*Abah is typing*
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Abah:
how to save your heart:
1. you should
- never expect
- never assume
- never demand
2. know
- your limit
- your potential
- where you stand
3. don’t
- get jealous
- get affected
- care what others are doing
4. always
- love yourself
- be happy
- be positive
pretty, but has family problems.
popular, but has fake friends.
smart, but has social issues.
rich, but never happy.
nobody is perfect, we just don't see it.
- grammar doesn’t define your
intelligence
- grades doesn’t define your knowledge
- acne doesn’t define your beauty
- weight doesn’t define your appeal
- problems doesn’t define your life
- past doesn’t define your future
- disabilities doesn’t define your worth
Surah Yusuf teaches us:
- the closest of people can betray you
- broken heart can be healed through love
- ease comes after hardship
- being sad doesn’t equal being ungrateful
- those who choose to trust Allah’s plan will win
- people with patience have beautiful ending
trust me bro, your girl will look a hundred times better when you treat her right and support her.
her smile would be a thousand more sweeter when you give her things that she deserves —
real love
loyalty
time
effort
how you treat her is your art, make it a masterpiece.
what is difference between “i like you” & “i love you”
beautifully answer:
if you like a flower, you just pluck it. but when you love a flower, you water it daily.
one who understand this, understand life.
best lessons i learned from Surah Yusuf:
- people can hate us for the good things we have
- be careful with whom you share your weaknesses with
- we cant always protect the ones we love
- you can be stabbed by someone close to you
- people with patience have beautiful ending
lesson from Surat Yusuf:
dreams come true, if Allah wills. Keep striving, keep working for it, keep praying for it, keep asking for it, keep hoping.
all things come in due time.
bro, make your girl happy. when she’s happy, she talks a lot. she smiles a lot.
when she’s happy, she looks a hundred times better.
how you treat her is a reflection of you.
hype her up, let her know she’s appreciated and loved.
know that all she wants is loyalty and honesty.
bro, you can lose your girl from:
lack of time
lack of attention
lack of respect
lack of communication.
sure, you can be the most loyal man.
but if you no longer put in time and effort to make her happy, or no longer respect her like you used to be.
you will still lose her.
“drive safe” “be safe” “did you eat?” “text me when you’re home” “be careful” “do you have enough money?” “do you want me to accompany you?” “are you sure you’re okay?” “if you need me, i’m here.”
— so little efforts yet so important. it shows how much someone cares about you.
date someone who can be your lover and bestfriend at the same time.
someone who you can go through thick & thin together. achieve goals together.
someone who listens to your stories and laughs at your jokes.
someone who prays and wish the best, only the best, for you.
based on my own opinion, if you can hang out alone, watch movie/shop alone & eat alone at a restaurant without the fear of being judged as a loner or weird individual, you can survive almost anything.
real boyfriends don't keep secrets from their girlfriend. you're in a relationship to grow closer, going through ups and downs & achieve goals together, not to hide things & ruin trust.
8 things to quit in 2020:
1) trying to please everyone.
2) fearing change.
3) living in the past.
4) overthinking.
5) being afraid to be different.
6) sacrificing your happiness to others.
7) thinking you’re not good enough.
8) thinking you have no purpose.
kalau sayang, bincang elok elok. be mature in relationship, dengar luahan from both sides & be fair. communication & comprehension are the most important too. no need to turn off your phone, ignore & be selfish.
"my mom said she liked you, she wants me to marry you.”
every girls dream to hear this from her future husband. i swear, parents blessing is everything.
if a man truly loves you, he will always stay loyal with you.
during a fight, he won��t chat with other girls.
even on bad terms, he won’t go find some comfort from other girls.
if you are busy, he won’t entertain other girls.
no matter what, his loyalty will always be yours
if your girl is kinda clingy or she often asks for your time and attention...
let her be.
embrace her. let her know she's your everything. make her feel like she's a blessing and not a burden.
here's the truth, you'll gonna miss that when she turns heartless and cold.
i always add up “ya Rabb, jangan bolak balikkan hati aku lepas beri petunjuk. Show me the straight path even it’s full of struggles, never let the struggles weaken me.”
in 2019, i learned:
1) you have to accept “you”.
2) always be positive & love yourself.
3) everyone has different flaws.
4) you can change.
5) don’t trust people easily.
6) it is okay to be different.
7) control your emotions.
8) keep your circle small.
bro, your girlfriend is jealous because she's afraid you'll find someone prettier, smarter, taller, skinnier, nicer, calmer, stronger, and better than her.
girls, every man can tell you:
“you’re the only girl i talk to.”
“you’re the prettiest girl i’ve ever known.”
“i will stay with you.”
“promise, i will never leave you.”
but, it takes a real man to show you that they truly value you.
actions, not words, are what matter most.
my friends keep asking me:
"when are you getting married?"
beautifully answer by me:
“my girlfriend and i are in a long distance relationship. i live in Malaysia and she lives in the future.
jenis orang yang always remind “be safe” "take care yourself" or “text me when you arrive home” are my favorite kind & i really appreciate that person.
keep a girl who says:
“please drive safe.”
“text me when you got home.”
“i don't need material things, all i need is you.”
you’ll gonna miss that when she finally knows her worth and find someone who will treat her better.
appreciate, take care of her while she's still yours.
trust me, girls will always find out the truth. no matter how good we are in lying, she will always find out the truth. she just want honesty from you.
if a man truly loves you, he will be honest and true to you.
he won’t meet other girls behind your back.
he won’t chat to other girls behind your back.
he won’t flirt with other girls behind your back.
he won’t delete convos because he keeps it real when it comes to you.
whoever i marry in the future, i pray our marriage lasts till Jannah. and we are mature enough to work out our differences and conflicts. let go of our ego. as well as to grow, love and learn together.
why are you still hurting?
1. you’re attached to people who have been distant with you.
2. you put effort on people who doesn’t appreciate you.
3. you make time for people who are “too busy” for you.
4. you’re too caring about people who make you as an option.
bila dah lama kenal, you'll start noticing their flaws and imperfections. inside & out. kalau sayang, you'll be able to accept every of it. kalau dah kenal dia punya perangai macam mana or ada problems, fix together & stay. bukannya buat decision untuk left him/her.
bro, keep a girl who says:
“please drive safe.”
“text me when you got home.”
“i’m always here for you.”
“i will always love you.”
you’ll miss that when she finally knows her worth and find someone who can treat her better.
appreciate & take care of her while she's still yours.
bro, you don’t have to text your girl 24/7.
maturity is knowing that everyone of us has his/her own life.
maturity is understanding that we have our own dreams and passions in life.
but, it won’t hurt your “career” if you ask her how she is, or if she’s okay once in a while.
the biggest lesson i learnt this year is to not force anything; conversations, friendships, relationships, attention, love.. anything forced is just not worth fighting for, whatever flows flows, what crashes crashes.. it is what it is.