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Thank you
@bettywoolerton
@bristol247
for your support in raising awareness of Family Court Abuse by those employed to protect Domestic Abuse victims and their children 🙌🏼
#familycourtawarenessmonth
#familycourt
#bristol
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@ellieokwilson
@EdinburghUni
Wow 😳. So his parent’s knowingly rented the flat to a group of young women when their son was awaiting trial for rape 🤮🤮🤮🤮.
@gmcuk
TWO practicing gp’s failed to safeguard their tenants by letting a rapist live with these young women 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
#journorequest
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One day your children will say
My Mum did not stay silent
My Mum did not bow down
My Mum did not give in
My Mum fought for me
🙌🏼
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To the MRA’s flooding our inbox: we don’t hate men. We support safe fathers & they support our work. Our focus is supporting safe mothers and their children who have been systematically abused and failed by the very people employed to protect them 🙌🏼. END
#familycourt
abuse 🚩
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@amykaufman84
Letters of support from friends, colleagues, employers are designed to undermine victims 🚩
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A reminder that perpetrators of Domestic Abuse manipulate mediators into believing that they are the victim when the safe parent refuses coercive and controlling tactics. Mediators enable Domestic Abuse 🚨
#darvo
#coercivecontrol
#domesticabuse
#mediation
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We are so incredibly proud of the safe mothers and women that we support. Who with their courage & strength have found their voice to MAKE CHANGE 🙌🏼
#domesticabuse
#familycourt
#survivors
#familycourtabuse
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If you abuse the mother of your children you are not a good parent 🚩
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Welcome to Post Separation Abuse 🚩. Adaptation from
@jennski_27
of the original power and control wheel. PLEASE SHARE as a training resource for ALL front line staff🚨
#domesticabuse
#coercivecontrol
#familycourt
#socialwork
#Police
#judiciary
#legalcounsel
#postseparationsbuse
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When a perpetrator can no longer directly control the victim, post separation coercive control begins. Litigation abuse, financial abuse,breaching of court custody orders,withholding children’s travel docs and the inevitable smear campaign to recruit enablers 🚩
#domesticabuse
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Forcing children into unsafe contact with a perpetrator who has committed domestic abuse is a contradiction of everything we teach children to keep themselves safe 🚩
#familycourt
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When judiciary make orders to a safe mother not to “denigrate” the abusive parent they are asking them to lie to their children 🚩. Where appropriate and with support in place children should know why a relationship ended particularly when they reach a certain age. Thoughts?
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WHY does the Family Court and agencies who operate in it focus so heavily on breaking the bond between children and the protective parent who so often is the Mother?
@CommissionerDA
#familycourtabuse
must END 🚨
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Catherine was a SAFE MOTHER 💔.
@DailyMailUK
there are THOUSANDS of UK mothers who have had their children removed by perpetrators just like Allan and worse who are enabled 🚩. Help us expose Family Court ABUSE 📣.
#domesticabuse
#familycourt
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@mikecmorgan
The officer clearly assaults a member of the public who had been physically restrained in both hand and ankle cuffs and 5 other
@BurnleyPolice
officers do NOTHING 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩.
@LancsPolice
this is totally unacceptable
#police
#lancashirepolice
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Fantastic resource for professionals working in Domestic Abuse, Social Care, Education, Policing (the list goes on!), to understand and recognise Post Separation Coercive and Controlling behaviour 🙌🏼. Thankyou
@jennski_27
@UofGlasgow
for your incredible research 🙏🏻
#domesticabuse
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Victims have become EXPERTS BY EXPERIENCE
@custodypeace
🙌🏼.
@AlexChalkChelt
@LDNVictimsComm
@CommissionerDA
@MoJGovUK
NOW is the time to engage with lived experience to urgently reform the Family Court System starting with mandatory training
@JudiciaryUK
🚩
#familycourt
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@AndrewCicchett1
Many victims report escalation of Economic Abuse post separation 💔. Failing to disclose full income to
@CMSGov
@HMRCgovuk
, sabotaging income, litigation abuse for 50/50 care, cancelling insurances. This is DOMESTIC ABUSE and should be punished. Victims are FAILED
#economicabuse
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Domestic abuse victims and their children are silenced and threatened by the Family Court system.
@CommissionerDA
we need urgent intervention in the Family Courts to end litigation abuse and to protect children from future harm🚨
#familycourt
#familycourtabuse
#litigationabuse
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WE rise 03.11.22 🙌🏼. Please share. Together we can make change!
