If someone's telling you about their life problems, understand that they're not asking for your advice, they just need a listener. So let them get it all out. And IF they ask for your opinion, then only give it, otherwise just show your interest & listen attentively. That's it.
5 signs you are a pyaaz:
1. Personality k bhot saare layers hai.
2. Kabhi kabhi bhaav bahut badh jaate hain
3. Kisi bhi cheez ka swaad badhaa dete ho
4. Kabhi kabhi apni baato se logo ko hurt kr dete ho/rula dete ho
5. Har condition mein survive kar sakte ho.
While everyone's going home for Rakhi, it's me who has cancelled tickets & am staying back at the hostel for some reason. Ofc I'm missing my family a bit more today,yet I'm happy to see my hostelmates going home. That 'mahino baad ghar jaane ki khushi' on their faces is priceless
I have competitive exams, university exams, written assignments, internals, field project, internship, vivas to work on but careless me choosing to use twitter. Send some help!😭
Ain't it wierd like how we single people give our committed friends advice on relationships? I mean some of us have never even been in a relationship, yet we give them the right advice and help them understand what's acceptable and what's not. :p
To everyone holding their phones and reading this:
I hope you get what you desire. May your weekdays be productive and weekends filled with excitement and joy. I wish you meet deadlines & receive more appreciation. And yes, don't forget to take good care of your mental health.🌻
It's very difficult to accept that you can no longer hug them, call them. Now all you have left are memories and this truth literally breaks you into a million pieces.
Literally it took my mother more than a month to accept that I am leaving this city, this home, but I am glad that finally she has accepted the fact. I wonder how innocent our mothers are that their love sometimes doesn't let them accept the reality. 🥹
I miss going to my maternal grandparents' house in the summer. I wish I could go there and hug them. I wish I could tell them that what I need the most right now is their blessings, love and courage.
I've just come to realise that you don't always need to attempt to say anything consoling to someone. Sometimes you can just keep quiet because saying something might upset them even more.
People avoid uncomfortable conversations to 'keep the peace', but what they don't know is that in the mind those unspoken words become more intense & lead to bigger fights that can deteriorate relationships. Lack of communication is the KEY contributor to relationships' demise.
An appreciation post for the people I have been interacting with over the past month or so. I find all of you to be truly intellectual and incredibly admirable. By interacting with y'll I feel something has changed inside me and I am becoming a better and more positive person.
"Don't worry" seriously!?!?
Why shouldn't I worry? I should be worried about my career, about my studies, about my family, about my life!! If I don't worry about myself then who else will?
Find someone who is honest with you and themselves. Someone who is willing to learn. Find a person who gives you time and listens to your thoughts. Someone who genuinely wants to sort things out. A person who will stand by you through thick and thin.
Do not settle for less.