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Never forget how important fathers are to their children.
They are crucial influences during their formative and adolescent years.
Sadly we have a system that too often seeks to erase them and at great harm.
Please share this awareness video
#DadMatters
#FamilyCourtReform
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Every time we observe an incident of a man harming a female, we get this hysterical and bigoted reaction.
It doesn’t matter that we agree the perpetrator needs to feel the wrath of justice and that we are equally invested in making society safe.
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This kind of ubiquitous rhetoric exemplifies the rank hypocrisy that exists within feminist ideology.
Feminism is little more then a thin vale of false virtue hiding the soul of an antipathetic bigot
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An example of feminist apathy and male pathologisation at its finest
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I shake my head as this extraordinary example of ignorance of male issues:
1. 75% suicides - male
2. 80% rough sleepers - male
3. 75% homicides - male
4. 95% workplace deaths - male
5. Males behind in education
6. Male victims of DA ignored
7. Gender sentencing gap
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Another day, another double standard…
“Man, 55, reveals horrific injuries at the hands of his 'controlling' ex, 52, who was spared jail despite slashing him across the face and battering him with a burning frying pan”
And if the sexes were reversed?
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One for the Duluth framework advocates for domestic abuse… who’s the victim and perpetrator?
Do you now understand the stat that shows women instigate most violence in relationships but get injured more?
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Female victimhood propaganda doing its thing…
Would anyone care to point out some of the glaring errors and omissions from this absurd victimhood embracing meme to give it a real world perspective?
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Who loves feminist logic?
Such a curious delusion and chronic avoidance of all responsibility.
The “Schrödinger’s feminist…”
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The normalisation of female violence against men results in major asymmetry in:
- domestic abuse reporting
- treatment by the CJS and support services
- overall conviction rates
- public perception
We see examples of this daily, some will even be framed as humorous
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@louise122884
They are not, and since when does the gender of the perpetrator demolish the plight/ suffering of the victim?
Do we ignore black victims of violence because their perpetrators are black?
This kind of attitude is the definition of bigotry
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Published over a year ago, this headline exemplifies all that’s wrong with attitudes feminist ideology foster and perpetuate
There’s so much wrong with its basic premise:
- DV is not gendered
- females 2.5x more likely to engage in unilateral violence
- male antipathy is harmful
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@JohnDavisJDLLM
#metoo
was like using a potent insecticide to kill a few wasps (and there were definitely some wasps that needed a spray), but the end result was it decimated most of the bees
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The definition of having zero insight…
4,500 men suicide each year - no one cares
416 male homicides in 2023 (2x that of females) - no shits given
2,600 male rough sleepers - meh
I’d hazard a guess that zero f%*ks would be given Yasmin!
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😢
Too many dads know exactly what this feels like… only hanging in there for the sake of the children.
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@louise122884
You weren’t.
You clearly wrote that men were only concerned with not having sex.
In a few short paragraphs you’ve demonstrated:
1. Gratuitous bigotry
2. Delusion
3. Dishonesty
4. Extreme male antipathy
5. Low IQ
Some would say you present as an odious individual
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“Belief that men are entitled to control their female partners”?
Can someone tell prof Jane Monckton the 19th century Ottoman Empire called and want their patriarchal society back.
No one in the western world today holds that belief you clown 🤡
You embarrass academia
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Women do this so often their partners there are literally thousands of memes about it.
Well done women’s aid for inadvertently exemplifying just how controlling female partners can be
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@louise122884
Most men are made homeless because of women.
Most DA experienced by men is due to women.
Most suicides are due to family breakdown and child estrangement due to/ instigated by women
Unlike you, most men greatly care about female suffering and try to prevent it
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@datepsych
Held accountable for poor behaviour.
Examples:
1. Entitlement - wants a 666 guy but is bang average
2. Hits/ abuses boyfriend but claims domestic abuse the second he swears at her
3. Pays for nothing & takes no financial responsibility
4. Expects DEI quotas just for being female
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Society has never been safer, especially for women. It is therefore curious that there is not an insignificant cohort of young women who’ve become genuinely terrified of men.
It is dividing us in a way it never has before.
What is driving this irrational hysteria?
Imagine if feminists really abided by their words and did what they say. If they truly put their money where their mouth is, with their amazing stupidity, they'd have gone extinct already.
