Every time I see some young person listing out all their trauma and mental illness in their cardd like they've never seen a single PSA on internet safety
"omg I hate ao3 I want it gone"
You know what sucks? Broken links to sites that don't EXIST anymore, scouring for a fic you can remember entire passages from but it fell in the purge and it's GONE.
Ao3 was a godsend. I actually found some old fic that had been archived there
Anyways, petition to start calling fandom related content 'fanworks' again bc ppl are so used to the idea of consuming content that they don't appreciate the effort and love that goes into making fanworks
'Makes me uncomfortable' isn't a valid criticism. It's a valid emotional response, but emotional responses don't tell me if something is good or bad. It just tells me that you're uncomfortable. Which you're allowed to be. Maybe don't make it the entire
There is no universe where I, an adult, want to hear a minor's opinion about porn, a medium they're not legally allowed to consume or purchase. Even just thinking about it makes my skin crawl. P l e a s e find something else to be publicly ignorant about I'm b e g g i n g you.
Antis: If ur gonna be a FREAK do it on a locked account!!
Someone: *does that*
Also antis: *weasels their way into a locked account specifically to do a callout post* How dare this person I don't actually know do this?!? I have been PERSONALLY BETRAYED. I AM THE VICTIM HERE!!!
*aggressively taps sign*
Dead dove it NOT for sad shit!! It's for completely FUCKED UP shit that is APPROPRIATELY tagged and if you read it and feel bad IT IS YOUR FUCKIN FAULT
Do NOT use it for anything besides deeply fucked up stuff!! Do NOT!!!!
Lesson time: Dead Dove: Do Not Eat isn't supposed to be a catchall tag for shit that might make you "uncomfy"
It's the writer telling you that You Have Been Warned, okay, they've tagged all the Gnarly Shit, alright, and It Is Fucking On You if you Read and Regret
that I thought was gone forever. Is it perfect? No, it's run by humans and humans aren't perfect.
It's the best option for fanworks, though. I don't wanna live through another purge, or strikethrough, or go to reread a fic I've read ten times only to find it deleted.
Geralt, raising his voice slightly so he can speak to Jaskier down at the other end of the grocery store aisle: do you want any chips?
Jaskier, at full volume: I'M ALWAYS A SLUT FOR DORITOS
@pantaloonzzz
It's like you reached directly into my brain and made this a beautiful thing and not just an idle bit of musing.
I love it! I love how dynamic their expressions are. I love that Lucy is still wearing her boots and I love that Cooper is too overwhelmed to even look at her!
Ciri: Tell someone you love them today, because life is short.
Yennefer: But scream it at them in German, because life is also confusing and scary.
*Later*
Geralt, at the top of his lungs: ICH LIEBE DICH
Jaskier, scared and confused: I-
Why don't these ppl get that if they create an app or ads get their hooks into ao3 they won't stop at the stuff written by the "freaks"
We're all freaks to them. The axe will come down, and it won't discriminate against types of freakishness, or queerness
You think a wholesome coffeeshop au will survive bc it's not dark fic? Nsfw is the first thing to fall, so it better not be sexy. Better not have trans ppl, or poly, or anything other than the most highly bland and sanitized and "safe" version of queerness then
Once again, want to remind everyone that CP is not a thing. It's an outdated term for CSEM/CSAM. I refuse to take anyone who uses said outdated term seriously. Actual CSEM/CSAM is NOT PORN. IT'S DOCUMENTED ABUSE.
Yennefer: How do tall people sleep? Wouldn't their feet go right past the blanket?
Geralt: Yen, it's three in the morning.
Yennefer: You can't sleep?
Geralt:
Yennefer: Is it the blanket?
basis of your critique, though. It leaves the door open to other primarily emotional responses.
So you end up with groups of people who are all upset/angry, and I'm over here, still not able to tell if that book is well written or not.
It just makes you uncomfortable.
South Park antis existing is just. It makes no sense. The entire point of the show is to be offensive and gross. WHY ARE YOU WATCHING IT. WHAT ARE YOU GETTING OUT OF IT.
Jaskier: I never let anything like common sense or the concern from dear friends get in the way of my having a good time
Geralt, tired: I really wish you would
Now that I'm toasted and thinking about it, it makes SENSE that so many antis are in the horror community bc people are regularly murdered for being sexual in those movies
Reminder that tags are meant for organizational purposes, even if we're all guilty of being a bit silly about them sometimes. If you post abuse in the tags, you're going to get reported.
I can't believe the antis went for selfcest??? It's not real. It's like saying sex with ghosts is immoral.
It doesn't matter. Because it's impossible. Because it's not real. There are no laws written about it because! It! Can! Never! Happen!
Antis: I made this huge post, stalked this person for weeks, screenshotted their tweets and compiled it in this doc for everyone to look at but DON'T HARASS THEM THIS ISN'T FOR HARASSMENT PURPOSES OR CLOUT I CARE ABOUT MENTAL HEALTH
What a fuckin joke I hope you fuckin choke
It is, though. It IS on them, or their parents, to steer clear of nsfw stuff. They are literally responsible for themselves, to self-censor and keep out of areas that are, for the most part, clearly marked as Not For Them
Every porn site has steps for age confirmation
Google comes WITH safe search, which YOU have to turn off
And humans have always been nasty and raunchy
Porn isn't inescapable but internet literacy has tanked so ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
What tf is this mess????? Also how r u gonna make sure ur contributors r trans? Also wtf is tasteful nudity? Also who's gonna trust u w their info? Nobody with sense, that's for sure jfc
1. I muted this the second it went over 50 likes
2. I stole this ss from someone else
3. OP is a minor (yikes) so pls don't go bother them
4. Check out my ko-fi I am very poor
I really, desperately, hate when ppl claim a certain media has sexually assaulted them w an unexpected sex scene bc it's literally impossible. You buying the book, the ticket, you clicking ok on your remote, that's you giving your consent. It isn't the media's fault
I get he's ur fav, and all, but y'all gotta stop moving the goalposts around; I can't keep track of what's okay and what'll get me sent to Super Mega Hell lmfao
U can't just trigger a harassment campaign, toss up some fuckin disclaimer and wash ur hands of it. That's not how it fuckin works. At some point ur just gonna have to own up to being a rotten fuckin person who hurts other people just bc u can and bc u fuckin ENJOY DOING SO
@kishimotomasshi
It took me a full minute of staring between that tweet and your username before the reality of this jumped up and laid me out with a frying pan 🥲
