Even as my hole aches, I can say without a shred of doubt that there is no experience on earth remotely comparable to the sheer unlimited joy, pleasure and intimacy that comes with being intensely cashfucked by the phenomenal
@control_twink
🥵🥵🥰🥰
Once you have a taste of the exquisite pleasure that is submission to
@control_twink
there’s no avoiding a relapse. Just give in to his addictive control and keep coming back for more…
Start with a lovebomb. A cash cow tends to be both lonely and needy. Train the kinds of sending behaviors you want to see with consistent positive reinforcement. Prey on their vulnerability and sincerity. Smile. Look into their eyes and tell them they're safe.
@simpbrit
I used to struggle so much with this when I was trying to do it for myself. The biggest change was finding someone better to dedicate myself to, and doing it for them instead.
This thread is so🔥 I know first hand the internal conflict that comes with being aware that edging is making you more vulnerable, making you all the more susceptible to being manipulated into deeper submission, but even with that awareness being completely unable to stop…
Your hypnotist laughed. “Cum? Oh, no sweetie. When you cum, you lose some of that desire to please. And the easy answer to that is that I just don’t let you cum.” A wave of realisation washed over you at their words, even in your hazy, aroused state.
So I made this account fairly recently as a way to discreetly explore kink on twitter and survive the lockdown, and every week I’m surprised by how much crossover there is between findom and drag race fans. 🤷♂️
@qwopflop98
There’s probably some wisdom for all of us in recognising that even someone as legitimately beautiful as you has insecurities/anxieties. It’s so easy for physical beauty to be placed on a pedestal and think you must be perfect, particularly in the gay community.
So so happy and proud to see another good boy discover the absolute joy and privilege that is submitting to
@control_twink
. Without a doubt the best Dom a boy could ever wish for, and such a delight to see others finding their place in service to him.
(1/2) I’ve been serving the amazing
@control_twink
, and I asked him if I could have 12 days of Christmas sacrifices. He kindly agreed, so here’s what we did, in song 🙈…
🎶 Through the twelve days of Christmas my master said to me…
I’ll choose your undies
Tell me a secret
Findom isn’t about the amount for me. I don’t crave huge sends or being zeroed out. So if you just want my cash I’m not the right sub for you. What I crave are small, sustainable regular sends alongside long-term psychological and emotional abuse. That’s what I dream of.
pay him the way you wish you could suck him.
pay him like you're riding him.
pay him so he knows he's in control.
pay him more.
pay him always.
pay him now.
@control_twink
I remember too, and all it took was a few conversations with you and a bit of conditioning for it to become one of my favourite things to be called ☺️
That time of the morning where you wake up throbbing and have to wrestle with getting up to start your day or staying in bed, gooning out and tributing a hot alpha...
Is that just me?
#findom
This is beautiful. I love everything about this, such a wonderful relationship. I look forward to a time when the close bond I already share with my Master can develop to such a deep and loving extent. A true role model. 🥰🥰🥰
This is a read.
A lot of less “well off” subs worry their service won’t match up to the wealthy and as a result the dom will not pay attention to them. Do you?
This is because of one of the very toxic misconceptions that has polluted Findom since it’s “mainstream” exposure,
As a sub it took me so long to learn this, that I and my service have value and worth. I have to believe someone is truly superior and worthy of respect before I can go all in.
Wish I had learned this 20 years ago. We said “we are in service to the local leather community” and too many people heard “free labor, exploit us”. Never have blind faith in Masters, Doms and community leaders. Everyone needs to earn your respect before you offer your service.
I’m usually horniest in the mornings (UK time) when I just want to lose myself in submitting and gooning out for a bit but it feels like hardly anyone is online. The struggle is real. 🥺
The best part undoubtedly being when you accept that, no matter how good it feels, you don’t actually want to cum, because being this horny for him is too good, and pleasing him is more important than cumming…
Why is it that being stuck in a sweltering hot office is giving me serious afternoon horn? It’s too hot to work, gooning out and subbing sounds much more fun 🥵
#findom
@SubReturned
I definitely think it changes as you get to know him. Once you build trust and are able to feel safe, it’s much easier to let go, free yourself of the anxieties that make you want to resist, and just let yourself accept the desire to serve.