But we know that although they always bark about not needing or wanting men, in the moment
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The “patriarchy”… it is such a dominant force that women are getting bachelor degrees at only 2:1 that of men…
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Father seen identifying as a bear while entering family court in the hope he receives less prejudice and is able to see his kids…
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Women are great at coercive control… the great VAWG gaslight and misdirection
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When it comes to
#DomesticAbuse
there are many similarities between sexes, but also crucial differences.
Male victims of DA are likely to be threatened 73% of the time by the perpetrator with false allegations (vs 3% for women).
This impacts reporting, policing and perception
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Barrister Charlotte Proudman at her recent appeal which she lost…
@DrCharparodyman
@SheraFamily
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UK government, toxic feminist ideology and anything that drives male antipathy
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Feminism is an incredible ideology…
It has magical powers that can seemingly make pleasant attractive women almost completely insufferable and undatable…
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If men have the monopoly on violence as feminists and DA organisations claim, then why are inmates of female prisons so much more violent?
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#VAWG
Society is quick to point the finger at young boys, persistently reminding them to never hit a girl
Yet we never seem to remind girls to not hit boys (or girls)
When a female turns violent, the boy’s reaction is more often to uphold societal expectation & endure the abuse
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It is well known and shocking that
@womensaid
continue to assist mothers with making false allegations of abuse to get legal aid.
I’ve worked with a father who had no findings against him yet legal aid continued to support the mother and facilitate abuse of him and their child
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I’ve said it many times… the hateful and divisive ideology that feminism is, hurts women the most.
This has comprehensively been the case for every iteration since the 2nd wave
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@louise122884
…cont
1. The gender pay gap does not exist/ is not caused by men
2. Discrimination is against men, not for them such as with academic school shops and DEI quotas
3. Criminal behaviour is caused by both sex’s and is a tiny percentage of the population
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@pawsomepekka
It’s more like 3 per fortnight but close.
That’s 78 per year. There are 26 million adult men in the UK
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@Simeria20
If you honestly think this is reality you’ve no insight whatsoever into being man/ husband/ father.
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Who defines “extreme misogyny”?
Some demented and delusional feminist man hater no doubt
Extreme misogyny to be treated as terrorism under UK government plans
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Women’s aid actively excuse females who kill their partner;
@womensaid
claim women only kill intimate partners in self defence & should go free
Why they are more likely to kill their children is unexplained
Lesbian relationships reporting highest levels of DA also unexplained
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If you’re a male victim of domestic abuse, this is how you can expect to be treated.
It’s shameful and is in stark contrast to how you would be treated if female.
Feminist propaganda is so insidious and pervasive, they’ve convinced institutions that men don’t experience DA
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#VAWG
According to feminists, women are never violent nor provoke it.
They are but helpless victims and the only times they are violent defensively against an abusive partner.
Do you think this man responded proportionately?
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Any father heading into Family
Court would reasonably expect:
- to be treated as an equal
- their contribution as a parent valued
- evidence to be paramount
- perjury to be punished
But they’d be way off
Sadly family court is a facilitator of father and child abuse… guess why?
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#VAWG
The irony is that the below scenario would be included in VAWG stats.
It’s done this way to inflate them and use male suffering to help raise for women’s abuse charities such as
@womensaid
@RespectUK
and
@Refuge
They refuse to acknowledge and support male victims
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Women: “a random encounter in the forest, I choose the bear”
Also women: “men need to stop raping and killing us”
Also women: “if you say “not all men”, you’re the problem”
Also women: “random men won’t stop and help us change a tyre!”
I’m confounded why… so strange
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@Blueblur2023
Modern culture is turning women into petulant children who refuse to be accountable for their actions
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The Gender Death Gap seems a lot wider than the Gender Pay Gap.
👀
Mention it to the champions of equality is the feminists and all you get is crickets 🦗🦗
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A confession from one of the manny mothers who have been coerced, victimised and severely let down by
@womensaid
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If women are now making up 60% of college degrees, why do 92% of single sex scholarships still go to women?
Males are behind in education at every step yet receive the least amount of support.
Is this the ‘equality’ feminists seek?
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I’ve heard many harrowing and shocking stories where women’s aid have interfered with court orders and encouraged mothers to stop contact with the children’s father.
In the worst examples they’ve coerced them to abscond to another country.
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Feminism… such a moralistic pursuit of a better society.
This kind of compassion and empathy for fellow humans can surely only result in net positive outcomes
@womensaid
@CommissionerDA
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Why has accountability for many women (mostly younger) become rarer than unicorn poo?
