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@ElenaDeLuca

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NYC-based Dominant & Producer. No DMs, use my website. It’s spelled “Ms. De Luca”. Not on kik, dating apps or Alt. Actual big sister of @KlarissaDeLuca

New York, NY
Joined September 2010
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@ElenaDeLuca
NY Dominatrix ~ HTX 8/21-24
29 days
This weather is calling me to the beach! My beach season starts in a few days. I can’t wait. Whenever I’m in my tent, on the sand, my lines will be on. Catch me tanning topless and spice up my beach days!
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@ElenaDeLuca
NY Dominatrix ~ HTX 8/21-24
2 years
I will never do the "I'm better than your wife" play. I will do the "your wife deserves so much better than having to deal with you" play. Don't come to me to compare women to each other. That's not my kink.
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@ElenaDeLuca
NY Dominatrix ~ HTX 8/21-24
2 years
If you aren't going to eat your cum, why should I even allow you to cum? I don't condone wastefulness like that.
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@ElenaDeLuca
NY Dominatrix ~ HTX 8/21-24
6 years
If you start dating a guy and he says anything along the lines of "you won't need your sex toys anymore" dump him immediately. He has no understanding of sex or sexuality and will be butthurt if you have an orgasm that included more than his dick.
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@ElenaDeLuca
NY Dominatrix ~ HTX 8/21-24
3 years
I'm not sure where men got the idea that they could cum and not eat it but this misinformation must be stopped! You only have a finite amount of cum. if you don't recycle it, you will eventually run out and never be able to cum again. Not letting you cum ever again is my job.
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@ElenaDeLuca
NY Dominatrix ~ HTX 8/21-24
6 years
Every time a sub complains that dommes are rude or don't care or ask too much or are just angry people, that sub should be forced to review all the emails and DMs of a mistress for one week.
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@ElenaDeLuca
NY Dominatrix ~ HTX 8/21-24
2 years
Mistresses don’t cold call subs. If a “mistress” is sliding into any of your inboxes asking you to serve them, that’s a scammer. I have never reached out to a slave. If anyone using my name or photo has done that, report them.
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@ElenaDeLuca
NY Dominatrix ~ HTX 8/21-24
4 years
Making men eat their cum is seriously one of my favorite activities.
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@ElenaDeLuca
NY Dominatrix ~ HTX 8/21-24
2 years
If you are a struggling domme, I am happy to send out my class recordings for free all the time. Just ask me. If it can help at all, please take them.
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@ElenaDeLuca
NY Dominatrix ~ HTX 8/21-24
2 years
If I could go back in time and tell my baby domme self 3 things, they would be: 1. Watermark everything. EVERY. THING. 2. Don't be afraid of going independent. Houses lie. 3. Always take a deposit. No exceptions. What would you tell yourself at the start of your career?
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@ElenaDeLuca
NY Dominatrix ~ HTX 8/21-24
2 years
BDSM can feel therapeutic, but I am not a therapist. I do not have the training to take on the role and taking that role in a D/s dynamic would be unethical. Please, let our scenes be therapeutic for you but don't let them replace real therapy.
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@ElenaDeLuca
NY Dominatrix ~ HTX 8/21-24
1 year
Eeek! I've been a pro domme or 14 years as of today. There was no part of me that saw this coming 14 years ago. I am so happy to have become part if this world that changed my life so much and so positively all those years ago.
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@ElenaDeLuca
NY Dominatrix ~ HTX 8/21-24
2 years
FinDom isn't a big kink for me but I do expect you to be serving me financially. It's not a fetish thing, it's a show of your appreciation for me. Those who put the effort out there to make sure I am pampered, happy and my life is comfortable get more of my affection.
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@ElenaDeLuca
NY Dominatrix ~ HTX 8/21-24
2 years
Chastity is good for you. It will help you focus on being the best sub you can be. We both know you can't handle the responsibility of having access to your own dick and still think about other things.
