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Queer Author of Adult Romance. Agent: @weaverliterary

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@harleylaroux
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8 months
USA Today Bestseller, Her Soul to Take, is available now from all major US retailers! • Adult Paranormal Romance • Ancient deities, wicked cults, & vicious monsters • A small town with a cursed history • XXXtra spicy • Complete Trilogy ✨️ ✨️
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@harleylaroux
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6 years
I'm over BDSM stock photos always being black and white, I want neon colors, I want pastel, glitter, I want subs tied up on cozy looking beds, I want to see some Converse instead of heels, I want some band t-shirts instead of suits.
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Once upon a time, my ex got mad that I had a dildo bigger than he was and made me throw it away. Now I have a fiance who spanks me with my pink dildo. Get yourself a man who spanks you with your pink dildo.
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@harleylaroux
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5 years
Reminder: Exhibitionism is a really hot fantasy 😍 Being humiliated in front of strangers, used, and punished? Oof, yes 🔥 But exposing actual non-consenting strangers to your scene? NOT HOT. 🚫🚫🚫 Practice exhibitionism responsibly, with a consenting audience 👍
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IT IS NOT SHAMEFUL TO USE YOUR SAFEWORD IT IS NOT SHAMEFUL TO USE YOUR SAFEWORD IT IS NOT SHAMEFUL TO USE YOUR SAFEWORD IT IS NOT SHAMEFUL TO USE YOUR SAFEWORD IT IS NOT SHAMEFUL TO USE YOUR SAFEWORD IT IS NOT SHAMEFUL TO USE YOUR SAFEWORD IT IS NOT SHAMEFUL TO USE YOUR SAFEWORD
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A sub with anxiety who's always scared of bothering their Dom with their fears and whirling thoughts: but every time they open up their Dom praises them, and tells them they've been so brave for talking about it, gently encouraging them to get more comfortable and feel safer ♡
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Dick pics would be a less annoying if you actually put some effort in. Find decent lighting, turn on HDR, get a backdrop that isn't an open toilet, oil that thing up ᵃⁿᵈ ᵃˢᵏ ᶠᵒʳ ᵖᵉʳᵐᶦˢˢᶦᵒⁿ ʲᵘˢᵗ ᵃˢᵏ ᶦᶠ ᵗʰᵉʸ ʷᵃⁿᵗ ᵗᵒ ˢᵉᵉ ʸᵒᵘʳ ᵈᶦᶜᵏ ʲᵉˢᵘˢ ᶜʰʳᶦˢᵗ
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Dear young/new submissives: Please remember that just because a "Dom" takes pretty pictures, or writes sexy things, or has a lot of Twitter followers, it doesn't mean they're a good Dominant, a safe Dominant, or the right Dominant for you. Be cautious, stay safe ♡
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5 years
Anyone - I repeat - A N Y O N E involved in a BDSM scene has the right to end that scene, at any point. A Dominant/top can end the scene. A submissive/bottom can end the scene. That is how ongoing consent works. Not understanding that is, frankly, stunningly irresponsible.
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So my dad got drunk at my wedding & was talking about how when I was a kid I'd tie up & "torture" my stuffed animals, & I was always wanting to wear collars/leashes. He said he was "so happy I turned out okay," while me & my husband just sat there awkwardly glancing at each other
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@harleylaroux
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5 years
Let this be very, very clear: Your sexuality, your consensual sexual activity, fetishes, and/or kinks will never, EVER mean that you deserve to be abused. Those things will never EXCUSE abuse. Never.
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6 years
What I Say: "Abuse me, Daddy!" What I Mean: "Let us engage in consensual and pre-negotiated sexual activities that involve the careful application of pain. Feel free to be rough with me while bearing in mind safety precautions, Consenting Adult of Dominant Disposition."
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@harleylaroux
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6 years
Girls are just... . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . *deep breath* . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . so fucking pretty
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@harleylaroux
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Being a submissive is not weak. Being a submissive is not weak. Being a submissive is not weak. Being a submissive is not weak. Being a submissive is not weak. Being a submissive is not weak. Being a submissive is not weak. Being a submissive is not weak.
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@harleylaroux
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6 years
Does anyone else talk to their pets as if they're little humans? "Excuse me sir, but why are you eating plastic? Can you not? Can we not do this right now? Excuse me...sir. SIR. Where did this trash come from? How do you even find these things? Don't give me that look."