@SheraFamily
@DrEmmaKatz
@BristolActivist
@OfficialMelB
@womensaid
@RefugeCharity
@NataliePage31
@hansummers
@amnestybristol
@MumsnetTowers
@CFBristol
@CommissionerDA
#bristol
#familycourt
#familycourtabuse
#bristol
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PA the weapon of choice for perpetrators of Domestic Abuse in the Family Court System 🚩
@MoJGovUK
@CommonsJustice
WHEN will this madness end???
#movementofmothers
#familycourt
#domesticabuse
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@ellieokwilson
Transcripts can be incredibly triggering to victims 💔. Victims are re traumatised by the very people employed to uphold the law & have a right to appeal particularly when there has been abuse of power either from counsel or judiciary 👊🏻. Good luck xx
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Child Arrangement orders have become a weapon of coercive and controlling behaviour by perpetrators of domestic abuse. Our Family Courts are enablers of post separation abuse 🚩
#familycourt
#familycourtabuse
#domesticabuse
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If a perpetrator has money or family members willing to fund them the Family Court is their playground 🚩
#familycourt
#domesticabuse
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Bristol, we.rise 🙌🏼. Please share to anyone who has been affected by
#familycourtabuse
or is navigating the
#familycourt
process. Together we can make change! Contact details in poster
#bristol
#DA
#domesticabuse
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The system is FAILING safe Mothers
@commissionerda
🚩
“People think that leaving an abusive relationship is hard but leaving and then protecting yourself and your children post separation is a battle that no one should have to face”
Emma, London
3.5 years Post Separation
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@CommissionerDA
Perpetrators of Domestic Abuse presume they are above the law because the law (yes
@CPSUK
that’s you) doesn’t hold them to account and enables abuse to continue 🚨. Victims are being systematically FAILED by the police and courts and we all know it!
#domesticabuse
#police
#cps
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Domestic Abuse victims will no longer be silenced and their children ABDUCTED by the very system that should be protecting them. WE rise 🙌🏼
#familycourtawarenessmonth
#familycourt
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Heartbreaking but SO needed in exposing the systematic abuse of safe parents and their children by CPS. *trigger warning 🚩. The strength of the Kowalski family against systematic abuse is EVERYTHING in giving other victims a voice and honouring Beata 🙌🏼.
#takecareofmaya
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“If I go missing or they say I committed suicide, know that it was him.I would never leave the children”. Words from a safe mother who is supporting a police investigation into her perpetrator and is fearful for her safety 💔 .
#familycourt
#familycourtabuse
#domesticabuse
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The Family Court is in crisis. It has become a tool of abuse against Domestic Abuse victims and their children by perpetrators hell bent on destruction and control.
@MoJGovUK
@DominicRaab
@CommissionerDA
when will this END??
#familycourt
#familycourtabuse
#domesticabuse
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And yet if you *almost* kill the mother of your child you can weaponise the family court and remove children from the safe parent and continue post separation domestic abuse 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩. Make it make sense
@AlexChalkChelt
@MoJGovUK
??
#familycourt
#familycourtabuse
Adults who kill someone they share parental responsibility with will no longer have a say in key elements of their child’s life.
Under Jade’s Law, parental responsibility will be suspended upon sentencing - better protecting children & bereaved families.