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@ElenaDeLuca
NY Dominatrix ~ HTX 8/21-24
2 years
@GoddessSydneyJ @JennMJacksonPhD The way men tell on themselves is always so funny to me.
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@ElenaDeLuca
NY Dominatrix ~ HTX 8/21-24
2 years
I don't want to "ruin" you, like make you worse. I want to "ruin" you, like make you unable to ever go back to the life you had before b/c you have felt new and greater things than ever before and now nothing else will do.
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@ElenaDeLuca
NY Dominatrix ~ HTX 8/21-24
2 years
Interviewers: STOP ASKING ESTABLISHED DOMMES HOW WE GOT STARTED! If we've ever done an interview, we've already been asked that. I have a list of interviews on my site. I've answered that question in almost every one. Ask again, I'm saying a soggy wench in a pond gave me a cane.
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@ElenaDeLuca
NY Dominatrix ~ HTX 8/21-24
3 years
I will never demand your submission. I want you to throw it willingly at my feet so I can have fun w/ you however I please. Your enthusiastically giving yourself over is part of the excitement for me. Knowing you are willing to take so much just to please me. I love it.
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@ElenaDeLuca
NY Dominatrix ~ HTX 8/21-24
3 years
I never get why people w/ big dicks feel so special to present them to a Domme. Like, you do know that just means that's a larger percentage of your flesh I plan to destroy now, right?
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@ElenaDeLuca
NY Dominatrix ~ HTX 8/21-24
2 years
Just scheduled a 6hr “serial killer” role play session. Shit is about to get real dark.
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@ElenaDeLuca
NY Dominatrix ~ HTX 8/21-24
5 years
Sending a "thank you" email after a session is not only amazing b/c it shows how much you enjoyed the session and I am a big fan of gratitude. It also helps if you want to use me as a reference in the future. I can see that we did in fact meet and you were a good sub.
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@ElenaDeLuca
NY Dominatrix ~ HTX 8/21-24
4 years
Can we just talk about how funny some of these women are? I love how much fun everyone had doing this.
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@ElenaDeLuca
NY Dominatrix ~ HTX 8/21-24
4 years
If you aren't eating your cum for me, why would I let you cum? That just sounds wasteful.
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@ElenaDeLuca
NY Dominatrix ~ HTX 8/21-24
3 years
I hate brats. I don't do that shit. I punish by taking away my attention, not with things you will enjoy.
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@ElenaDeLuca
NY Dominatrix ~ HTX 8/21-24
2 years
Sex with me has to include some fear play, humiliation, CBT and a whole lot of teasing. Bare minimum. If I can't make you fear for your genitals and then l laugh at you for that fear, why are we even here?
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@ElenaDeLuca
NY Dominatrix ~ HTX 8/21-24
1 year
No one cares if you just showered. If you have been offered a shower, take the shower.
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@ElenaDeLuca
NY Dominatrix ~ HTX 8/21-24
4 years
Does this come w/ an app to control it for distance training?
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@ElenaDeLuca
NY Dominatrix ~ HTX 8/21-24
4 years
I got the new apt!!!
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@ElenaDeLuca
NY Dominatrix ~ HTX 8/21-24
6 years
Sub PSA: Dominant women talk. Often when you contact multiple women at once we are sitting next to each other. Don't be that guy.
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@ElenaDeLuca
NY Dominatrix ~ HTX 8/21-24
10 months
If you find me to be rude, curt or mean outside of session, especially during booking, that is entirely your fault. I'm quite lovely and pleasant to those who are respectful and follow my protocols. If you feel I'm being short w/ you, you showed a lack of respect or value for me.
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@ElenaDeLuca
NY Dominatrix ~ HTX 8/21-24
2 years
@hunt4change Doubling down on this wording and blaming the audience for misinterpreting is low. We all expected better from someone who has been in our pleasers.
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@ElenaDeLuca
NY Dominatrix ~ HTX 8/21-24
10 months
I love people who book like 2-3 weeks in advance. You make my scheduling and planning so easy. I just want to give you the best session ever and little medal for making my life easier.