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@harleylaroux
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5 years
Consent is still required if you're angry. Consent is still required if your sub "disobeyed." Consent is still required if you're having a bad day. Consent in D/s is and always will be REQUIRED. Consent in D/s can, at any time, be REVOKED.
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Me: oh..um..yes, I wrote a book, oh, uh...what's it about...uh... My husband: HELLO EVERYONE, MY WIFE WROTE A BOOK ABOUT SEX AND DEMONS YOU SHOULD READ IT! HELLO SIR, YOU SHOULD READ THIS BOOK! EXCUSE ME, MA'AM, BUT YOU SHOULD READ MY WIFE'S BOOK! EVERYONE LOOK AT THIS BOOK!
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@harleylaroux
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5 years
It's okay if you want a lot of sex... or only a little... or none at all. It's okay if you're kinky.... or vanilla.... Poly....or monogamous... All identities... All bodies... All consensual relationships... Sex positivity is for all ♡
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6 years
Men who comment "This is why I don't want a daughter" over grown women being sexual and confident: your misogyny is showing HARD. And your future daughter's sexuality (if god-forbid you have one) is NOT yours to control and dictate.
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5 years
Not all submissives are masochists. Not all submissives are littles. Not all submissives are slaves. Not all submissives want 24/7, TPE. Not all submissives are women/femme. There is great variety and nuance within D/s. Personal wants, needs, and desires vary ♡
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@harleylaroux
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Careful out there in your local bookstore, friends. Danger lurks on those hallowed shelves. Before you pick up that romance novel, think carefully. It might LOOK morally pure, but romance novels are just gateways to reading dirty EROTICA.
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@harleylaroux
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@MeaninaNiceWay @LilPinkieKiki Giiiiiirl, I was so ready to be mad but instead I ended up happy, yaaaassss, gotta love the booty shorts ♡♡♡
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Harley Laroux | UPDATES ONLY
5 years
Brat submissive ≠ "bad" submissive Brat tamer/brat is a negotiated dynamic. It is a chosen, CONSENTED TO dynamic. It's not for everyone, nor does it need to be. However, acting as if one type of submission is inherently lesser because it's not to YOUR taste isn't cool.
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@harleylaroux
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6 years
Spreading the gospel of kink, one story at a time ♡
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5 years
Subs who beg as they're getting fucked, begging for more, please, please, harder, please...until they're completely out of breath, dissolving into such a state of pleasure they can no longer form words, just moaning and whimpering beneath their Dom ♡
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Harley Laroux | UPDATES ONLY
6 years
Me to Sir: {\__/} ( • . •) / >🏏 Plz spank me! {\__/} ( • - •) 🏏< \ but not too hard {\__/} ( • . •) / >🏏 actually, yes, hard plz {\__/} ( • - •) 🏏< \ no wait not that hard i'm scared
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@harleylaroux
Harley Laroux | UPDATES ONLY
5 years
Dom/mes can: • have insecurities • have fears • have doubts • have limits • make mistakes • say they're sorry • always have more to learn • be humble • be kind • be soft-spoken • be anxious Having a Dominant role does not make one any less human, remember that ♡
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5 years
@kzabrekker You better believe I kept my cursor ON the X to close the page, with a Neopets window open in the background. My clicker finger was QUICK, I could hear the hallway floors creak 🤣
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Harley Laroux | UPDATES ONLY
5 years
This idea that being concerned about consent is somehow "soft" needs to go. Consent is BASIC in BDSM, my dudes. Whether you're just wading into bondage or if you're conducting CNC scenes: CONSENT, CONSENT, CONSENT. Giving LESS of a fuck the more intense you get isn't a thing.
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5 years
Erotica Author + Kink Enthusiast ✨ ✨ Amazon Kindle ✨ Wattpad ✨
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6 years
Okay but slow sensual sex while they whisper the absolute filthiest ways they could destroy you in your ear?? And tell you how lucky you are that they're going easy on you this time??? And that if you keep up whimpering, they'll give you something to really whimper about????
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6 years
Comfort spankings don't get enough credit. Had a bad day and need a good cathartic cry? Comfort spanking. Feeling just icky and frustrated and TENSE? Comfort spanking. Feeling anxious and need reassurance of who's in control? Comfort spanking.
