The backbone of your relationship is not love. It's commitment. Because love waxes and wanes like the moon. But commitment keeps you together, till the brighter day around the corner.

Marriage isn’t only about an expression of love. It is primarily an expression of commitment. And commitment supersedes love. Commitment has its roots not in our hearts but in our will.

We self-sabotage our relationships when we allow our fears & insecurities to distort our partner. Innocently, they become the antagonist in our story & treat us precisely as we falsely expected. Then we distance ourselves from our lover for the crimes we suspected them of. 😢

@vasantbhatt14 So if your feelings are hurt, you will abandon the policies you value?

Escape Redpill #38: "Neg-hits (negative comments) keep her wanting you." Perhaps teasing girls in high school was fun. But in a mature relationship, negativity breaks trust (and hearts 💔) and destroys intimacy. Authentic kindness always trumps games. 🙏💚

@RichardArion1 @ItIsHoeMath "I AM the table!"

One of my favorite moments in working with couples is when I remind them emphatically that they already have a good relationship. The look of relief, comfort, and confidence on her face is just precious. Most importantly, this gives them the strength to focus on their love. 💚🙏

For many, walking out when the going gets rough shows you were never committed when the going was good.

RT @dovidfeldman: Do you really know your partner? Maybe. Most of what you see is your own history, personality, fantasy, and wounds. Wh…

Women, text this to him instead: “I noticed how lovingly you play with our children. Our kids are so fortunate to have you as their father. It just makes me feel so grateful. Thank you for being just the BEST hubby and dad!” Share with us how it goes! 🙏💚

"Marriage is more about what you do than how you feel." ~Dovid Feldman So, do you know what to do to have a happy marriage?

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There may be times in a marriage when it's all on you, whether taking on a second job to pay the mortgage or watching the kids while making dinner. If you do so with a smile, gratitude, and love, you will thrive, not just survive! 🙏💚

Security in our relationships is what allows for freedom within commitment. When our partner is constantly forced to sidestep our fears, we are putting them in jail. And from this prison, they cannot love us, further enhancing our anxiety. Round-n-round we go! 😅

RT @dovidfeldman: Escape Redpill #10: Do your inner work by owning your feelings. Stop blaming her. She cannot make you happy or sad -…

@John11303116 @CJ_NFA An 11 year old can't consent, even if willing. It's 100% rape.

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Never deny your partner's emotional experience. While you disagree on details, how they felt is 100% in their purview. On the contrary, no matter how difficult, we must honor our partner's feelings without judgment. 🙏💚

She's not happy. You are feeling alone. 😞 Your relationship, your life, isn't where you both want. Never underestimate the power of a simple gesture to re-ignite your connection and love. Don't hesitate - just do. 💪 #FRIDAYFLOWERS

"A virtuous woman is the crown of her husband." A crown is the defining headdress of a king. This is your wife. She can make you a king. Or she can knock you off your throne. Choose wisely. 💚🙏👑

Her smile starts off pretty, beautiful, sexy. Eventually, that smile becomes her kindness, sacrifice, and the everlasting love and devotion she has gifted you, by your side, through the ups and downs of your life together. 🙏❤️