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📚MSPOD | ’Nem•She•They | #TheBisexualNegro | BrattyDaddi - My tweets been my own, gone stay my own. 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️

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@eriseady
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Black folks swear they don’t understand “they” pronouns & in the same breath be like... I was with Ray Ray and ‘nem We the ‘nems!
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Yt folk stay calling systemic racism “all this stuff going on...” 🙃
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Not speaking ill of the dead is how generational trauma gets passed down.
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Reminder that lawyers didn’t have to pass the bar til black & immigrant students began studying law too.
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“If you are silent about your pain, they will kill you and say you enjoyed it.” - Zora Neale Hurston
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Ani!
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Bomboclaat
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Cause they don’t want us to copy & paste.
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why aren’t US media covering massive protests in France over inflation and cost of living?
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Ready for the @MissyElliott Concert!
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“With everything that’s going on in the news”
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The reason I intentionally identify as Bisexual is because of the stigma I’ve received from both gay and heterosexual folks. I know there’s a lot of discourse about us. But if you’re Bi & see this. I hope you’re receiving the love you deserve.
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This the prettiest cornbread I’ve made to date.
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@annatheegreat @__YouLoveJazz “It’s important we seek understanding from both sides. Because, looting is bad.”
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I’m the assistant doing that extra turn on the wobble. #InsecureHBO
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@oomeerrika @chrisalexander_ Cause nobody understands non binary than a nigga that don’t want his girl to know one of the homies was a her. 😬
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@eriseady
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To be clear: I speak ill of the living too. While y’all here. I’m Eris. I wrote a book “BRUH: poems to pay for alimony” I’m $1200 away from being liberated from my ex-husband. You can get the digital version at for $11.
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@CandyCornball I had to do it with Anthem of Praise 😭
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There’s no way that any NBA player would have to endure what Brittney Griner is dealing with in Russia. This country has failed her.
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@tori_texas1 @2sadityray Cause I don’t dream of labor.
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@eriseady
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@NiceGuyEllis @danqdao Because her name is spelled like a pronoun. 🙄
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@eriseady
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Choosing silence is choosing shame. Speaking allows us to shift towards healing.
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Not speaking ill of the dead is how generational trauma gets passed down.
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@snacktavist @watermelondriia “Do you want me to take off my wig” was the moment to have a seat in perpetuity.
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@eriseady
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Baby’s first sunrise 🌅
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@HormoneMonsta I sent this tweet to my gf. Cause this how she be. 😭😭😭😭😭
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Additional thoughts…
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Choosing silence is choosing shame. Speaking allows us to shift towards healing.
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@eriseady
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Tell me you’re from Cleveland without saying you’re from Cleveland: Grada.
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Where your mask to the polls. Cause ain’t nobody else worried about your health. My polling location was filled with folks coughing & hacking unmasked.
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This is perfection.
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My favorite pastime: trolling anti-abortion protesters without confrontation.
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@eriseady
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Looking for a job. 1hr a week. 7k an hour. DM any leads.
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Me earlier: I haven’t seen Chika in my timeline. Hope the homie is cool. @oranicuhh :
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CHIKA 🧚🏾‍♂️
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as a new white, i would like to instruct all negros to cease all use of the N word for the sake of the children. trust me, i marched once.
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My cousin fell last year waiting in long poll lines in Atlanta which put her in the hospital where she eventually passed from covid complications. This country has shown time and time again they give zero fucks about disabled folks.
I think my 4+ commorbidity having ass will be staying home from the polls in 22 and 24. I think all disabled people should. And before people come for me—if you think that’s enough people to make a difference but that you should be “encouraged” that we’re the ones at risk of
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Seven months pregnant. Rounding third base (trimester).
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Y’all bullied Dr. Amy Acton out of doing life saving work for the state. And the cases have only gone up since her resignation. Now @GovMikeDeWine has tested positive. Make it make sense.
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@kewarken @merrpppp “I just read this amazing book at book club & I just want to say, I’m sorry.”
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I can’t help but keep thinking that there are so many jobs available because covid took so many people.
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Wow! 339,000 new jobs were created in the month of May under President Biden surpassing the expected figure of 180,000. This is a huge win for Biden!
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Sexuality is to be explored. It is to be enjoyed. And you are allowed to have access to intimacy without the threat of it escalating into a relationship or situationship. Just be clear & direct about your needs wants and desires.
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I gave birth to a 8lb 7oz Libra Sun & moon, Gemini Rising in the middle of a solar eclipse on Saturday.
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I hope you can be your whole self. I hope that your sense of self isn’t determined by other folks experience of your identity. I hope you aren’t fetishized. I wish you safety & clarity.
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Merry Crimmus y’all ♥️
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It’s isolating to be bisexual. But it’s not your job to prove to anyone that you’re “one of the good ones”.
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@eriseady
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@melanatedmomma This is why I advocate for learning to engage in intimacy without escalation. You can have beautiful experiences with people you’re not meant to be with for the long run. We rob ourselves of so much with those expectations.
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@Nijigakulove You not exhausted from being unoriginal?
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@eriseady
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“WE. ARE THE CRYSTAL. NEMS.”
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We. Are the Crystal. NEMS!
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Me & my turkey tail. ♥️🥹
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Congratulations @DrSamiSchalk on the release of #BlackDisabilityPolitics !
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So my mama broke her toe. She in a boot for six weeks. She just texted me these pics.
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Maternity shoot loading.
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Here’s how I put together my @MissyElliott inspired look ♥️
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Ready for the @MissyElliott Concert!
