reminder that "coming out" is an act that is completely perpetuated by cisheteronormativity and you don't owe anybody an explanation of your identity or sexuality
is it weird for my therapist to tell me my asian mother is queerphobic because she comes from a “collectivist” culture versus americans being from an “individualist” culture .. lol
transitioning is expensive. if any transfems are looking for jewelry pls shoot me a dm and i’ll gladly mail you some extra inventory i have from my shop!! i have necklaces and both normal & clip on earrings.
Wokeism is not a generalized term for social progress but a concept with a definite meaning. The ideology of prioritizing race essentialist identity politics above any kind of class struggle.
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white queers can be carceral as fuck because instead of deconstructing their internal cisheteronormative views they invent whole new rules for gender and sexuality . because it takes much less work
i do not understand how there are teenagers that self-identify as capitalists... bae what capital u own... pokémon cards? limited edition lego sets 😕 boy scouts badges?
why stop at just one sundress. why isn’t it common practice for both parties to wear sundresses to rail each other in.. wouldn’t the world be a better place
for those who believe cultural appropriation is good bc it normalizes mixing of cultures: how do you deal with american corporations trying to mimic other cultures in products & people who aren’t from those cultures consuming them?
the whole cis gay/lesbian rhetoric of “gays don’t like pussy” and “lesbians don’t like dick” is so harmful on so many levels but personally hearing that over & over made it so difficult for me to figure out my own sexuality. 1/4
why do people on this app care so much about defending bi girls that date men instead of. Talking about queer trans poc that face actual violence in the real world daily
hmmm correct me if i’m wrong but parents pushing classical music onto their developing babies/young children in order to “foster brain development” is at the very least weird and colonialist and at its worst kinda racist...????
debate bro culture is bullshit because you can not engage in real true DIALOGUE unless it comes from a place of PROFOUND LOVE - Dialogue without love & dunking on each other just turns into another tool of domination! commit to liberation above all else
cw / genitalia
i hate when ppl make these kinds of jokes they’re so bioessentialist and attract terfy weirdos in the comments no matter what the intent is
remember when white ppl would post selfies and caption them “link in bio to learn how to deal with racism” or some shit so they wouldn’t get flamed for posting selfies during the blm protests
thinking about when my mom was trying to tell my (non english speaking) grandma that someone she knows is gay but still doesn’t know if she got thru to my grandma Bc gay and comrade is the same word in chinese so maybe my grandma j thinks this man is a communist
scheduling your emails to send at weirdly specific times in the morning so you look casually organized and like an early riser. Yes i totally wrote and sent an email about missing class at 8:12 am