@amandaperera
it’s really ALL of this. I need ALL of my multifaceted desires to be met. to be bound to just the role of housewife feels like a hell I never everrrrrr want to experience.
@rarelybred
and when you’re in the midst of transformation within yourself, it’s very important to discern between these two very different kinds of people and separate yourself from the latter.
ONLY surround yourself with people who mirror to you who you TRULY are.
@iJaadee
heavy on the path to hell. that’s exactly what it feels like. aquarius rising and venus with no desire to follow any paths that have already been forged
@diormern
i think people are missing the part where you (very clearly) stated that FOR YOU, this is how it felt.
i also see no lies when it comes to your statement. it do be feeling exactly like that, for many of us.
@tdouble_u
and where there is no denominating factor regarding values and ideals, there can never, ever be true understanding. gotta allow it to be what it’s gonna be and keep it pushing.
gratitude is not something that can be taught by force. gratitude can only be shown by example. when you show your children how eternally grateful you are for their entire existence, that love is infinitely reciprocated.
when you allow yourself to be fluid in your way of thinking, doing and being, you lessen your desire to control every aspect of what’s happening around you.
the natural consequence of choosing yourself after a lifetime of choosing others is that many people you once held dear will no longer be able to receive you in your new state.
@AfamDeluxo
@earthaura_
I actually love all the comments of men speaking lovingly about the first time they were gifted something from a woman. 🥺 this actually lifted my spirits for the day.
sometimes thinking before you speak is key. sometimes speaking before your words can be filtered is key. your inner compass is the best indicator of which is necessary at what time.
there are people who will inspire you to step into the true essence of your being, and there are people who benefit from you continuing to embody the watered down version of yourself.
there are people who will witness you playing small and pray to high heaven that you never see the magnitude of your own brilliance.
and then there are people who quite literally will not let their foot off your neck until you see the immense power that you hold.
choose up.
people still see you even when you have a hard time fully seeing yourself.
people can (and will) still love you, even if you don’t yet fully see a reason for them to.
if you’re looking for something — maybe a resource, a tool, or a community, and you can’t seem to find it anywhere, perhaps you were meant to create it.