This thread is guidelines on how to properly DM me (and most other people, frankly).
If you message me and I ignore you, it's because you've blatantly disregarded these tweets.
The amount of "polyamory isn't for you" on r/polyamory anytime someone has a negative emotion or doubt about polyamory is fucking ridiculous. We live in a mono-normative culture. Polyam principles need to be taught/learned. It's good that people are asking for help and resources.
I told my parents that I'm polyamorous, and we had good philosophical conversations about society/relationships, and now they are telling me about their swinging adventures. I am living my best life
I'm submissive in one way and one way only -- sexually.
I will not be dominated emotionally, personally, in conversation, at my workplace, in friendships, by my family, or anything else.
Being a submissive does not mean I will bow down to you or anyone else, unless I choose to.
If you take my collar in an attempt to "punish me for bad behavior", our dynamic is over.
To me, that is equivalent to getting in a fight with your spouse and them demanding you give them your wedding ring, saying you have to "earn it back".
What helps me best reconcile my jealousy in polyamory is looking at all my current/past relationships, dynamics, and loves and realizing how special they feel in their own way. This reminds me that what my partners have with others is really incomparable to what they have with me