too many intersections means you never fit perfectly into a label. too many nuances mean never enough space in a bio. they/them/elle or just call me jacky.
@k1llstreakz
omg asking the doctor to document that they’re rejecting a request for care has almost always had the doctor do something more productive than what they were before. cannot be used too often tho or they get mad & try to enforce the power dynamic
as an abuse survivor, kesha's music gives me goosebumps fr like obviously this song (only god can save us now from her gag order album), but praying from her rainbow album has healed me in ways i never thought possible
@cervixpiercer
why are they acting as though one automatically excludes the other... also... i know of mutual aids that distribute pads and tampons (and even sometimes discs or cups) as well as condoms and plan b... they can also... just start their own distribution system....
@Tease404
@k1llstreakz
i mean they can, but in that case you have a case of refusal to document, which can be reported as medical malpractice or a claim of patient abandonment to the board.
refusal to treat can be valid, but they have to be able to write a legit reason why it is for legal reasons
hey i had to pay 2 months worth of rent this month in order to move slowly due to my disability
if anyone is willing to help a disabled nonbinary POC my cashapp and venmo are both awkwardjacky
some bonus pics of me showing where i use double sided fabric tape 4 sensitive skin to tape my nose bridge down & of me showing my ear-loop extenders tht i use for fit and so the mask straps don't rub the back of my ears
@ferniesbookclub
and then they bring up that we need to respect spanish language gendering everything !!!
the language of my ancestors wasn’t spanish… it was forced on them!
i prefer latine but discounting new terms just because they’re different… yall dont believe in growing & evolving??
@Cellus_Williams
@dienowkthx
i have BPD and with therapy i’ve been able to recognize and not engage in behaviors like manipulation.
i think it all depends on what he’s doing to manage his mental health. manipulation is definitely wrong, but he also may not even realize he’s doing it.
if you, like other annoying people want to
comment a quip making fun of my masking...
i'm immunocompromised & have been masking since 2018, pre-COVID
only recently did my masking become political, but i've been doing it for years prior to that
also, i might never sell them, since i work full-time and am also working on my phd so i rarely have the extra time, but i might make a tutorial for how i made mine!
this was made from a refurbished necklace i didn't wear much anymore, but there's lots of options!
@guavavenezolana
happy to talk more but imma try to b semi-brief
some people can experience same sex attraction while perpetuating cisheteronormativity
queerness at its core subverts and dismantles assumptions and norms of these identities and how we interact with them
(as a queer academic)
@keatingssixth
yes!!!
not just the bigger things thing but ideologies about virginity can hurt people!!! CSA and SA survivors exist and are not able to have the experiences so many deem as important and even an aspect of morality or value of a person.
@mollyemakeup
at my university, the teacher could drop you from the class after 2 weeks of missed class (non-consecutive) if they wanted to & it was the worst policy (especially when i had surgery and when i was hospitalized). it was terrifying
well... actually... i don't mind making them, i just don't want to have to distribute lol, so if i can find someone to help me ship them out, i'll think about selling...
@ariel_henley9
@SFdirewolf
that having attendance policies that affect my grades are ableist & that if class is upstairs and the elevator is broken, i shouldn’t be penalized. also that my SD is a medical necessity & discrimination against us is wrong.
hey y'all my pregnant MUTUAL is in need of some AID !!!
if you can't give personally, then please share this post to maximize 👁️ eyes 👁️ on it!
i just sent $25 if anyone wants to try to match/exceed 🙂↕️
🔗 link options below
Need help with food!!
‼️black pregnant queer & homeless looking for consistent support to access food, transportation, prenatal care & shelter/housing‼️
$5, $10 or more it all helps ‼️
CA:$liveswamp ( add note “For Ma” when sending) (temporary CA)
PP or Vnmo:ask and will dm
@coffeespoonie
my therapist is always recommending for me to become more involved in the online disabled community because i’m always complaining about how able-bodied people treat me/talk to me.
it’s so refreshing to talk to people who won’t pity you because they’re in a similar place
PSA: still trying to find arturo ravioli a forever home!
he’s an adorable, rambunctious pup who is being crate & potty trained!
i’ve been caring for him since he was 6 weeks, but already have other high maintenance dogs!
pls share & reach out to me w inquiries!
@TurtRose
omg as someone who has never fit comfortably under one identity and identify as queer & genderqueer,
all the discussions of queer or trans enough because we don't fit the assumptions others have for those identities... kinda goes against the concept of queer identity
🚨pls help out my moot with basic necessities! they're almost due & still don’t have housing or needed baby items
Goal is $50 now!
send literally any amount even $5 helps but either way please interact w this
post
CA:$liveswamp (add note “For Ma”)
PP/Vnmo: dm
@MutualAidForMa
@coffeespoonie
my SD once chewed through a bottle of clonazepam she was supposed to bring me for my anxiety attack, which... made me have an anxiety attack.
SD fails are inevitable (is what i tell myself)
heyyy reaching out for help!!
if anyone has any water i’m running out of it and am coming up on hour 30 of no running water!!
pls DM or text!
i’m disabled & haven’t been doing well in this weather & can’t go out searching for some myself!
cw: SA
i’ve seen many people being acephobic as if ace people don’t experience sexual violence due to their identity.
i’ve literally been assaulted for expressing that i am asexual
had a fully masked get together for my bday with multiple air filters in da place and it was cool asf to see my homies come together to support me and hang out
Found dog in San Antonio!
Blind male chihuahua (I think) black collar, small bell, but no identifying tags.
PLEASE SPREAD! I’m trying to find his owners.