Is it because they believe their emotional derived delusions or because society infantilises them by ceasing to hold them accountable?
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Corrected it for you…
Because if you stand for EQUALITY, you’d be an egalitarian
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Domestic Abuse facts:
Domestic abuse can take many forms that are often forgotten, particularly in the aftermath of separation.
These can persist long after separation with profound consequences on the victims, which often include children
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Dads are simply the best…
There’s not a dad out there who wouldn’t throw himself in harms way to protect his kids in a heartbeat
#DadsAreAwesome
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What happens when you choose the bear…
“The Canadian man who saved a woman from the jaws of a polar bear”
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It’s regrettable when grifters and misandrists unashamedly use the tragedy of victims to perpetuate hate and antipathy toward a demographic
I wish we could all reflect on this awful event, demand justice and work towards a safer future, without the divisive gendered narrative
My heart breaks for Louise Hunt, her mum Carol and her sister Hannah, who were killed by Kyle Clifford. He is a product of a society that allows the patriarchy to operate untouched and refuses to hold men accountable
We will continue fighting for change!
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- 4,000 male suicides/year
- 2.4x more homicides than women
- 82% of rough sleepers are men
- 90% of the prison pop are men
- 95% of workplace deaths are men
- 50% of DA victims are men
Despite these shocking stats, the gov don’t have a single policy for men but loads for women
This is an excellent appointment.
@jessphillips
has worked tirelessly to tackle violence against women and girls and has been one of the strongest advocates for family court reform. Great to have her in this role.
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@JackieW75725388
Less than 0.1 of men get arrested each year for violent crimes.
A very small percentage of perpetrators commit the majority of crimes. The scale is slightly sliding, but not much
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@krackerjaxed
There’s a lot of truth in that.
Delayed fertility is also having a profound impact on childlessness
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The Duluth model doesn’t just erroneously attribute all domestic abuse to men for power & control, it excuses female perpetrated violence.
This dangerous and abuse enabling dogma by
@RespectUK
@womensaid
@RefugeCharity
allowed Sheree Spencer to abuse without fear of consequence
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@RefugeCharity
“Epidemic” suggests an outbreak of disease greater than background prevalence
UK 2022 data:
6,404 suicides - 17.5/day
Of which:
- 4,735 were men 13/day
- 200 were children 0.55/day and increasing
168 female homicides - 0.46/day and reducing
Perspective matters
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The feminist’s definition of misogyny:
“A man who disagrees with a woman”
Policy:
“Make misogyny a hate crime…”
Translation:
“We’re not happy with the current levels of male antipathy in society, we now also want to criminalise men for even daring to disagree with women”
“Make misogyny a hate crime”, says the Greens Co-Party Leader Carla Denyer on the safety of women and girls.
#C4Debate
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“Promising sex after a bath, she stabbed him in the neck when he was wearing a sleep mask and was probably cabled-tied on their bed.”
Her defence claims she was controlled and manipulated; unpleasant things he’d done… and this why she killed him
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This may not look like much but the ideology behind this little wheel has caused thousands of fathers suicides, tens of thousands of fatherless children and cost the country tens of billions of ££.
This is the Duluth model of domestic abuse and it is a cancer
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What if I told you there’s a UK org whose service users have a 100x greater risk of death than the av pop?
Child Maintenance Service abuse is resulting in more excess deaths than all homicides & work place deaths combined.
Over 1,000 deaths/yr
1,600 kids who’ve lost a parent
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False allegations made by the mother not found against the father.
The mother escapes any form of sanction/ chastisement from what is essentially blatant perjury.
Solace women’s aid involved, how unsurprising
MG v SN [2024] EWFC 202 (B) (23 July 2024):
Fact-finding in private law proceedings, concerning serious allegations of abuse made by the mother against the father. None of the allegations found proved.
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If the west/NATO are too coward to enforce a no fly zone, then give Ukraine some drone strike capability to wreak havoc on these huge Russian supply/ armoured columns
#ukrinerussiawar
#Ukraine
#Zelensky
#HelpUkraineNow
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@DiceNice19
Suicide is petty?
Have you seen just how much apathy and even antipathy men receive when they raise serious male issues such as suicide?
Do you have any idea how many lives it takes each year?
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Another horrific example of how our system treats vulnerable men, often with tragic consequences.
This man had attempted suicide so was charged and fined for his trouble.
No support or interventions. Utterly inhuman treatment with zero compassion
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Why did the police not act?
Why did social services not act?
