Living with the guilt and blaming yourself is two different things to me. It is okay to live with your guilt while improving yourself, so the mistakes will not be repeated again and that's what I did—I projected my blame and my loss to be better for myself and for the new people.
In my own personal opinion deh, everyone has their own way in coping with grief and I don't think we have any right to tell them how to cope with theirs. Some people—they find their coping mechanism through prayers, some through sleep, some through cigarettes and more.
Hari ini ketahuan merokok sama Ayah Ibu. Ya seperti yang sudah-sudah, it’s always all about them, it’s never about me :)
“Ayah ngajarin orang gak merokok. Ke adekmu juga,” kata Ayah.
“Itu nilai Ayah. Ini nilaiku,” kataku.
Ibu kirim postingan: hargai ibumu selagi hidup.
I'd say today is a good friday apart from it being Friday the 13th. I managed to spend some time for dinner with Pa, had a lot of conversations despite the awkwardness we have. I mean—being the oldest daughter is not easy. I wish everyone a lovely night dreams.
Reply and I’ll give you a four-letter word to post your favorite films. I got “FIRE”.
F: Forrest Gump (1994)
I: Into the Wild (2007)
R: Red Eye (2005)
E: Eternal Sunshine of Spotless Mind (2004)
Reply and I’ll give you a four-letter word to post your favorite films. I got “BACK”.
B: Braid (2018)
A: A Ghost Story (2017)
C: Coherence (2013)
K: Kumiko, the Treasure Hunter (2014)
Once upon a time, it did. It impacted me a lot on which school was the best that offered me a scholarship waktu itu. Ya Tuhan, God knows how obnoxious I was. I stopped halfway through because of some family matters, (it was complicated). After a few years of struggling—
-rl Guys, usia 23+ pasti sedikit banyak temen kalian ada yang punya pencapaian kayak udah bisa be-li rumah, S2, dll. Naaah, kalian pernah gak merasa insecure? Gimana sih cara ngurangin cemas sama insecurenya? Insecurenya karena pencapaian belum sebanyak itu.
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"But I vow to always hear you over the sound of my ambition. I will always be curious about you. You’ve shown me the value of always learning, growing, and caring, and I’ve never loved you more than in this moment.
A little appreciation tweet to my Mom. She knows when I'm tired and overwork, I tend not to eat and sleep it off. Jadi aku lembur hari ini and usually she sleeps in right after Maghrib. Tapi malam ini dia nungguin aku pulang and not even that, she heated the food she kept.
@munvess
I'm Alyssa, I go by the pronouns of she/her and legal by age, I welcome anyone as long as you are legal. My interests are currently rests in sports, fashion, some good rom-coms and TV shows. I have three cats at home and I listen to Sade, Kendrick Lamar and Frank Ocean recently.
September. As the leaves begin to turn and the air takes on the crisp autumnal chill. I find myself filled with a renewed sense of hope and possibility. September marks a new chapter in my journey, a chance to embrace fresh beginnings and manifest my dreams.
Throwing shades to others and especially towards strangers online is so wrong. You don't know their story, you don't know what they went through. Hence, I could never understand some people that preaches about kindness, and yet, see the comments, it's terrifying.
However, I'm glad Charles representing kuda kepang winning the hearts of the Tifosi this year. He deserved it, definitely. Congratulations for winning your second race this year,
#16
, ❤️🔥🏁.
—my gratitude buat Arthur for always being the sweetest writing partner. Agak kaget bisa ketemu partner yang kompak, the sweetest and of course, yang sefrekuensi and I believe sometimes, God wants us to meet for a reason. Thank you for making me and my character feel so loved.
Mmm—gimana mulainya. I used to do something really stupid over my own insecurities and it had hurt not just me but some of my friends, it's been three years and the guilt still lingers around—oftentimes it affects the way I see things.
guys how do you deal with the feeling of guilt and stop blaming yourself after you hurt someone? i need some advices if you don't mind, thanks in advance -rl
Rather than being mad to the OP for sharing her thoughts, I think the best we could do is to offer her support that she needs. Yes—sometimes, the way we cope may not be a good way, for instance, like smoking, stress-eating, or whatsoever.
I woke today—feeling a bit blue, wasn't sure why but I knew that I was just being emotional about everything that has been going on lately. The good things, the good people around, it makes me feel really good and I truly am grateful, though. I truly want to extend—
—amongst my friends and now ex (turned into friends), I am where I am today. I think what's important is 'acceptance' and it's gonna be a hard pass on that. Once, you have accepted that everyone is moving on their own pace and it's not like highschool anymore,—
Watching you choose yourself when I didn’t will always prove as a reminder to me of your incredible strength and what a privilege it is to call you mine. I want to spend the rest of my nights with you. I want to spend the next decade working to be the man you always deserved.
Someone who lacks emotional intelligence—and keeps things very personal and bias for their own judgement. Someone that doesn't give others the space to explain themselves, and believes one's right at all times. Someone who is a bad communicator, when I say bad, it's really bad.
Those words mean nothing when you know yourself better than anyone else. Change means growing and as much as I wish to have you by my side—I think it's the best is to watch you from afar—to see you grow up into the charming girl you are today. Tetep semangat, adikku.
It can be hard at times but I think the companionship that we had for each other for the past few days has somehow healed whatever that was inside us—which truly will build us up in the better way in the future. I'm going to stop avoiding Leos, now,
@snmoking
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—life will be much more easier, things will not be more complicated as you think (on certain aspect). You will eventually grow out of those feelings, but it requires a deep amount of courage for you to do that. Hal ini could be small for many of others, but to some is a big deal.
—I made it to where I am now. It is for sure has impacted me emotionally as my insecurities bener-bener out of place which leads me to do things that are really stupid. I was out of hand, really. But I think with my mom's du'a and the support system that I had, especially—
As much as I want to fall in love with someone. I mean—to feel loved and to love others, oftentimes, I just don't think that I am a good person to feel love. It's always me giving others so much love while I'm just being shredded apart.
"But I vow to always hear you over the sound of my ambition. I will always be curious about you. You’ve shown me the value of always learning, growing, and caring, and I’ve never loved you more than in this moment.