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@lwan_dile

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@lwan_dile
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3 years
I really want more for myself man, more for my life.
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@lwan_dile
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4 years
“Your application has been accepted!” 🕯🕯🕯
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@lwan_dile
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3 years
There’s so much sacrifice that comes with building the life you want
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@lwan_dile
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3 years
I can’t believe there was a time where I convinced myself that I hated/ didn’t care for gifts and being spoilt😭. I think it was a defense mechanism from growing up where people insisted on downplaying important events in my life. I always thought those things weren’t for me
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@lwan_dile
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4 years
How can you not speak to your person everyday?🥺
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@lwan_dile
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5 years
Telling people who are happy together that “it’s just the honeymoon phase” is completely unnecessary. Go and project your hurt somewhere else
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@lwan_dile
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4 years
also remember that not everyone lives in a happy home. Sometimes it’s not about rushing life, it’s about protecting your peace.
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@lwan_dile
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3 years
I don’t think men fully understand how much some women appreciate thoughtfulness 😭 it can actually make you cry knowing your partner is paying attention to you like that
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My hun didn’t believe I had been keeping a list of her favourite things so I showed her a young sneak peek via screenshot and she wants to cry dawg 💀 why are women so emotional? What the hell 😭
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@lwan_dile
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Friendship has truly carried me through this year.
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@lwan_dile
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3 years
My boyfriend makes it impossible to get out of bed, worse when it’s cold 😭umuntu will pull you closer when the alarm rings and cuddle you back to sleep now half the day is gone 🥲
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@lwan_dile
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I pray money chooses me for the rest of my days
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Money chose me. 🙂
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@lwan_dile
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5 years
We are a year old today 🥺🥺😭💕
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@lwan_dile
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3 years
One thing about ama2000’s , they will watch and engage with each other’s content yoh 😭
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@lwan_dile
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3 years
No more pressure on myself to have it all figured out. I’m here today, let’s live.
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@lwan_dile
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3 years
My man coming home to a clean house, good food, good wine and a beautiful woman 🥰
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@lwan_dile
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Living together so far has been filled with so much laughter, intimacy and a renewed partnership in sharing space with eachother. I really love it here ❤️
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@lwan_dile
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4 years
Thanks for sending me these first 🙃🙃🙃
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@lwan_dile
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5 years
I deserve this
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@lwan_dile
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4 years
I’ve let my fear get in the way of so many opportunities to grow. I’m always so scared to do everything, so scared to make mistakes. I pray this falls away, I’m working hard for it to.
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@lwan_dile
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@_Kholekam I’ll come pick you up and also take your bag chommie🥺 le’yemali though angaz🤣
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@lwan_dile
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Some situations are a lot harder to make peace with, even when you know you have to.
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@lwan_dile
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Black women deserve the fairytale ending too.
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@lwan_dile
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I have imagined a truly extraordinary life for myself. I can’t wait till everything start to fall into place.
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@lwan_dile
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I love romance 😭 the thoughtfulness, the big and small gestures of love, the surprises , everything !
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@lwan_dile
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My girls upgraded to men who are supportive, honest, thoughtful and men who spoil them 😍 Love to see it
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@lwan_dile
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Never stop trying to sweep her off her feet. All a girl wants (amongst other things) is to know that you’re thinking about her, and you’re attentive to the things she likes. You don’t even have to break the budget for that.
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@lwan_dile
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Not being able to afford the life I want for myself is abusive at this point. Everyday Angikho right
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@lwan_dile
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4 years
Any man that calls you demanding or entitled for wanting to be treated the way you deserve, is not the man for you❤️. The man for you will NEVER hesitate to make you happy.
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@lwan_dile
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wish I didn’t have to worry about money all the time.
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@lwan_dile
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Minnie’s caption is deeply disappointing and hurtful to every black girl who has been labeled ghetto for their natural hair.
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@lwan_dile
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5 years
“VULA, VOETSTEK” is me occupying space in 2020 😍
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@lwan_dile
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The constant uncertainty in your 20ties <<<
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If he wants to he will.
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I really have my own full spread style guide on the Mr Price website 😭💕, GEEEKING
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@lwan_dile
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I think the hardest part about staying positive for me right now is just having nothing to look forward to. There’s no plans to make, everyday looks the same and the uncertainty of the future on top of that. I’m tireeed
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@lwan_dile
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Woke up to the best campaign offer of my life omg😭😭😭crying in the club
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@lwan_dile
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Remember that black women suffer under both racial oppression and gender oppression everyday. So be kind and send money 🙂
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@lwan_dile
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I’m jealous of everyone that gets to travel hey. That’s literally all I dream about
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@lwan_dile
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Yoh I’ll try December again next December
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@lwan_dile
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4 years
First international fashion brand, Sissyboy and Swarovski content all back to back. I am so grateful for the opportunities this year is bringing for me 😭
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@lwan_dile
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I really don’t like when people project their own negative experiences onto me and what I want to do. Yes maybe you weren’t able to do it but please don’t get in my way too.