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@eriseady
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Nobody on #Blackaf is Black af. Was that supposed to be the “gotcha” moment?
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@eriseady
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internalized oppression is a helluva drug. 😢😡😐 #shutdownsmoochr
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@hotboybebop @guavacoochi Y’all really “not all cis” on this post? It’s the fact that ENUFF of y’all is the problem. So just listen.
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@nhoodpublicist I be way too comfortable with my waxer. Be talking to her just like this while she handle the top of my crack. 🤣🤣🤣
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Decisions I need men to make for me: • • • • • • • Hope this list was comprehensive enough.
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Acending is a such a lonely experience. It’s why many of us serve our lower selves because at least you have company. @HoodHealer
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The idea of someone “snapping back” after birth is so insidious. And it’s a terrible goal. Even if the body resumes its previous shape or size… nothing is the same. Nothing. I’m greeting this new body with so much grace.
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I just had to pop in to say thank you to @DrSamiSchalk for always conjuring up some magic! Tonight we danced on stage with @JanelleMonae . And they rubbed my 8.5 month pregnant belly. 🥹 Much gratitude to @wondaland 🥰.
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@SupernovaMomma Yup. This process takes years. She ain’t just up & get those resources at all.
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@consuelx “You know it’s so overwhelming and I just don’t see color.”
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@tk_marie @SixBrownChicks I don’t have to be there at all. I’ll like & comment on IG.
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Funny how mask mandates aren’t a federal issue but abortions are. Ha.
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The way black man specifically handle their discomfort with being attracted to gender diverse femmes is mind boggling. Cause it’s just too much like right to be quiet and reckon with your feelings. You gotta insult. You gotta harass. You gotta harm. Grow up.
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I was such a beautiful teenager. I grieve the years I spent thinking I was ugly. My baby sister is a whole 25 now. 😮‍💨
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Y’all. I got a date on Thursday 🥹. I need a bunch of dad jokes & puns to be prepared. I used all my good ones. They came out the gate swinging! Send help.
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While y’all here... buy my book “BRUH: poems to pay for alimony” on
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Watching Die Hard for the first time. Cause apparently it’s a Christmas movie.
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Bruh. These maternity pics. I don’t even know where to start. They are incredible. @TheDarkRoomCo
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Because of mfs ignorance and transphobia… the guy who did my Limestone Massage in Jamaica asked me to take down the video. I honestly don’t think for a minute that if I was thin and bright skinned with longer hair that it would’ve garnered that kind of attention.
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@eriseady
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I wore my dress backwards so I could nurse.
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Parenthood is indeed the hood.
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@thejournalista Not to mention how the Industrial Revolution shaped what we ate. 🙃
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@lmTheReasonWhy Me and my best friend are platonic life partners and just got a 4 bedroom house for us and the kids. They’ve given me the family structure I’ve always longed for.
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Facts. ✊🏿 RT @_FatalBeautyxo : #BlackTwitter after watching #TheWiz
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#BlackLoveDay my 4 month old brother. With my dad... And my 93 year old grandfather.
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I had a #LongCovid follow up appointment yesterday. And in that 20min call with a Black femme nurse practitioner told me “it’s not in your head” and gave name to the episodes I’ve had for a year+. I wept the whole way through the call.
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@eriseady
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3 years
Taking bets on how long this gallon of Dr. Bronner’s is gone last me.
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The moment I was waiting for!!! @MissyElliott
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You are an answer to a prayer that I barely had words to utter. You are proof that God’s timing is perfect. I can’t wait to meet you. Me, your Dad, and our village is in such anticipation for you. #ErisEady #PregnancyAnnouncement #AlienSuperstar #RenaissanceWorldTour
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Hey y’all.
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@eriseady
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We gotta go back to this greeting since we won’t be shaking hands for the next decade.
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I’m glad MF DOOM’s family got to grieve on their terms. May his memory be a blessing. ♥️🥺
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@tommyasterisk It ain’t allegedly sweetie.
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I got referred to a nail tech, and I told her I was looking for a vibranium/Afro-futurism vibe. She understood the vibe immediately.
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@eriseady
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This country loves to charge you for being broke.
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I’m my own dream come true.
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@AriLennox I got handed a CD book last month and lost my damn mind.
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I got some new folks here. I’m Eris. A Disabled Black Bisexual artist, writer & advocate from Cleveland, OH. Professionally I’m the Chief Equity Officer for Planned Parenthood of Greater OH. Personally I’m a solo-poly home chef that loves to travel.
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@eriseady
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We don’t have to consume Black death to avenge it.
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@ClintSmithIII Put some Rice Krispies on your PB & J. Change your life.
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Giving Elle Woods energy & i love it.
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Dr. Raven the Science Maven
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“What? Like science is hard?” On campus to take my pictures for the State University of New York Chancellor’s Award 👏🏿
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Since y’all here follow me on spill at “bisexualnegro”, or IG at “ComeOutCoach”
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This weekend I found my way back to the kitchen. I’ve had so much support in my postpartum journey that my body in many ways has healed “ahead of schedule”. The healing I find in cooking is something I needed. I loved nursing this child while making a roux.
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How Lil Baby sleeps when the Browns get a W. Mind you, @Browns have been 3-1 since this child’s birth. You’re welcome. Sincerely, Yahsiin Zora Venia
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@tressiemcphd I think you should update all your book spines to say (I’m torn): •minding my business •bih you thought -or- •deez nutz
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Any man that QT this with jokes, want me fr. 😌
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@Mustafa_Baskal I'm sorry. What was that? Who has the highest rates of abortion?
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