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5 years
Submissives - You deserve a Dominant who gives a shit about you. Seriously, you do. Your submission, your exchange of power, is a gift and a responsibility. You deserve to be valued ♡
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Harley Laroux | UPDATES ONLY
5 years
Consent makes BDSM what it is: a willing and beautiful exploration of power, play, sexuality, and sensation. But if you are not operating with consent, you're not a Dominant, you're not a submissive. You're an abuser. Plain and simple.
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Your Dom degrading you for being a filthy slut AND Simultaneously praising you for being a filthy slut
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5 years
A sub bent over and spanked in just their thigh high socks... That's it. That's the tweet. It would be adorable. Go put your sub in some thigh highs and spank 'em.
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5 years
Don't start a second #WIP in the middle of #editing your first one, don't do it, don't do it, even though the plot is so juicy, don't do it... But...but I really want to 😅 Anyone else in the #WritingCommunity doing two books/stories at once?
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5 years
Getting fucked again when you're already sore...still dripping from the last time...taking it even though it hurts so good...while Alpha whispers, "I need to keep you nice and sore, baby. Can't have you forgetting who owns this hole, now can I?"
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5 years
"You're taking it so well" + a kiss on the cheek in the midst of an intensely sadistic scene is the stuff wet dreams are made of ♡♡♡
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5 years
A lot of these Twitter "Doms" just make me laugh with how RIDICULOUS they sound, but man... they'll have so many lovely, beautiful submissives following them and just...ugh, subs, you deserve way WAY better than a guy who thinks all Doms are male and brags about his dick all day.
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Harley Laroux | UPDATES ONLY
5 years
cw | humiliation, exhibitionism Getting spanked in front of your Dom's friends because naughty pets don't get privacy and if you're going to misbehave in public then you're going to get punished in public ♡
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Harley Laroux | UPDATES ONLY
4 years
If someone is claiming to be a BDSM "guide" or "educator," and what they teach is that a submissive must have no limits or boundaries, or that your needs as a sub don't matter, that is not a safe educator, nor frankly, a safe person.
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5 years
My husband just sent this to me, and honestly this is what I do on the timeline all day
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6 years
D/s relationships require open communication. Even when it's hard, unpleasant, or awkward. Things can't just be allowed to fester. A sub shouldn't be afraid to approach their Dom with something, and vice versa. Because at the end of the day, you're both equal individuals.
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5 years
A Dom pounding into Their sub, the sub drooling around their gag, legs sticky with cum, face flushed, hair disheveled, moaning and trembling - and all the while their Dom praises them. "You're doing so well. So beautiful, little one. I love the way you sound, the way you shake."
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5 years
A good Dominant will support and respect your mental health. A good submissive will support and respect your mental health. A good partner, friend, family member, boss WILL SUPPORT AND RESPECT YOUR MENTAL HEALTH. ("Support" given in whatever ways they are able to ♡)
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Me: I'm a skilled writer who will continue to improve the more I practice. I'm aware of my strengths & weaknesses & how to improve them. First drafts are never perfect 😌 Also Me: I suck, my writing sucks, I am a fraud, what is this garbage, no one could possibly like this 🙃
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6 years
Within 3 years, my ex had broken up with me twice, cheated, & convinced me I was not worth loving. Within 3 years my fiance proposed, got a house with me, encouraged me to pursue what I loved, and NEVER left me in doubt. When it's right, it's right.
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5 years
Seriously friends, if asserting your limits, using your safeword, asking to slow down, or ANY OTHER BASIC COMMUNICATION is a problem or annoyance for your Dom/me, consider that a red flag. A big red flag.
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Gentle reminder that your body type does not "decide" which D/s role you're worthy of. You can be a tiny Dominant, a tall sub, fat, skinny, muscular - all body types are worthy and valid ♡
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5 years
Imagine your Dom spanking you in public: taking you somewhere just barely out of sight, making you face the wall, pulling up your skirt, holding your wrists pinned as They growl softly, "You should've behaved. Is this how you want to be seen? Keep quiet & take what you deserve."
