerful.
You can have a gentle heart, but still be rock solid at your core.
You can be as gentle as a breeze, but as fierce as a dragon.
The best people always embody both sides.
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Your time is golden. So stop giving it to someone who treats you like a bronze medal.
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Life Rule: ALWAYS have something better to do than wait for a text back.
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Real love should never feel like "losing" yourself, or giving up freedom. It should feel like expanding, being more alive, realising more possibility than ever before.
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Sometimes, the most attractive quality someone can have is the way they see the world.
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We HAVE to see people not caring as a turn-off, not a sign to try harder. And the only way to do that is to care about ourselves at such a deep level, that to even consider accepting crappy behaviour seems like a bad joke.
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One of the most loving things you can ever do for your future partner is to work on yourself until you meet them.
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One of the most amazing things about love is that regardless of what happens to us in life, most of us yearn to try again. ♥️
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When you're happy single, you're in a position of incredible confidence and power. The position of knowing you never have to blindly chase the wrong person just to feel the comfort of a relationship. Because you already have everything you need. 👏👏
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To me, the most beautiful vision of a relationship is one where two people are an unstoppable team who have each other’s backs and want each other to be happy from a pure and non-transactional place. Just RIDICULOUS amounts of love not hampered by ego.
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Recipe for avoiding unnecessary pain: Stop chasing people who aren't investing in you.
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"If you find yourself constantly trying to prove your worth to someone, you have already forgotten your own value." – Unknown
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Dating question of the week: Have you ever been surprised by falling for someone who you never thought would be your type?
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Pay attention to the person you love. Focus on what they need, not just on what you WANT to give them. The difference is crucial.
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We spend way too much time analyzing why the wrong people are the way they are, and not enough time walking away from them.
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Don't give someone your mental time who won't make physical time for you.
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If it was so easy to lose someone's affection, it's probably not worth fighting to get it back.
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Don't let your heart run away from your head. Look at who he is, not who you want him to be.
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Seeking closure after a breakup is pointless. If someone is telling you through their words and actions that they no longer care enough to keep you, THAT'S all the closure you need.
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Relationships aren't a place to dump problems. They're a place where two people can lighten each other's load & make their world brighter.
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Relationships would be so much better if we spent less time trying to win arguments, and more time trying to understand how our partner feels 🙏🙏
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Being cynical about kindness, about love, about great relationships, is just about the strongest barrier against enjoying all three.
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Never give a stranger the power to make you feel less than your worth.
They know ZERO about you.
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Don’t give someone your mental time who won’t make physical time for you.
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Go for the guy who is curious. Who reads. Who looks at what he doesn’t know with fascination. Who makes a hobby of understanding himself, and a passion out of exploring your mind.
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Having a standard for how you're willing to be treated, and acting on it, is the greatest natural filter for QUICKLY getting rid of the wrong people in love.
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If it's between keeping a relationship or keeping your self-worth, choose self-worth. There are other guys, but there's only one you to protect.
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Remember: you stop getting what you stop accepting. The power to say "no thanks, I deserve better", makes you invincible.
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Maturity in relationships = wanting your partner to flourish without feeling threatened by their growth
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If it was so easy to lose someone's affection, it's probably not worth fighting to get them back.
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You wouldn’t give someone a key to your house just because they say they like your house, would you?
So why would you give someone the keys to your heart if all they've done is show you a little interest?
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Treat everyone with care. Be classy and graceful, even when things don't go your way. When you succeed, bring others up with you.
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Whatever pain you've been through is nothing compared to the strength you have within you to transform it into something empowering.
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If you talk to yourself horribly, then don't be surprised that you feel horrible. Start talking to yourself like a best friend that you care deeply about.
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See you tomorrow London!!! 🇬🇧❤️. Not seen my family since Christmas. Longest I’ve ever gone without seeing them. I. Can’t. Wait.
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Been having such a beautiful time in Dubai. To those of you asking about a live event here, I was in relaxation mode this time around, but hopefully sometime in the future I’ll do a show for you all in this part of the world! ❤️
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Your gut is surprisingly useful in relationships. The difficult part is listening to it.
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No one is doing you a favor by dating you. Stop acting so grateful. Start acting like someone who deserves it. OWN IT.
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Life is difficult. Relationships should make it easier. Brighter. More rewarding. Yet too often we choose relationships that complicate it.
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Do what is hard and your life will be easy. Do what is easy and your life will be hard.
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Great guys exist. But to find them you have to be willing to ditch the wrong ones.
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Your level of happiness in a relationship will often be defined by the number of honest, difficult conversations you're willing to have with the person you love.
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Having a standard for how you're willing to be treated, and acting on it, is the greatest natural filter for getting rid of the wrong people in love.
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Loving someone who won't love you back, and choosing to remain in that place, isn't romantic. It's emotional masochism.
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Seeing someone you love when they're in their element is the sexiest thing in the world.
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Stop making the person who rejected you a leading role in your life when they were only supposed to be an extra.
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Don't look for perfection in a partner, look for compatibility.
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Do one thing that makes you nervous every week. Something bold, something vulnerable, something new, something that makes you feel alive.
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Screw waiting for someone to "save" you. YOU'RE the hero of your story. Never forget it.
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Life rule: ALWAYS have something better to do than wait for a text back.
#haveafuckinglife
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Love is equal parts acceptance for who someone is, and encouragement to help them be the best they are capable of.
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Whatever you are silently struggling with today, I’m sending you love. Let’s stick together ❤️
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Values and character = the most important part of dating, and the most impossible to fake.
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Someone might get attention for their looks, money, fame. But long-lasting attraction, deep satisfaction, and love are ALL about character.
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You can find a connection with many people.
But someone you connect with who is also willing to invest in you?
That's worth holding out for.
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"We sometimes think we wants to disappear, when all we really want is to be found" - Anonymous
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Stop waiting for something magical to happen so you can start becoming more of the type of person you want to be. Be it today.
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Fate will often put amazing people around us. But we have to do our part and actually meet them.
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It's never about numbers, but this quote always reminds me to stop & appreciate how far we've come: "If we don't celebrate the milestones we're just passing the the time.” I have big plans for the rest of this year. We're just getting started! Thanks everyone 🙏🎉
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50% of a great relationship is how you treat someone. The other 50% is having the ability and confidence to communicate the treatment you want in return.
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If you talk to yourself horribly, don't be surprised if you feel horrible. Start talking to yourself like a best friend you truly care about
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Be generous with whom you choose to meet for 2 minutes, but selfish about whom you decide to invest 6 months of your life into.
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Love has the weirdest way of never coming from quite the direction you expect.
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Relationships would be so much better if we spent less time trying to win arguments and more time trying to understand how our partner feels.
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