NYC-based Dominant & Producer. No DMs, use my website. It’s spelled “Ms. De Luca”. Not on kik, dating apps or Alt. Actual big sister of
@KlarissaDeLuca
If you haven’t seen,
@YesMissShayla
and I are throwing a 30th Anniversary for
@ArianaChevalier
on 9/28 in NYC. Pros can DM me or Shayla for a 50% VIP code.
Hope you can make it and spread the word, the Queen herself is being celebrated!
I will never do the "I'm better than your wife" play. I will do the "your wife deserves so much better than having to deal with you" play.
Don't come to me to compare women to each other. That's not my kink.
If you start dating a guy and he says anything along the lines of "you won't need your sex toys anymore" dump him immediately. He has no understanding of sex or sexuality and will be butthurt if you have an orgasm that included more than his dick.
I'm not sure where men got the idea that they could cum and not eat it but this misinformation must be stopped! You only have a finite amount of cum. if you don't recycle it, you will eventually run out and never be able to cum again. Not letting you cum ever again is my job.
Every time a sub complains that dommes are rude or don't care or ask too much or are just angry people, that sub should be forced to review all the emails and DMs of a mistress for one week.
Mistresses don’t cold call subs. If a “mistress” is sliding into any of your inboxes asking you to serve them, that’s a scammer.
I have never reached out to a slave. If anyone using my name or photo has done that, report them.
BDSM can feel therapeutic, but I am not a therapist. I do not have the training to take on the role and taking that role in a D/s dynamic would be unethical. Please, let our scenes be therapeutic for you but don't let them replace real therapy.
If I could go back in time and tell my baby domme self 3 things, they would be:
1. Watermark everything. EVERY. THING.
2. Don't be afraid of going independent. Houses lie.
3. Always take a deposit. No exceptions.
What would you tell yourself at the start of your career?
Eeek! I've been a pro domme or 14 years as of today. There was no part of me that saw this coming 14 years ago. I am so happy to have become part if this world that changed my life so much and so positively all those years ago.
FinDom isn't a big kink for me but I do expect you to be serving me financially. It's not a fetish thing, it's a show of your appreciation for me. Those who put the effort out there to make sure I am pampered, happy and my life is comfortable get more of my affection.
Chastity is good for you. It will help you focus on being the best sub you can be. We both know you can't handle the responsibility of having access to your own dick and still think about other things.
I don't want to "ruin" you, like make you worse. I want to "ruin" you, like make you unable to ever go back to the life you had before b/c you have felt new and greater things than ever before and now nothing else will do.
I will never demand your submission. I want you to throw it willingly at my feet so I can have fun w/ you however I please. Your enthusiastically giving yourself over is part of the excitement for me. Knowing you are willing to take so much just to please me. I love it.
Interviewers: STOP ASKING ESTABLISHED DOMMES HOW WE GOT STARTED! If we've ever done an interview, we've already been asked that. I have a list of interviews on my site. I've answered that question in almost every one. Ask again, I'm saying a soggy wench in a pond gave me a cane.
I never get why people w/ big dicks feel so special to present them to a Domme. Like, you do know that just means that's a larger percentage of your flesh I plan to destroy now, right?
Sending a "thank you" email after a session is not only amazing b/c it shows how much you enjoyed the session and I am a big fan of gratitude. It also helps if you want to use me as a reference in the future. I can see that we did in fact meet and you were a good sub.
Sex with me has to include some fear play, humiliation, CBT and a whole lot of teasing. Bare minimum. If I can't make you fear for your genitals and then l laugh at you for that fear, why are we even here?
I love people who book like 2-3 weeks in advance. You make my scheduling and planning so easy. I just want to give you the best session ever and little medal for making my life easier.
@hunt4change
Doubling down on this wording and blaming the audience for misinterpreting is low. We all expected better from someone who has been in our pleasers.
If you find me to be rude, curt or mean outside of session, especially during booking, that is entirely your fault. I'm quite lovely and pleasant to those who are respectful and follow my protocols. If you feel I'm being short w/ you, you showed a lack of respect or value for me.
I've said it before and I stand by it - putting yourself in chastity is a form of masturbation. Someone else needs to control that key for you to be really locked.
Take a little bit of time today and ask yourself: "Have I done anything to actually brighten a mistress' day or have all of my interactions w/ Dominas been entirely self-serving?" Then do something to brighten a Domme's day just to be safe.
I wish more bras opened in the front. I love being able to open my bra and show my tits like I just unwrapped a present. My tits are a gift and should always be presented that way.
Let’s be clear, the FIRST thing I’m doing after I’m vaccinated (once the time has passed for it to be effective) is going to the spa. I want to spend and entire day switching between hot tubs and saunas before a surprisingly strong, and semi-abusive woman scrubs my skin off.
Femdom Twitter is out for blood this week.
There are much bigger issues than what people consenually get off to. Stop forcing more shame in bdsm and start uplifting each other and those who are brave enough to find safe spaces to overcome their shame.
I'm considering teaching a little seminar on how to go from IRL to online. Would anyone be interested? Covering topics like which sites, how to sign up, how to translate your physical sessions into virtual play. Thoughts?
It’s always a little sad when I have to write an email letting someone know that I am not the right domme for them. However, it is wonderful to be secure enough in my kinks and my career to be able to do that. When I worked for a house back in the day, that wasn’t an option.
Last night I humiliated a toilet by pissing on a puppy pad and making him use my puppy pad to jerk off. He wanted to feel like toilet paper. I think we accomplished that.
So I guess I'm not just lazy about tweeting, I'm heavily sh*dowb*anned. Let's work on this. If you see this, respond with a photo of your pet(s) and tell me their names.
Why does the internet always get so upset about me doing my own laundry (even if I’m just playing in a fake laundromat)? As a dominant woman I am entitled to do however I please. I prefer to wash my own clothes. It’s my choice, not a travesty.
I know a lot of people are afraid to speak on political issues b/c we could lose followers but from 6/1-7 my feed was 99% retweets of ways to help the BLM movement and I gained ~200 followers.
Never worry about losing followers who aren’t right for you.