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We rise 🙌🏼. Thank you to
@BristolActivist
for highlighting the abuse and criminal conduct in the Family Court
#familycourt
#familycourtabuse
‘Worse than living with abuse’: protesters expose reality of family court - The Bristol Activist
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We want to see more Domestic Abuse Support services speaking out against Family Court Abuse 🙌🏼.YOU are the voice of thousands of victims. To remain silent when you KNOW what is happening is enabling systematic abuse 🚨
@RefugeCharity
@womensaid
NOW is the time to speak out
#DA
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Victims will no longer stay silent and let safe mothers and their children continue to be systematically abused by the
@MoJGovUK
@JudiciaryUK
@MyCafcass
@CommonsJustice
@AlexChalkChelt
family courts. THANKYOU to all mothers that contributed to the
@UNSRVAW
research🙌🏼
#familycourt
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Dear court appointed family mediation “specialists” .STOP asking victims not to support police investigations into domestic abusers “for the best interests of the children” 🚩. You are enabling CRIMINAL abuse and endangering future partners and their children 🚨
#familycourt
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Only ABUSIVE men seek sole custody from a SAFE MOTHER 🚩. Our children are not your or our perpetrators possessions
@MoJGovUK
@DominicRaab
@CommonsJustice
🚩. END FAMILY COURT ABUSE 🚨
#familycourt
#familycourtabuse
#domesticabuse
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@whartonswords
We are so sorry and angry for you 💔! The
@DWPgovuk
needs to urgently look at how child maintenance is weaponised by perpetrators of domestic abuse to continue a pattern of coercive and controlling behaviour 🚩
#domesticabuse
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DO NOT ACCEPT ADVICE ON HOW YOU ARE MEANT TO HEAL FROM THOSE WHO HAVE HARMED YOU 🚩
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“If you are a judge, magistrate, legal advisor, barrister or solicitor who is offering or taking bungs then I hope you can’t sleep at night, how dare you play with a child’s life, you are the utter scum of the earth”
@ADarkWorldPod
🙌🏼
#familycourt
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@DrEmmaKatz
So much work needs to be done in educating people regarding trauma and how it impacts a persons ability to function 🤍
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Having listened to some truly disturbing victim impact statements, it is clear that the Family Court is a DANGER to Domestic Abuse victims and their children 💔
@BBCPanorama
@itvnews
@C4Dispatches
now is the time to EXPOSE evidenced
#familycourtabuse
🚨!!
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Perpetrators of Domestic Abuse do not stop post separation. They simply look for new ways to continue their campaign of abuse. WHEN will Domestic Abuse victims be protected
@nicolejacobsST
🚨?
#domesticabuse
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Holding perpetrators to account for their abuse is not about revenge. IT IS ABOUT JUSTICE 🙌🏼
#domesticabuse
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THANK YOU to all of those who attended the protest outside of Bristol Family Court today 🙌🏼. Victims will no longer be silenced 🚨.
#familycourtawarenessmonth
#familycourt
#bristol
#domesticabuse
#huyhuk
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@SheraFamily
@BBC
@EdThomasNews
@jessphillips
THANK YOU
@bbcnews
@EdThomasNews
and his team for giving safe mothers and their children a voice 🙌🏼. Victims will no longer be silenced with pseudo science and threats of child removal by
@JudiciaryUK
@MoJGovUK
@MyCafcass
#familycourt
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@custodypeace
You are not protected. Social workers lie, Cafcass officers fail to follow the basics and judiciary conduct is at times criminal. The Family Court is a WEAPON of choice for perpetrators of domestic abuse 🚨
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@AndrewCicchett1
Perps family members all know. They more often than not witness some level of abuse but will always continue to support and enable the abuser because they are scared of what the perpetrator is capable of 💔
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The Family Court is a danger to protective parents and their children.
@DominicRaab
@MoJGovUK
@JudiciaryUK
@CommissionerDA
URGENT reform is needed 🚨
#familycourt
#familycourtabuse
#domesticabuse
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A domestic abuser who beat his own daughter is spared jail and the local authority will not be taking action because she is trauma bonded into defending him 💔.
@MoJGovUK
this is a failure to protect the girl and her family from a perpetrator 🚩
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@whartonswords
Narcissists make terrible parents 🚩. When you leave them the focus is on destroying you and punishing you with counter parenting tactics. We are so sorry that the
#familycourt
enables his abuse. Sending strength 🙏🏻
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Perpetrators weaponise Child Arrangement orders to continue coercive and controlling behaviours. Children are FAILED by the
@MoJGovUK
Family Courts 🚨
#familycourt
#familycourtabuse
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DARVO, an acronym that describes the typical response of a guilty person when they’ve been accused of bad behaviour. Deny, Attack,Reverse Victim and Offender. Textbook Perpetrator behaviour in the Family Court
#familycourt
#familycourtabuse
#domesticabuse
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Three transcripts read today. ALL judiciary acted unlawfully 🚩. ALL involved domestic abuse. TWO with perpetrators raising PA when a CAO was active and were awarded 50/50. ONE resulted in the perpetrator being awarded sole custody citing the SAFE mothers mental health. ENOUGH 💔
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Danny Price with all of the right words for our
@MoJGovUK
🚩
#domesticabuse
#sexualassault
#rape
#dannyprice
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Abusers weaponise the Family Court to continue a pattern of abusive behaviour.
