2025 is your year to make new friends. I'm helping analytical thinkers make 5+ genuine connections and transform their social lives. Every Friday in The Friendship Engineer, I share proven systems and step-by-step frameworks to help you build meaningful friendships that last.

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If you need a refresher on anchor events

Have trouble starting conversations with strangers? Practice in situations where people expect to be approached! Parties, happy hours, and meet ups are great for this! The grocery store is not.

For my event hosts: Your first 3 gatherings might feel: • Awkward • Under-attended • Imperfect That's normal! Mine did too. By gathering 4, you'll have regulars. By 6, you'll have momentum. By 10, you'll have a community. Trust the process 🌱

One of my favorite @kevin2kelly quotes: "In so many ways a friend with a boat is better than owning a boat."

Weekend energy check: Stuck in the 'maybe something will happen' mindset? Not today. Not this weekend. Not anymore. Pick ONE social action and make it happen. Send that text. Make those plans.

PS: If you've ever said "I don't need any more friends" but you're not sure you believe yourself—this one's for you. Let me show you how to build the kind of friend network that makes any adventure possible.

How to build a social life in a new city: 1. Commit to hosting a housewarming party 2. Join 2-3 recurring meetups 3. Say yes to every invitation 4. After good conversations, mention your party 5. Once you have 15 contacts, send the invites 🎉 Now you have a social circle

3 ways to make your next gathering more connective: • Everyone wears nametags • Mix up conversations hourly • Create small group moments The best hosts don't just invite people. They engineer opportunities for connection.