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My husband & I were coworkers before we dated & one night we went to In n Out after work, & we sat there stuffing our faces with burgers just talking & I said I'm kinda kinky & he just says, "Well I have restraints at home so..." And that's how we discovered we were both freaks
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Let this be very, VERY clear: until a safeword has been EXPLICITLY negotiated and decided upon, "NO" IS YOUR SAFEWORD. NO MEANS NO. Unless you have EXPLICITLY NEGOTIATED OTHERWISE, such as in the case of a consensual non-consent scene, when you say "no", IT BETTER BE RESPECTED.
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Harley Laroux | UPDATES ONLY
5 years
My dear submissive friends, When you put love, devotion, and care into your submission, I promise you deserve that in return. You do not deserve to be thrown away. You do not deserve to be taken advantage of or lied to. You deserve care. You deserve happiness ♡
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6 years
How shalt thou horrify thy family today?
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Apparently Doms are supposed to wear dark suits and run massive businesses and be very Serious and Intimidating™ but my Dom solves Rubix cubes and cuddles our kitties and likes to do magic tricks with playing cards when he's drunk and honestly I like that a lot better ♡
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5 years
cw | cnc The Fantasy: hold me down, tie me up, let me struggle, make me beg! The Reality: safeword is known and will be respected. Pre-negotiated limits are upheld. Trust has been established. Environment is safe. Aftercare will be given. Consent is ongoing ♡
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5 years
Regardless of whether someone is a Dominant or submissive, until you BOTH have given consent to a power exchange, you're on EQUAL STANDING. There is NO power exchange occuring without consent. Simply knowing someone identifies as a sub gives you NO RIGHT to power over them.
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My parents tried to "cure" me with the Bible and threats of Hell - I was still bi. I dated a woman - I was still bi. I dated a man - I was still bi. I got married to the love of my life - I am still bi. Happy #BiVisibilityDay friends! You're valid, you're loved, you belong ♡
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6 years
Well I've already happy-cried twice today and my wedding isn't even until tomorrow so you can bet I'm gonna be an emotional mess. But! I'M MARRYING MY BEST FRIEND!!! Thank you to everyone who has offered congrats, I appreciate you all so much ♡♡♡ I'll be back soon!
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Whenever I would see authors post photos surrounded by their piles of paperbacks, I would think, "Damn, I really hope I get there someday." Well here I am, signing the first book I published in paperback 🖤 Signed paperbacks of The Dare ship out tomorrow! 🖤
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My phone keeps auto-correcting "you" to "toy," so I've now sent several texts sounding like an overly committed Dom. "When will toy be home?" "Can toy clean the litter box?" "What would toy like for dinner?" Oops 😅
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5 years
Reminder for the New Year: Lube is your friend ♡ Needing lube isn't an indication that anyone has "failed" ♡ Wetness/lack thereof isn't a good indicator of sexual arousal level ♡ Care about your partner's pleasure, keep communication open, and LUBE UP! ♡
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6 years
Men who own cats know how to keep pussies happy and that's just FACTS.
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i am baby (and by "baby" I mean I am a grown adult with a healthy understanding of my wants and needs, capable of taking care of myself and shouldering responsibilities, but who finds an immense amount of comfort in the act of relinquishing control to someone close and trusted)
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I was raised to think that sex was bad unless it was between a husband + wife, and for most of my teenage years I was terrified that my kinky desires meant I was sick, disturbed, evil. I just want to create a positive space where curious kinky folks don't have to feel that ♡
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Husband and I: *have his sister over for dinner* Our Cat: *decides it is now the opportune time to drag our ropes out of the bedroom and into the dining room* Sister-in-law: "Oh...I guess some things do run in the family..." I- 😳😳😳
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I love my rave community but what we are NOT GONNA DO is harass sex workers & try to shame them. So much of the fashion/attire/aesthetics we ravebabes love to wear is directly inspired by strippers/BDSM/fetish gear and we need to RESPECT THAT & RESPECT our working sisters ❤
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6 years
In 2019 we are muting and blocking instead of wasting emotional labor on folks who aren't even interested in what we have to say. In 2019 we are not responding to/retweeting trolls, thereby giving them the attention they wanted anyway. In 2019 we are unbothered.