@MoJGovUK
@DominicRaab
@JudiciaryUK
YOUR courts are a danger to domestic abuse victims including children when litigation abuse is allowed to continue🚨
#familycourt
#familycourtabuse
#domesticabuse
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“Some”counsel working within Family Practice need to take a long hard look at not only their legal but their moral responsibility to safeguard victims.The aggressive win at all costs mentality endangers Domestic Abuse victims and children💔
#familycourt
#familycourtawarenessmonth
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How do people feel about “qualified counsellors” who work for domestic abuse support services but in private practice are supporting perpetrators via paid for letters of support for court denying abuse without having contact with victims/access to proven evidence?
#familycourt
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Children are not possessions. They should he loved, cared for, protected and more importantly be SAFE. WHEN will
@10DowningStreet
@RishiSunak
@DominicRaab
@HumanRightsCtte
open an investigation into the systematic abuse in the Family Court 🚨
#familycourtawarenessmonth
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@LDNVictimsComm
Sir Andrew McFarlane is proving time and time again that he is incapable of safeguarding children 🚩. Experts wether regulated or otherwise are left to fabricate evidence and offer up paid for reports for perps of abuse if they have the means to pay 🤮💰🤮
#familycourt
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Perpetrators of coercive control will use ANY opportunity to continue a pattern of abuse behaviour and commit DARVO dressed up as co parenting issues 🚩
Child contact ✔️
Holiday arrangements ✔️
Child support ✔️
Birthdays and special occasions ✔️
School events ✔️
#domesticabuse
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Incredible journalism from
@EdThomasNews
@BBCNews
exposing the systematic ABUSE of safe mothers & their children in the UK Family Courts 🚩.
@AlexChalkChelt
@MoJGovUK
@JudiciaryUK
@MyCafcass
victims will no longer stay silent 🙌🏼
#familycourt
#familycourtabuse
Tomorrow on
#BBCNews
we investigate serious alleged failures inside our Family Courts.
We report on mothers, victims of domestic abuse, who have died.
We reveal children being forced into contact with Dads reported for abuse.
And hear from Mums who have fled the UK.
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Domestic Abuse victims have had ENOUGH. We will no longer stay silent and let the systematic abuse of victims and their children continue. Lots of things going on BTS this week with raising the voices of lived experience 🙌🏼. NOW is the time for action!
#familycourtawarenessmonth
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@TomD12094771
Children who witness their mother being abused and in turn are traumatised by their fathers abusive behaviour or violence often alienate themselves from a perpetrator to PROTECT themselves. She is no abuser.
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Victims of family court abuse are no longer willing to stay silent
@AlexChalkChelt
. We ask you to LISTEN and consult with the lived experience of safe mothers in your failing family courts to ensure URGENT REFORM 🙌🏼
#familycourt
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@DrEmmaKatz
MANY survivors trusted the system designed to protect them with devastating consequences 💔
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The public have a right to know that the Family Courts systematically ABUSE & FAIL Domestic Abuse victims and their children.Collectively we will continue to expose the criminal behaviour of those EMPLOYED to protect 🙌🏼
#familycourt
#humanrights
#famioycourtabuse
#cafcass
#DA
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Incredibly disappointed to hear that
@twitter
has suspended
@David_Challen
until further notice due to unsupported accusations of abuse from serving and ex police officers 🚨
#IStandWithDavidChallen
#domesticabuse
#davidechallen
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@DrProudman
Trauma responses can manifest themselves in different ways. We often speak to victims who laugh at the absurdity of behaviour from perps, counsel and judiciary and then obsess that they won’t be believed due to not presenting as a “perfect” victim 💔
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A reminder that Domestic Abusers are CRIMINALS and society and the Family Courts need to hold them accountable for their CRIMES 🚨
#domesticabuse
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@custodypeace
speaking the TRUTH 🙌🏼. NO safe Mother should be court ordered to lie to their children to protect an abuser and endanger vulnerable women and children 💔.END family court abuse
@AlexChalkChelt
@MoJGovUK
@HouseofCommons
@CommonsJustice
‼️
#familycourt
#familycourtabuse
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Cafcass officers systematically FAIL to follow their own risk assessment when seeking guidance for safeguarding of children.Their process is lazy, disjointed and their conduct verging on criminal. They are a DANGER to children🚨
#familycourt
#familycourtabuse
#cafcass
What CAFCASS’ Practice Guidance says should happen when assessing risks of domestic abuse in family court cases. Hmmm, does it?!
