You’ve built a life most people admire—career, business, fitness, personal growth. You’re the one others turn to for advice. But when the weight gets heavy, who’s in your corner? Over the past two years, I’ve had 1,000+ conversations with high-performing men—CEOs, VCs, special forces veterans, pro athletes—who all say the same thing in private: Success is isolating. Here’s what I’ve heard behind closed doors: ° “I just found out my teenager is self-harming, and I feel like I failed as a father. Where did I go wrong?” ° “I’ve been secretly supporting my elderly parents to keep them from being homeless, but I can’t tell my fiancée. I feel like I’m carrying a boulder—alone.” ° “I’m about to become a dad, and I’m faking excitement for my wife, but deep down, I’m terrified I’ll regret this.” In their professional lives, these men thrive in teams. Military units, pro sports teams, high-performing companies—all built on strong support systems. But personally? They’re lone wolves. I get it. In my early years building a nonprofit, I had mentors and peers who challenged and supported me. But as I transitioned into new chapters, I pulled back—worried that even my most successful friends might see me differently if they knew my personal struggles. So, I've built a private community for men like us, that I'll share more about soon. A place where guys who’ve spent years carrying the weight alone can finally drop the armor. Where they can be met where they are—and supported in where they want to go. If you’ve ever felt like no one truly gets the pressure you carry, you’re not alone. Success doesn’t have to be a solo journey. I’m curious—what’s one challenge you’ve carried alone that you wish you had support with? Drop a comment or DM me. Let’s start the conversation.

In 2024, my wife and I made some radical choices: ° Moved our family to a new country ° Left the employee life to found something new again ° Pulled our kids out of the school system and started hybrid homeschooling These choices haven't been easy or conventional, and they're not always understood by everyone around us. But they've revealed something important: who our most open-minded, curious friends are. They've reinforced that my family and I are committed to thinking critically—not just about our children's future, but about how we wish to show up in the world. What I've learned is that asking better questions is perhaps the most important skill for making decisions that align with our family's core values. In a world of increasing complexity, the right questions help us navigate toward peace, harmony, and purpose. A few key lessons from our journey: 1. Own your alternative choices. Not everyone will understand your decisions, and that's okay. Your choices come from critical thinking, earned experience, and core values. 2. Create calm adventures. Home isn't a place; it's the calm, regulated nervous system you create. Adventure doesn't have to mean adrenaline—it can be as simple as curiosity and exploration. 3. Celebrate shared stories. The real legacy of your family won't be the successes or milestones—it'll be the stories you create together. 4. Connect before correcting. Every time you rush to correct your kids, you miss a chance to connect. Pause. Listen. Meet them where they are. The older I get, the more questions I have—and the fewer answers. But I'm learning that's exactly where growth happens.