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✨️ COVER REVEAL ✨️ The wait is finally almost over! Soul of a Witch, the third and final book in the Souls Trilogy, will be releasing on August 31st, 2023! Monsters lurk in the woods, magic is in the air, and an evil God is stirring... Preorder:
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Comforting punishments ♡ Having your Dom calmly explain what your punishment will be and what you did wrong, and why it's so important to keep the rules the two of you created together, comforting your guilt, reassuring you that you're cared for ♡
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Being kind, gentle, respectful, loving, affectionate, or encouraging to your submissive(s) will NEVER make you less of a Dominant. Being a Dom/me does not REQUIRE you to be "hard." What it DOES require is realizing there is no One True Way to D/s - besides consent, always.
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Writing a Strong Female Character, to me, doesn't mean writing an eternally badass woman who can Do No Wrong & is always perfectly in control. It means writing a fully fleshed-out woman, with ups, downs, good & bad traits. A woman written as a human & not a caricature.
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I want: 𝕤𝕡𝕒𝕟𝕜𝕚𝕟𝕘𝕤 𝓼𝓹𝓪𝓷𝓴𝓲𝓷𝓰𝓼 🅂🄿🄰🄽🄺🄸🄽🄶🅂 ⓢⓟⓐⓝⓚⓘⓝⓖⓢ 𝖘𝖕𝖆𝖓𝖐𝖎𝖓𝖌𝖘 𝙨𝙥𝙖𝙣𝙠𝙞𝙣𝙜𝙨 s̶p̶a̶n̶k̶i̶n̶g̶s̶ spankings
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6 years
Holy crap guys... I'M GETTING MARRIED IN 3 DAYS!!! 😱 Excuse me if my responses/tweets are sporadic & frazzled for the next few days, lol 🖤
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4 years
"Don't bite." But a brat with a cock in their mouth can't resist - just a little touch of teeth - just a little to tease, with a giggle - Until Sir shoves their head down and promptly throat-fucks that brattiness away. "Don't. Bite."
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3 years
If you see a listing for Her Soul to Take on Apple Books, it's stolen. The Souls Trilogy is exclusive to Kindle and Kindle Unlimited, and because someone else decided they want to try to make money off MY WORK, Amazon is threatening to remove Her Soul to Take from KU.
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5 years
Psssst...you don't have to be a Dominant or submissive to enjoy kinky things or have fetishes ♡ Be as kinky as you'd like, and if D/s isnt for you, that's okay ♡ Just remember that things like aftercare, discussion of limits, communication, etc STILL APPLY to non-D/s kink ♡
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Hi! ♡ You can be into bondage but not be into having a D/s relationship. You can like sadomasochism and not want to incorporate D/s. You can want a D/s relationship and not want to incorporate bondage or painplay... AND MANY OTHER VARIATIONS! BDSM is varied and personal ♡
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5 years
Being told that your pathetic little sounds are cute? And that you look so pretty when you're crying from overstimulation? Or that you sound beautiful when you scream? Or that all your struggling against your cuffs is just so adorable? Oof, my heart ♡♡♡
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6 years
Holy crap. I did it. It's done. 153k words. 4 years of trying to figure out this story and 11 months of writing this draft. It's done! I finished the first draft of Love and Exorcisms OH MY GOD! ♡♡♡
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| TITLE REVEAL | Souls 3, the final book in the Souls Trilogy, is Soul of a Witch! What can you expect in Soul of a Witch? • creepy cult things • a witch learning to control her power • a demon powerful enough to rival a god • rope 👀 • an old coven house full of secrets
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5 years
It is ILLEGAL not to give your sub cuddles at least 3 times a day and if they do not get their allotted cuddles they turn into a Brat so this is a WARNING to all Doms that you better cuddle your sub REALLY GOOD. And uh, if you already have a bratty sub, um, maybe cuddle harder?
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@harleylaroux
Harley Laroux | UPDATES ONLY
5 years
You don't have to justify not wanting to personally engage in a kink, fetish, or any other sexual act. If you are uncomfortable, no one should be shaming you for it, pressuring you, or implying you're a bad partner/submissive/Dominant for not wanting to. Limits are limits.
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Harley Laroux | UPDATES ONLY
6 years
What are some movies you can watch over and over again and never get sick of? For me it's Lord of the Rings, The Conjuring, Emperor's New Groove, and Howl's Moving Castle, to name a few 😍
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Harley Laroux | UPDATES ONLY
3 years
So it has been ages and ages since I changed my profile pic on here. I've always used the lovely sketch @miamercuryart drew of me 🖤 But although my hair is still blue, it's no longer long, so it's time a new profile pic came around.