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Dear Family Court professionals, it is NOT in anyones best interests to discourage a domestic abuse victim to speak to the police & pursue criminal charges. The Family Court is a danger to victims and the safety of our society 🚨
@DominicRaab
@CommissionerDA
@MoJGovUK
#familycourt
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@DrEmmaKatz
Judiciary are appointing “regulated” experts who are also enabling abuse to continue due to a huge lack of training in
#darvo
and coercive and controlling behaviour 🚩
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Victims will no longer be silenced by the Family Court and those that operate in it. We rise 🙌🏼
#familycourt
#familycourtabuse
#domesticabuse
#childprotection
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Victims of post separation abuse, now is the time to speak up and be heard 🙌🏼
#domesticabuse
#postseparationabuse
#coercivecontrol
Excellent news. Coercive control against an ex-partner is now covered by the coercive control law in England and Wales.
Now we need to prosecute a heck of a lot more of the high harm, intractable perpetrators.
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Cafcass officers are a danger to the safeguarding of children. We are frequently seeing unqualified social workers making life changing decisions for children and families 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
#familycourt
#PracticeWeek
is underway! Cafcass staff are taking part in learning events to develop their skills to support our work with children and families.
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@David_Challen
@MarksLarks
Threats of defamation from a perpetrators legal firm is becoming increasingly common in the family courts, particularly if an abuser has a public profile 🫠🚩
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Dear
@MoJGovUK
@DominicRaab
@JudiciaryUK
@MyCafcass
ENOUGH of enabling perpetrators of Domestic Abuse to weaponise your Family Courts and spout PA BS to continue ABUSE of safe mothers and their children 🚩.
#movementofmothers
#domesticabuse
#coercivecontrol
#PA
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Victims of violence and abuse should not be charged THOUSANDS of pounds to access transcripts 🚩. Particularly when they are appealing judgements made by judiciary who are failing to protect the most vulnerable and enabling perpetrators 🚩
#familycourt
All court transcripts should be free to all victims in criminal courts & family courts. & they should not be 'vetted' by judges, hearings should be transcribed verbatim by independent transcription companies. This is what we do in research. There is no reason for vetting or fees.
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Coming from a force who have repeatedly failed domestic abuse victims with non existent conviction rates 🚩.Side note: narcissistic abusers cannot & do not communicate positively, they thrive on contact and coercive control. Listen to the lived
experience of victims
@gmpolice
🚩
We have launched a Restorative Justice (RJ) pilot scheme for domestic abuse cases. RJ gives victims & offenders the chance to communicate in a positive way, giving victims a sense of empowerment.
Read more:
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Exert from a response to the Family Justice Council consultation on “ alienating behaviours” from a frontline child safeguarding professional working in the
#familycourt
🙌🏼
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“The Family Court stole my Motherhood and prevented me from protecting my children”. Domestic Abuse Victim and Protective Mother, November 2022 .
@DominicRaab
your Family Courts and the Judiciary within them are a danger to children 🚨. Enough
@CommissionerDA
#familycourt
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@DrProudman
Educated and intelligent women who are domestic abuse victims are further abused in the family court system by judiciary. We support some incredible women who have been utterly broken by the very people employed to protect them. End
#familycourtabuse
🚩
#domesticabuse
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If this is the hostility shown to journalists like
@louisetickle
in the
#FamilyCourt
, imagine how victims of domestic abuse and their children are treated behind closed doors 🚩.
@AlexChalkChelt
ENOUGH
I have rarely felt less welcome as a journalist in a family court than I felt today, and am pretty concerned at the culture, attitudes and assumptions that were on show. Depressing.
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When a perpetrator can no longer control you he weaponises the children/child contact to continue his pattern of post separation abusive behaviour 🚩. DO NOT engage with his twisted games, protect your peace and LOVE your children hard ✌🏻
#domesticabuse
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Children should never be forced to have a relationship with an abusive parent. The Family Court and “child protection” professionals who operate within it are putting thousands of children at risk of harm🚨.
@ChildrensComm
@hrw
you cannot continue to stay silent
#familycourt
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Sending strength and standing in solidarity with all of the amazing women in this online community 🙌🏼
#InternationalWomensDay
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November is
#familycourtawarenessmonth
🚨. Domestic Abuse victims and their children are being systematically failed by those employed to protect them. ENOUGH. Join us THIS Thursday in Bristol . PLEASE SHARE 🙌🏼
#familycourt
#domesticabuse
#bristol
#bristolmums
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