men never plan shit, i’m getting tired of asking & suggesting. when i wake up have the day planned out for us already, surprise me, something.... shit!
please stop telling me i’m “in my 20’s i need to date around” if i wanna commit to one person, sorry that’s what i wanna do. everyone doesn’t like all that confusion..
no it’s really scary out here you think you’re cool with a guy & investing your time & feelings when really… they don’t even like you fr. it’s really scary bc why are you around me if you know you don’t genuinely like me…
you try to introduce a nigga to a better type of treatment / love, but they always want that toxic / draining shit. so you just have to leave him where he’s at
i will always remember the people who never had the time for me, ignored me and my passion, wouldn’t even notice my existence.... i hope they keep the same energy five years from now, because a lot will change and my demeanor towards them won’t.
@thekonyjen
black men do not like the idea of commitment. they will never take that big step because they want you to “prove to them” you will endure anything toxic & go through “hell and back” before they actually settle down & commit to you.
A year from now I will be bigger, & more experienced than what I currently am. I will work hard to achieve the things I am striving for. I will perfect my craft.
The same mindset & energy you have about me today, is the same one I want you to keep a year from now.