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@lwan_dile
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craving a sexy dinner date — red roses, little black dress, dim lighting, good wine, fast car 🫦
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@lwan_dile
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Please can April be better and kinder to us all😭
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@lwan_dile
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You cannot tell me South Africa doesn’t have drop dead gorgeous women
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@lwan_dile
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Insecurity is a very dark place
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Life changing opportunity, COME AT ME. I’m ready 😍
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@lwan_dile
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I actually am so bad with friendship shots 😭. I would genuinely love to mingle and connect because some of you guys are amazing people but wheeew. I struggle to sometimes maintain my like 5 friendships. I don’t think have the capacity to have a big group of friends 🥴
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@lwan_dile
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I wish my parents understood what I’m trying to achieve. Things would be so much easier.
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@lwan_dile
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I started 2019 with 2K followers on IG, ending with almost 13K. The girlies have workeeeed this year 😭
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@lwan_dile
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I can’t stop crying thinking about how hard it is to be a black woman. Constantly living in fear, constantly living in outrage. And nobody cares
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@lwan_dile
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Friendship is truly the highlight of my life 🤍
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@lwan_dile
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Mr Price is flying me to Durban on Monday to shoot something special😭 I can’t express the excitement in watching your dreams come to life 😭.
@lwan_dile
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The email I just got 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
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“Let’s do better gents” The gents:
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This incident between Vado and Tahiry was captured on a recent episode of Marriage Boot Camp
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@lwan_dile
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People watch like 5 YouTube videos and decide that all of South African YouTube is boring and has no diversity. There’s literally so many channels that look at different content. There’s always room for criticism of course, but we don’t give our local YouTubers credit sometimes.
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@lwan_dile
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Yoh umuntu is going to WORK this year
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Everytime I’ve declined work for a brand because they weren’t paying/ paying enough they have come back with a better offer. Lesson ? These brands know your value, don’t let them take advantage. Sometimes saying no is your greatest blessing pls
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@lwan_dile
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I think there’s a difference between constructive criticism and just being rude 😂. Telling someone their personality is bland like a flat piece of white paper is just like ????
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@lwan_dile
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I need a car @ universe , Please hear my cry😭😭😭
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@lwan_dile
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Today’s affirmation 💕 I am grateful for the beautiful life I am creating for myself.
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@lwan_dile
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I really admire my boyfriends character. He keeps me very grounded in his ability to rise above every situation and circumstance. I am so grateful ❤️
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@lwan_dile
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Personally I think If someone wants to cheat on you they will. Doesn’t matter if you block people. Doesn’t matter if they go out a lot or stay home. If they have social media, if they don’t. All those things (for me) are illusions of security tbh.
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Again, having money looks so nice 😭
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@lwan_dile
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It’s me manifesting this moment into reality for me 😭❤️
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“Your application has been accepted!” 🕯🕯🕯
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“There’s nothing I can do, I have to go to work” 💔💔💔 This is the reality of so many South Africans, who can’t afford to stay at home for weeks, who put themselves at risk everyday. My heart is so heavy
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This commuter doesn't wear a mask "apparently research says it's useless" but he does sanitize regularly. #Coronavirussouthafrica
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@lwan_dile
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If you can, support people’s craft. Engage with influencers sponsored content, go to the local food pop ups, buy some black art, buy tickets to the masterclass, watch the ads in your fave YouTubers videos etc. You never know whose lights you’re keeping on through your support.
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Effort is so attractive
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I’m learning to accept that some friendships will never be the same again, but that’s okay. We cut and we grow❤️
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You steal from someone and then she’s the bitch ? 😂🤢
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@lwan_dile
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People think that breaking up (friend or lover) is the worst thing that will happen to you and to be honest it’s really not. You date/marry to experience people, not to own or possess them forever. If it works out ? Amazing. But if not, THERE WILL BE MORE LOVE
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@lwan_dile
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There’s people who won’t start YouTube channels, or blogging etc because they think there’s “too many” bloggers, “too many” MUA’s etc. The digital content creation space is still very small and very new in South Africa. There is space for everyone’s creative contribution.
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@lwan_dile
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Everyday we try again
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Yoh Mihlali’s story 😭😭😭 what a wow
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I don’t ask too many questions or try to fight it anymore. How you treat me is a clear indication of where I stand in your life.
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@lwan_dile
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Keep being creative, keep adapting, keep creating ! At the end of the day no one is gonna do you better than you
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I really need to get serious about school, things are the worst they’ve been 🥴
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I actually can’t believe 2020 ???? Like really sis ??
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@lwan_dile
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I always always apologize, accountability is very important to me. It really irritates me when people can’t say sorry when they’re wrong and have hurt someone.
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