What are we doing about violent mothers? Why are they a constant blind spot?
“Scanlon (mother) had sent abusive messages to the five-year-old's father that said he would not see Dylan again.”
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The victims commissioner thinks she has the power to choose who are victims and who are not.
Thousands of children are profoundly affected by parent alienation and yet she denies their lived experience.
It is truly shocking.
Good to hear
@Laura__Farris
reiterate Govt does not recognise 'parental alienation' but we still need to stop unregulated experts in the family court. During a
#VictimsBill
debate Govt committed to address via the Family Procedure Rules Committee. Victims need this urgently.
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The power of feminism…
it exploits society’s innate female empathy and male disposability.
It’s promotes the former to gain victimhood and the latter to sow antipathy.
Women have always been privileged, today more so than ever and yet we have a President writing this nonsense
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What does the typical wicked person look like?
The smiling mum of 4 on the left?
On 19/2/24 she set fire to their house killing these 4 beautiful children and herself.
The reason?
She’d lost a custody battle to the father.
Take a look at the photo captain and reporting >>
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This bigot is clearly unaware of her ludicrous feminist logic.
Apparently crimes now have to be committed at the same rate between sexes before they can be made law.
It’s rare to see something so stupid written in public
@RichPau96743248
when misandrists are raping and killing at the same rate as misogynists, then that too will be written into law. Calm down.
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Why is it that so many wicked mothers feel emboldened to threaten their spouse with “I will go to the police and tell them you abused me”?
Could it be they’re only too well aware of the horrifically unjust treatment men receive when it comes to DA?
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Most of what we’re told by media, gov,
@womensaid
, social services et al about
#DomesticAbuse
is a lie. But it generates loads of votes & £££
The real truth:
- it’s not gendered
- 50% is bidirectional
- women perpetrate 70% of unidirectional abuse
- women are not always a victim
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@DeboraMontesoro
One thing I’ve learned from all this is the acute fear of men some women have. It has a name, Androphobia.
But what I don’t understand is why it exists today at a time when society has never been as safe?
It’s bizarre
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The UK police force’s record in recording and investigating male victims of domestic abuse is nothing short of appalling.
A man is more likely to be struck by lightening then have a report of DA investigated by the police.
@metpoliceuk
@sussex_police
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@mellow1236
@davidestcourt
@theage
Incite protestors to violence and that’s the kind of behaviour you can expect. The protestors weren’t looking for violence. Things got nasty when the cops tried to kettle them, then started indiscriminately pepper spraying individuals
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The pain and emptiness a father feels when his children are cruelly removed from his life is unbearable.
The damage it does to the children is profound but often not readily visible.
Sadly societal institutions too readily aid vile mothers in facilitating this horrific abuse.
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- 4,000 male suicides/year
- 2.4x more homicides than women
- 82% of rough sleepers are men
- 90% of the prison pop are men
- 95% of workplace deaths are men
- 50% of DA victims are men
Despite these shocking stats, the gov don’t have a single policy for men but loads for women
@LDNVictimsComm
@jessphillips
- 4,000 male suicides/year
- 2.4x more homicides than women
- 82% of rough sleepers are men
- 90% of the prison pop are men
- 95% of workplace deaths are men
- 50% of DA victims are men
Despite these shocking stats, the gov don’t have a single policy for men but loads for women
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Don’t be lured by the MGTOW and feminist ideologies. They play to your grievances and pull you in like a Greek Siren.
They are both guaranteed to lead you to a place of misery.
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This is appalling.
The gaslighting here is chronic. Emma Hayes’ dishonesty is reprehensible and the complicity of the media is utterly shameful.
The pathologising of men continues unrestrained
He offers a handshake, she pushes him & then says this, which the Independent is of course happy to platform
You can’t make this up!
If a man did this to a woman…?
Another day another double standard
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How could it be that the major Domestic Abuse organisations do not want to recognise male victims and provide them with services they desperately need?
This is why…
There’s currency in victimhood and the feminist Mafia hold all the cards.
It’s time to challenge their ideology
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“Women are not violent, violence against women is a male problem and they need to check themselves”
Add this to the
#VAWG
stats so we can use to create more language and policy that pathologies men and boys
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This is utterly disgraceful.
This is an egregious breach of the equality act. The political cowardice that allows this to happen in broad daylight is extraordinary
When you consider crimes that happen to both sexes as violence against only females, you inevitably end up erasing a large proportion of male victims.
Shame on you. Do better.
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