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HABITS OF SUPER POSITIVE PEOPLE:
1. Embrace their life challenges
2. Constantly learning and growing
3. Support people around them.
4. Appreciate life's moments
HOW TO BECOME A BETTER LISTENER:
1. Look at the speaker
2. Don't interrupt
3. Focus to understand
4. Check your emotions
5. Suspend your judgment
6. Sum up what you heard.
TRUTHS THAT MAKE YOU STRONGER:
1. Life is not easy
2. You cannot control everything
3. There will always be people who don't like you
4. You will sometimes fail.
HABITS THAT YOU MUST QUIT TO BE HAPPY.
1. Quit procrastinating on your goals
2. Quit trying to control the uncontrollable
3. Quit criticizing others.
4. Quit talking down to yourself.
HOW TO ACCEPT CRITICISM WHILE AT WORK
1. Avoid emotional reactions
2. Listen carefully to what is being said
3. Don’t get defensive
4. Learn from your mistakes
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@LollyDaskal
#Leadership
HOW TO COMMUNICATE EFFECTIVELY
1.Organize your thoughts and ideas
2. Choose the right time
3. Remove distractions
4. Be clear
5. Stay on topic
6. Thank the listener
WHEN YOU ARE BORED
1.Organize your desk
2. Send a note of appreciation
3. Compliment a loved one
4. Show compassion to a stranger
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@LollyDaskal
#Leadership
HABITS TO QUIT TO BE HAPPY
1. Quit procrastinating
2. Quit blaming others
3. Quit talking down to yourself
4. Quit criticizing others
5. Quit running from your problems
IMPROVE YOURSELF BY:
1.reading a book a day
2. learning a new language
3. picking up a new hobby
4. getting out of your comfort zone
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@LollyDaskal
#Leadership
LIFE MASTERY SKILLS:
Ego … master it
Love… value it
Gossip… ignore it
Success … achieve it
Jealousy … distance it
Knowledge… acquire it
Confidence … trust it
@LollyDaskal
#Leadership
#Management
SIGNS WHEN YOU NEED TO LET GO:
1.When someone expects you to be someone you are not
2.When a person’s actions don’t match their words
3.When you catch, yourself forcing yourself to fit in
4.When someone holds you back from speaking your mind.
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@LollyDaskal
#Leadership
LIVE BY THESE RULES:
If you mess up: own it
If you make a mistake: apologize
If you fail: try again
If you don’t know: admit it
If you care about someone: tell them
@LollyDaskal
#Leadership
#Management
STOP TOLERATING THIS THINGS RIGHT NOW:
1. Stop settling for Mediocrity
2. Stop thinking negative thoughts
3. Stop unhealthy relationships
4. Stop working in an environment that you hate!
LIVE BY THESE RULES:
If you mess up: own it
If you make a mistake: apologize
If you fail: try again
If you don’t know: admit it
If you care about someone: tell them
@LollyDaskal
#Leadership
#Management
#FF
THINGS YOU HAVE TO DO TO BE A GREAT LEADER:
1. You have to give more than you get
2. You have to care more about others than you care about yourself
3. You have to invest in yourself even though no one else is
@LollyDaskal
#Leadership
#Management
# ThursdayThoughts
HOW TO HAVE A BETTER LIFE:
Let go of the past
Don’t take things too personally
Choose less over more
Appreciate what you have
Stop worrying about the future
Realize you are enough
Choose kindness
@LollyDaskal
#Leadership
#Management
HOW TO BE HAPPY AT WORK:
Start the day on the right foot
Dress for success
Leave personal problems at home
Get an early start
Complete task quickly
Take pride in your work
Treat people with respect
@LollyDaskal
#Leadership
#Management
HAPPY THOUGHTS FOR HARSH DAYS:
1. When you are at your lowest point, you are open to the greatest change
2. There is a difference between giving up and moving on
3. The past doesn't have to dictate the future
4. You can always choose to view things differently
HOW HAPPY PEOPLE DO THINGS DIFFERENTLY:
1. they avoid overthinking
2. they curtail their worrying
3. they do acts of kindness
4. they forgive to forget
5. they have an attitude of gratitude
@LollyDaskal
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#MondayMotivation
TO IMPROVE YOUR COMMUNICATION SKILLS:
speak from the heart
say what you mean
listen to understand
be silent to listen
Care about those who are speaking
@LollyDaskal
#Leadership
#Management
WORDS TO ELIMINATE FROM YOUR VOCABULARY
I can’t
I doubt
I won’t
I don’t think
I am afraid
I don’t believe
It’s impossible
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@LollyDaskal
#Leadership
#Management
HABITS TO QUIT TO BE HAPPY
1. Quit procrastinate
2. Quit blaming others
3. Quit talking down to yourself
4. Quit criticizing others
5. Quit running from your problems
@LollyDaskal
#Leadership
#Management
TO MANGE PEOPLE YOU NEED TO HAVE:
Patience
Good communication
Ability to relate to others
Flexibility
Trust
Interest in others
Ability to listen
Good judgement
Empathy
Open mind
Honesty
Problem solving skills
~
@LollyDaskal
#Leadership
#Management
HOW TO BE HAPPY AT WORK:
Start the day on the right foot
Dress for success
Leave personal problems at home
Get an early start
Complete task quickly
Take pride in your work
Treat people with respect
@LollyDaskal
#Leadership
#Management
MY YOUNGER SELF TELLING MY OLDER SELF
1. mistakes are important to make
2. not getting what you want can be a blessing
3. it's better to be hurt by the truth, than comforted by a lie
4. even when it's hard to move, take small steps forward
HOW TO GET A SECOND CHANCE AT LIFE:
1.Concentrate on doing not thinking
2.Eliminate the non- essentials
3.Figure out what you really want
4.Focus on the things you can change
~
@LollyDaskal
#Leadership
Successful leaders communicate the following way:
1. They ask questions
2. They listen to learn
3. They appreciate you
4. They admit when they are wrong.
STOP DOING THESE THINGS IMMEDIATELY:
settling for mediocrity
negative thinking
being disorganized
showing up unprepared
not speaking up
@LollyDaskal
#Leadership
#Management
THE MOST SUCCESSFUL LEADERS:
Possess a genuine love for people
Make those who work for them successful
Deal wisely with difficult people
Praise publicly, criticize privately.
See solutions instead of problems.
@LollyDaskal
#Leadership
#Management
#WednesdayWisdom
LIFE LESSONS TO REMEMBER:
1. Don't make a problem bigger than it is
2. Everything that happens- happens for a reason.
3. Perfect relationships don't exist
4. Don't let others to tell you what you want or need.
BAD HABITS TO QUIT TO BE HAPPY
1. Quit procrastinating
2. Quit blaming others
3. Quit talking down to yourself
4. Quit criticizing others
5. Quit running from your problems
@LollyDaskal
#Leadership
#Management
THE BEST LEADERSHIP QUALITIES:
L = loyalty
E = engagement
A = authenticity
D = dedication
E = empathy
R = respect
S = servanthood
H = humility
I = integrity
P = perseverance
~
@LollyDaskal
#Leadership
#Management
THE BEST LEADERSHIP QUALITIES:
L = loyalty
E = engagement
A = authenticity
D = dedication
E = empathy
R = respect
S = servanthood
H = humility
I = integrity
P = perseverance
~
@LollyDaskal
#Leadership
#Management
HOW TO GET A SECOND CHANCE AT LIFE:
1.Concentrate on doing not thinking
2.Eliminate the non- essentials
3.Figure out what you really want
4.Focus on the things you can change
~
@LollyDaskal
#Leadership
SUCCESSFUL PEOPLE DO THINGS DIFFERENTLY:
1.Take full responsibility
2. make no excuses
3. stay persistent
4. stay clear of fear
~
@LollyDaskal
#Leadership
HOW TO ACCEPT CRITICISM WHILE AT WORK
1.Avoid emotional reactions
2. Listen carefully to what is being said
3. Don’t get defensive
4. Learn from your mistakes
~
@LollyDaskal
#Leadership
HOW TO BE HAPPY AT WORK:
Start the day on the right foot
Dress for success
Leave personal problems at home
Get an early start
Complete task quickly
Take pride in your work
Treat people with respect
@LollyDaskal
#Leadership
#Management
If you want to be remembered. be kind
if you want to leave your mark. be generous
if you want to make a difference. be attentive
if you want to be forgiven. be apologetic
if you want to learn. be teachable
~
@LollyDaskal
#Leadership
#Management
HABITS TO QUIT TO BE HAPPY
1. Quit procrastinate
2. Quit blaming others
3. Quit talking down to yourself
4. Quit criticizing others
5. Quit running from your problems
SOME THOUGHTS TO ALWAYS KEEP IN MIND:
1. you have the ability to always choose differently.
2. life rarely turns out exactly the way you want it to be.
3. to often we carry things from our past that hurt us.
4. you get to place a little at a time, not all at once.
TAKE THESE ACTIONS TODAY TO FIND HAPPINESS:
1. focus on what truly matters
2. set a big goal and achieve it
3. limit your time with negative people
4. be yourself and no one else
TO MANAGE PEOPLE YOU NEED TO HAVE:
Patience
Good communication
Ability to relate to others
Flexibility
Trust
Interest in others
Ability to listen
Good judgement
Empathy
Open mind
Honesty
Problem solving skills
~
@LollyDaskal
#Leadership
#Management