This was definitely about me — but I hope you all figure out your best coping mechanism. You deserve to reach your maximum potential without being held down by something so uncontrollable 💯
I like dating. I’m not sure why it’s so frowned upon by this generation. Yeah, people suck ass most times — but getting to connect with someone deeply, create memories, & learn about yourself.. it’s so dope to me.
I can’t date someone uncultured. I’m switching between rap/trap, smooth r&b and gospel all day long... and you better be able to sing every song with me
Many of my ex’s still follow me or have access to me. And they cause zero problems for me, nor do I for them. If you are a toxic individual or can’t control yourself, just say that.
Nobody talks about how hard it is finding yourself as an adult — but let me tell ya, it’s an entire identity crisis. It does not come as natural as it may appear. But it’s so important to experience it and find yourself so you can live your truth.
personal fact: I can’t hookup with anyone who is drunk, unless you my shorty because we probably knew you’d be faded after the function. it don’t sit right with my spirit.
I’m learning to apologize to myself so that I can accept the reality and move on. Sometimes I end up in situations that I know I wouldn’t tolerate and beat myself up about it. No more though.
I’m hard to date because I’m a complex individual and I don’t hide it at all because I try to live as authentically as I can.. anything less than that would minimize who I am. So the bare minimum, excuses and downright dumb shit will never fly with me. If I can reason, so can you
if you’re anything like me then you pour into people faaarrr more than anyone pours into you. therefore, at some point, you gotta choose yourself for yourself.
Idc I’ll leave people the hell alone. You’re not meant to be in everyone’s life forever. Plus, there are over seven billion people in the world son. I’ll fasho find someone else to vibe with. Play with ya mama, not me.
no cap, something 2020 taught me is that in order to heal, you have to stop pretending stuff doesn’t hurt you. once you accept that pain, you can start that upward motion.
I’m such a sentimental giver. I’m gonna listen to you speak about what pains you or brings you joy, then I’m gonna give based on that. The focus is on meaningful giving.
I only wanna work with members of the LGBTQ+ community on this project, and I prefer lesbians. I need my lady creatives front and center. Whatever your artistic talent is — I need dat
If you’d let someone call me out my name in your presence when I’m not around, I don’t want you as a friend. And if that don’t make sense to you I don’t want you around. Lol it’s so simple
I stood up for myself this morning. I was asked to contact someone who wronged me in a big way (and hasn’t even apologized yet). I said no with my entire chest and explained why. & I love this person dearly but I love myself more... I feel very hurt and very free at the same time
One thing that made dating / building relationships in general easier for me is understanding that everyone won’t unlock the same levels to me as others. I’m multidimensional. There are levels to me that only certain people can access. I don’t like everyone & I accept the inverse
I can’t date a woman that’s too tough and a headass all the time. I need a lady with some softness about her.. idk why everybody wanna be a thug these days lol
Lol don’t text me at 10pm talking bout some going out. Bitch I’m in the bed now. You gone have to slide them plans across my phone before 5 so I can think about it
I don’t feel bad about cutting people off enough to not cut people off. Lol you gone act right when you over here or you getting left. And I’m cool with that
Told shorty that someone else will be more equipped to love her as she comes much better than I can.. and I believe the same goes for me. Sometimes you just gotta be honest like that instead of staying in a dead relationship. It’s ok, I promise.