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Harley Laroux | UPDATES ONLY
5 years
Might be time to scare off any innocent folks who wandered in here... *ahem* I WRITE PORN! MY WRITING IS VERY DIRTY! THIS TWITTER IS FULL OF HORNINESS! GET OUT OF MY SWAMP! *waits* Okay, now the rest of y'all, let's have some tea ♡
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Harley Laroux | UPDATES ONLY
5 years
Please remember that there is a difference between punishing your sub as part of your negotiated power exchange, and "punishing" because you're angry and there's toxic interactions taking place. BIG difference.
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Harley Laroux | UPDATES ONLY
5 years
tw | pedophilia, csa In the last 24 hours I've seen some truly horrific, vile things being defended and posted. I do not want to go into details & bring potential harm to folks who follow me. But children are NOT part of kink. Children's bodies, attraction to them, is NOT kink.
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Harley Laroux | UPDATES ONLY
5 years
cw | degradation A Dom pounding into Their sub until they're moaning, getting louder and louder, unable to control themselves from how good it feels - but instead of a ballgag, the Dom puts Their fingers in the sub's mouth, saying, "Shut up & suck them like a good little doll."
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Harley Laroux | UPDATES ONLY
6 years
"Do you like that, little slut?" "Mmm." "Words, talk to me." "Mmm...mm-hm." "Little one. Breath. Use your words. Are you okay?" "Yes." "I won't go on unless you say so." "I know, Sir." "Is this okay? Or shall we try something else?" "This is good, Sir. Thank you."
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@harleylaroux
Harley Laroux | UPDATES ONLY
5 years
A word of caution, from experience: be VERY cautious of a Dom/me who tries to cut you off from family, friends, or community. Be cautious of someone who uses this as a mark of loyalty - trying to isolate you by insisting that it is in "devotion" to them. Abusers want you alone.
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@harleylaroux
Harley Laroux | UPDATES ONLY
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A Domme takes Her sub out shopping for the day, the sub obediently carrying her Mistress's bags as they go from store to store. The sub wears the pink collar her Mistress gifted her, and under her skirt she's plugged, the fullness a constant reminder of her Mistress's ownership.
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Harley Laroux | UPDATES ONLY
5 years
Pet names require consent. Titles require consent. If you can't respect something so simple as what you address someone as - such as not addressing a submissive as "babygirl" or a Dom as "Daddy" w/o their consent - then you may not be very safe to play with. RESPECT CONSENT.
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Harley Laroux | UPDATES ONLY
6 years
I don't get how people manage to write in public. How do you act out your character dialogue in the middle of your local coffee shop??
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Harley Laroux | UPDATES ONLY
6 years
Whether you're kinky or vanilla, no one has the right to tell you how to live your sex life (outside of informed consent + general safety). Whether you have a lot of sex or no sex. Whether you choose to keep it very private or public. Sex and sexuality are part of humanity.
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Harley Laroux | UPDATES ONLY
5 years
Hey you! Yeah, you, the person beating yourself up for not being "productive" enough when you're already running yourself ragged: stop. Take a breath. You're doing the best you can ♡
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@harleylaroux
Harley Laroux | UPDATES ONLY
6 years
Not every book needs to save the world. Not every book needs to be The Next Great Novel. Not every book needs to be SO SERIOUS. Let yourself write for fun. Let yourself laugh at it. Let yourself enjoy it.
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@harleylaroux
Harley Laroux | UPDATES ONLY
5 years
Cum. Just like... Absurd amounts of cum. Leaking out of a sub's every hole... Running slick down their legs... And then getting filled with even more... ...𝘢 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘤𝘦𝘱𝘵
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@harleylaroux
Harley Laroux | UPDATES ONLY
6 years
PSA: "I don't have the money to buy this art. Therefore, I won't." ⬅️ OK "I don't believe this art is worth the price. Therefore, I won't buy/commission it." ⬅️ OK "I don't want to pay for this art, but wish to consume it. Give it to me for free/discounted." ⬅️ NOT OK
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@harleylaroux
Harley Laroux | UPDATES ONLY
5 years
Whoever thinks missionary is a boring position has just never done it while having their partner squeeze their throat, look down into their eyes, and taunt them for being a dirty little babygirl. Intimidating eye contact is PRIME in missionary
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