1. This is attention seeking behavior.
2. Censoring trigger words guarantees that the people who will be triggered by them will see them.
3. I'm twice over the victim of incest, starting in my toddlerhood and ending around when I was thirteen.
cont//
Not them forgetting that antis spew terf and racist shit all the time, AGAIN
Freaks of color, anyone? Claiming transmen are just women who fetishize gay men to the point of "cosplaying" as them, A N Y O N E?
I guess all I can really say about the Ang situation is that if you're on the same side as actual rapists and predators and abusers, you're ON THE WRONG SIDE
Yennefer: FUCK holding hands for romantic purposes. hold my hand while walking on an icy sidewalk so if one of us slips we both eat shit
Jaskier: that is a romantic purpose
Lesson time: Dead Dove: Do Not Eat isn't supposed to be a catchall tag for shit that might make you "uncomfy"
It's the writer telling you that You Have Been Warned, okay, they've tagged all the Gnarly Shit, alright, and It Is Fucking On You if you Read and Regret
cool uh as a queer abuse survivor i think telling other ppl how to either cope w their trauma or that the way they ARE coping makes them a freak/pedo or that they're "retraumatizing" themselves is wrong and u should just not be around other abuse victims
I hate this idea that victims are morally pure children who don't lie, like lying isn't one of the best tools in our arsenals for conflict avoidance. We lie bc it generally works, in the moment, to keep ourselves safe. It's not betrayal for us. It's safety.
Antis are the MOST anti-boundary people I've ever run into, like, they're up there with parents who don't let their kids have doors on top of reading their diaries and listening in on their phone calls and shit 😒
"pro shippers say people shouldn't have boundaries and shame them if they try"
Hey bestie what the fuck do you think the pro ship trends of "tag your fic", "mark your NSFW", and "put 🔞 in bio" mean? Explain quickly
Looking at it is a crime. Having it is a crime. Censoring it and posting it is a crime. DMing it to all your friends is a crime. Doesn't matter how old you are. Doesn't matter about your intentions. You are participating in the abuse of a child.
Yennefer: I have the sharpest memory. Name one time I forgot something.
Jaskier: You left me waiting outside in the cold for hours during a game of hide and seek.
Yennefer: I did that on purpose.
Tags like this are annoying bc they don't fucking work. You think someone who's a genuine fetishist (fetishizer? idefk) is gonna see that tag and get a spontaneous personality transplant and move on to the next thing? No. But I sure as shit ain't reading now ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
Once again: I am NOT responsible for other people's children. If they're old enough to use the internet unsupervised, they should be old enough to block and curate and keep themselves safe. It's not on me or anyone else to do that for them.
We know it won't end well. We know all the lies pile up and we'll be drowning before we can blink. But that's a problem for another day. We didn't break trust bc we never trusted you. And shit like this is WHY.
@GojiraSpouse
(I didn't even notice the typo bc I muted this as soon as I posted it and stumbled upon your response on my tl) Yeah, it's worrying how much they don't seem to understand this ;-;
4. Shipping does not, largely, involve real people. They aren't real. No one will leap through the screen, to thank you and give you the validation you clearly want.
Maybe just leave people alone? Don't poke around in places you don't wanna be; trust me, you'll be happier.
kink at pride: *exists from the start*
all these new little baby queers who care more about appearing safe than being expressively, openly, and loudly queer:
So many of them are self-shippers who are Pure and Good™️ and above the petty reality of sex and base urges!! They are the special exception!! They're Safe and Loved!! Main character bullshit FOR SURE lmao
@fuckyouiquit
I'm sorry, are they telling ppl who do backbreaking and dangerous labor what they're allowed to wear, now? And basically no one is doing that kind of work in a dress/skirt anyways, on account of not wanting it to get snagged on smth 😒
Winterfox is a known abuser, and yet.
AND YET.
Just bc a person isn't terrible to you specifically doesn't mean they aren't terrible to OTHER PEOPLE.
Ppl in her corner are acting like the guys who "can't believe" their buddy abuses his wife :///
You're useful, is the thing. You make a wonderful shield. The moment you're no longer useful, you'll get your own 'degenerate' label and shunted out the backdoor with all the other unnatural freaks.
Not wanting certain content in your zine is totally fine. But dictating what contributors can and cannot create outside of it? That's so far over the line it's ridiculous.
Have fun with your nonproblematic zine about a person who tried to commit genocide, tho 💚
I just saw someone say libraries don't carry straight up smut or porn and like. Has this person never stepped foot in the romance section? It's chock full of books that are just smut strung loosely together with "plot".
Jaskier smells mostly like what humans do: sweat and blood and sometimes like sex, but all things have a scent that is them and only them.
The first time Getalt gets a proper whiff of Jaskier the bard is wandering around their camp in his small clothes,
Lucy: Don't kill me! I have a boyfriend!
Raider Scum: You think I care about that?
Lucy: Oh, no, this isn't a plea for mercy, it's a warning.
Raider Scum: Wha-
Cooper, busting thru the wall: ARE YOU READY TO DIE, FUCKER?!?