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@ElenaDeLuca
NY Dominatrix ~ HTX 8/21-24
1 year
I've said it before and I stand by it - putting yourself in chastity is a form of masturbation. Someone else needs to control that key for you to be really locked.
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@ElenaDeLuca
NY Dominatrix ~ HTX 8/21-24
2 years
I wish more bras opened in the front. I love being able to open my bra and show my tits like I just unwrapped a present. My tits are a gift and should always be presented that way.
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@ElenaDeLuca
NY Dominatrix ~ HTX 8/21-24
6 years
Take a little bit of time today and ask yourself: "Have I done anything to actually brighten a mistress' day or have all of my interactions w/ Dominas been entirely self-serving?" Then do something to brighten a Domme's day just to be safe.
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@ElenaDeLuca
NY Dominatrix ~ HTX 8/21-24
4 years
Let’s be clear, the FIRST thing I’m doing after I’m vaccinated (once the time has passed for it to be effective) is going to the spa. I want to spend and entire day switching between hot tubs and saunas before a surprisingly strong, and semi-abusive woman scrubs my skin off.
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@ElenaDeLuca
NY Dominatrix ~ HTX 8/21-24
2 years
I have been blessed with great tits. How could I not use them for evil?
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@ElenaDeLuca
NY Dominatrix ~ HTX 8/21-24
2 years
Seriously though, what are you even using your balls for? Nothing. So what does it matter if I destroy them?
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@ElenaDeLuca
NY Dominatrix ~ HTX 8/21-24
4 years
Femdom Twitter is out for blood this week. There are much bigger issues than what people consenually get off to. Stop forcing more shame in bdsm and start uplifting each other and those who are brave enough to find safe spaces to overcome their shame.
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@ElenaDeLuca
NY Dominatrix ~ HTX 8/21-24
1 year
It’s always a little sad when I have to write an email letting someone know that I am not the right domme for them. However, it is wonderful to be secure enough in my kinks and my career to be able to do that. When I worked for a house back in the day, that wasn’t an option.
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@ElenaDeLuca
NY Dominatrix ~ HTX 8/21-24
4 years
I'm considering teaching a little seminar on how to go from IRL to online. Would anyone be interested? Covering topics like which sites, how to sign up, how to translate your physical sessions into virtual play. Thoughts?
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@ElenaDeLuca
NY Dominatrix ~ HTX 8/21-24
2 years
Last night I humiliated a toilet by pissing on a puppy pad and making him use my puppy pad to jerk off. He wanted to feel like toilet paper. I think we accomplished that.
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@ElenaDeLuca
NY Dominatrix ~ HTX 8/21-24
1 year
In 2024, I will celebrate 15 years as a Pro Domme and my 40th birthday. I am going to have to make some pretty big plans for next year.
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@ElenaDeLuca
NY Dominatrix ~ HTX 8/21-24
4 years
PSA: your tears only make the scene hotter. Safewords are for stopping. Tears are for my pleasure.
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@ElenaDeLuca
NY Dominatrix ~ HTX 8/21-24
3 years
So I guess I'm not just lazy about tweeting, I'm heavily sh*dowb*anned. Let's work on this. If you see this, respond with a photo of your pet(s) and tell me their names.
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@ElenaDeLuca
NY Dominatrix ~ HTX 8/21-24
7 years
Dear Men, You're the reason men aren't getting laid. The women I know need to hear more than "hi" to make conversation. Thanks, All women
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@ElenaDeLuca
NY Dominatrix ~ HTX 8/21-24
4 years
I know a lot of people are afraid to speak on political issues b/c we could lose followers but from 6/1-7 my feed was 99% retweets of ways to help the BLM movement and I gained ~200 followers. Never worry about losing followers who aren’t right for you.
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@ElenaDeLuca
NY Dominatrix ~ HTX 8/21-24
6 years
Why does the internet always get so upset about me doing my own laundry (even if I’m just playing in a fake laundromat)? As a dominant woman I am entitled to do however I please. I prefer to wash my own clothes. It’s my choice, not a travesty.
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