How to make people respect you if you’re quiet
10 habits to command respect instantly
1. Always have slow relaxed movements. Never be in rush ,Take your time before doing things
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Ever wondered what a man's sitting positions says about his personality?
From confident to relaxed,your posture can reveal more than you think .Lets decode these subtle signals....
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This video of a 65-year-old man is going viral.
He gets asked:
“What’s your secret for looking so great at 65?”
His answer really hit me hard.
& it might just change your perspective on life...
Scroll down for the video:
Here's how to do it👇🏻
1. Set the scene to get people invested in your story
2. Highlight the emotions you were going through
Storytelling isn’t about describing what happened it's about creating an emotional journey for your listener
3. Tell the story as if it's high stakes
📌 Master Storytelling
Research suggests that men who are good storytellers are more attractive to women and have an advantage in finding long-term partners.
Stories can also build connections by releasing oxytocin,
Oxytocin is a “feel good” hormone.
To learn how to work the story in the conversation watch how charlie baits kristen to ask him to tell his attractive story.
You know the cat survives he just showed a photo of him but he still tells the story as if the outcome is unclear.
📌 Be playfully cocky
We all know confidence is attractive but arrogance is not.
Being playfully cocky can build the attraction of being confident while softening the risk of being arrogant.
Here's an example from Lucifer 👇🏻
1. Use of Reciprocity:
Manipulators often start by doing you a favor.
The goal is to make you feel indebted.
Strategy: Recognize this, and don't feel obligated to reciprocate in a way that makes you uncomfortable.
3. Gaslighting:
They make you question your reality or sanity.
The goal is to make you doubt yourself and your perception.
Strategy: Trust your intuition, don't let someone else define your reality.
📌 Be A Risk Taker
Being a risk taker is attractive & exciting to women.
1. Being a risk taker shows strength and a certain level of ability.
2. It shows you have the confidence to bet on yourself to succeed when most people would be too scared.
📌 Show That You're Not Always The Winner
By showing that you're confident enough to do more than just share your victories, you can laugh at yourself and admit that you have embarrassing stories in your past.
This makes you very attractive to people
4. Overpowering Presence:
They dominate conversations and situations.
The objective is to control the narrative and decisions.
Strategy: Assert your opinion and hold your ground.
8. Devaluation:
They belittle your achievements and values.
The aim is to make you feel worthless and control you.
Strategy: Understand your value and don't let others belittle you.
5. Constant Criticism:
They constantly criticize your actions or decisions.
The aim is to lower your self-esteem and make you dependent on their approval.
Advice: Acknowledge your worth, don't let others' judgments define you.
7. Distorting Facts:
They twist facts or lie blatantly.
The goal is to mislead you and control the situation.
Advice: Fact-check and don't accept everything at face value.
It's something you can show just by how you handle a conversation.
1. Be the first one to be playful in serious situations
2. Make yourself director of any situation
3. Give the spotlight to someone who hasn’t had it
Robert Downey Jr is the king of this.
📌 Show That You’re A Protector
The most attractive part of this story is that he's a protector.
He's willing to run 2.5 miles to save a cat he just found.
If he'll do that for a random cat imagine the lengths, he would go to help a loved one.
Jeremy Meek mug shot posted by the police on Facebook transformed his life from that of a criminal and gangster to a successful modeling and acting career.
2. Emotional Appeal:
They appeal to your feelings, making you feel guilty, fearful or insecure.
The aim is to cloud your judgment.
Advice: Stay grounded, don't let emotions dictate your decisions.
📌 Demonstrate Social Leadership
This attractive trait is extremely easy to show and it can be done by anyone.
Demonstrating you're a leader doesn’t requires you being the captain of the football team or CEO of your company but it's actually much easier than that.
Even when you know the story is going to end terribly for him, he still tells it in an attractive way.
1. Speak slowly
2. Not using filler words
3. Good eye contact
This will give the impression that even though a story didn’t work out for you, you aren’t embarrassed about it.
6. Playing the Victim:
They present themselves as victims to gain your sympathy.
The objective is to manipulate you into giving them what they want.
Strategy: Recognize this behavior and avoid being emotionally manipulated.
For example, Shaun Aubrey whose prompt picture on Myspace changed his life leading him to become the highest paid male model earning over a million dollars per year just for taking pictures.
4. The PSL Gods
This type is incredibly rare making up less than 1% of the world's population.
They possess a unique blend of the best features from Ultra masculine men, pretty boys and Chads resulting in nearly perfect facial features.