@scrowder It’s really disappointing to read how many people feel they would just abandon their partner immediately. It’s giving “I never actually loved them in the first place and I put my expectations and needs before the people I claim to love”.

being vers, I feel just as much boner anxiety as I do bottom anxiety 😬. my dick doesn’t always work the way I’d like, and sometimes my ass is too sensitive to have sex all the time… and that’s okay. the pressure to perform is so high, we should all be much kinder to each other.

@scrowder I said what I said. Read it again if you’re confused. I understand how sexual orientation works. *Abandoning* a partner you claim to love *immediately* if they came out as trans is disappointing. You understand that when a person comes out they’re still exactly the same right?.

I’ll never forget the night I was at the Eagle, introduced myself to a popular twitter gay that I liked and the way he put his big hand on top of my head without saying a word, pushed me to my knees and bruised the heck out of my throat… that was legendary 🥲🎀.