the woman in the arena
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“I made the greatest of gods give birth to me,” Athena declared, “I am immaculate. I am immaculate!”
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this is genuinely the kind of casual cruelty that teachers are noticing more and more in the younger generation. I really worry for the girls because the internet addiction has flattened everyone’s sense of humanity to a scary degree. I’m sure he doesn’t even register the.
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i can't believe jay z said "your breasteses is my breakfast" on drunk in love and no one stopped him.
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this makes me really sad to see. especially as i make amends with my body and start to understand it’s consciousness and the way it speaks to me. the body loves you so much, it really is doing it’s best for you and every time your heart pumps it’s a love letter from the.
unpopular opinion but this is my dream body, the size of her waist compared to the rest of her body is crazy and she still looks skinny, i want that
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the nuclear family myth got y’all fucked up omg. when i’m old i hope it’s common to raise children as a community and take care of our elderly in the same way. let the kids have multiple places to get food, help with homework, entertainment, safety and let old people be cared for.
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This girl is chosen. I hate to break it to yall but she absolutely is.
So incredible @theestallion. Blown away by your vulnerability and choice to truly face yourself. So many can’t relate.
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i love that lizzo just posts her nudes on instagram every day and goes about her fucking business leaving it up to us to decide what we wanna do with what we're looking at. it's literally none of her concern, she did her part, she showed ass.
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And he cut her hair because it’s the most striking feature and easily admirable thing about her. He did it to ruin her beauty and humiliate her, you add the twitch audience in and it feels almost ritualistic. A defiling of the feminine. Genuinely disgusting and idk how she.
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that “he was never my man” from keke hit august in the chest he heard it in jadas voice and got to snappin 😭😭.
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or she’s learned she can bulldoze her mother with chaotic and violent outbursts 😭😭 cause HUH, ripping them up with what now???.
If North West ripping up couches to see Kanye… that means Kanye is the better parent. Which also means Kim K prevents North from seeing her father against her will.
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i just remembered that solange is married lmfaooo god what a mood, if i ever have a husband i want people to regularly forget that he exists.
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this is the kind of subtle unkindness that seeps out of men when you’re in your light and you’re having your moment. maybe he isn’t outright mean about it, but he’ll find little ways to disregard and belittle you.
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Anxious attached people can’t understand that in the same way you don’t want an avoidant’s half assed closed off love (rightfully so btw), they don’t want your grasping desperate reactionary love that is mostly a constant attempt to self soothe.
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for anyone crying to this please know I cried writing it. It was channeled straight from my body and it’s resonating with yours for a reason. Let’s try to love our bodies back even a fraction of the love it holds for us. I wanna continue to repair my relationship with my body.
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@indigoshan1 @sagittariusmuse definitely not trying to lecture and I’m speaking to a universal you, which includes me too. and I don’t mind being triggered, I can feel the wave of shame or sadness and move through it and express it. it’s not a gotcha.
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what’s crazy is like she’s lowkey right and the comments and quotes are proving it. this woman is annoying yes but she’s incredibly self aware. She states right off the bat the primary things about her that are off putting to others. How high energy and type A she is but she also.
Imagine posting a video over three minutes long about a matchmaker rejecting you as a client (at 38 years old) and not accepting that maybe the problem lies with yourself.
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no one:. not a single soul:. literally not even me:. a bitch with an afro and a septum ring: it's a HEALED girl summer, we connecting with the ancestors and cutting soul ties. let me drive the throat chakra!.
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It sucks that he set her up to be embarrassed by the hosts with that “so you ain’t really want her?” question but their love story makes sense to me in context. Simone is a champion, she’s been a tenacious go-getter her entire life and one thing about people like that is they’re.
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@Calendaric79 people keep saying “he was already holding hair” not realizing it’s HER HAIR. it’s not staged unless she’s wearing extensions but from how long her front pieces are it seems like her hair.
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@money_luvs her reaction is common. she was shocked. And not to mention shes being filmed to hundreds of pissy little boys who are cheering this on. I think the last frame if you really look at her eyes you see the horror.
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@ReggieDAES I see that, either way he is appealing to a younger audience and is himself very immature. He’s a caricature of a gen z streamer and his actual age just makes it so so so much more pathetic but the rest remains true.
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i'm tired of saying i have anxiety i'm ready to go full aunty with it and hit 'em with the "my nerves are bad"
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@_ellemiich Somehow this doesn’t surprise me instead of millennial men developing a template of masculine maturation for the generations behind them to follow they stayed in arrested development and circled back around to enrich themselves with podbucks while poisoning the very well that.
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@ReggieDAES I see that, either way he is appealing to a younger audience and is himself very immature. He’s a caricature of a gen z streamer and his actual age just makes it so so so much more pathetic but the rest remains true.
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@MRBLEUFACE i had a great aunt (while very drunk) tell me as a teen that men steal power thru sex and how sex was a woman’s power but she had to be smart about it I understood the gist of what she meant but assumed the ‘men steal power’ was just dramatic west African sauce thrown in but this.
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@hannahreesie @_kennethrin he's also really excited to hit her as hard as he can for shock value and bursts into genuine laughter when he sees her about to cry. there's something weird about all of it lmao.
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@Dutchilad @ginamtz98 @bibimmachin periods aren't anything to be ashamed of lol, tell her welcome to the club.
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yeah the big fear is that divesting from men will mean you won’t have anyone to love you but i can tell you that when you give up this limited concept of romantic love and ask love to reveal itself to you in all of the deep and expanded ways love shows up for us, life blossoms.
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And we can tell cause the second you get triggered u either explode or implode. The love isn’t sitting on anything or really rooted. In a moment it can be ripped up in an emotional whirlwind of accusations. Your past hurts are buried in shallow graves that the wind can blow open.
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@MellyC89 @readingasshoe Mind you middle aged is gen x. That’s not even that old to be acting like that.
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Looking back she was really the soft life blueprint I miss you Shirley!!
Who’s your favorite OG ItGIRL ?.
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and you can be upset, downset, onset, or even offset, she don't give a fuck! her part of this exchange is done! she's going home!.
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@Jamille101_ It’s not when you really understand that the thing that’s wrong with him is the thing that’s wrong with all men who are like that. They are dead inside and when they see something alive and vibrant and beautiful they gotta kill it too. It’s why so many women have lived such small.
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i wish i could experience what it's like to be socialized as a man. how can you be so confident and stupid at the same time? men will know NEXT TO NOTHING about a topic and still speak as an authority. WHAT.
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FINALLY somebody made a non-rkelly version of this meme i can now know peace
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always making sure to have plausible deniability tho, so when you clock it (the sinking feeling in your heart is your signal) he can say that ur being crazy and he didn’t mean anything by it.
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@1ittlep1ittle It’s sooo funny too cause she’s married and her husband has a men’s group and is doing the work but she still gets online and makes a dozen videos a day reminding men that they deserve nothing good in life 😭😭😭😂😂😂 love her.
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@d_nyletak @MsJuneGiraffe @RaisingAndrea she's dropping popcorn kernels in the water to simulate how easy it is to get roofied even if you're watching your drink.
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you can sense her absolute contempt for other women in literally everything she writes lmao.
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@freakoutfights her poor confused “owww?!” Yk she never did nothing in her life to deserve this 😭😭.
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@GlamazonJay yup and he retaliates by never posting pics of her or @‘ing her, was at the premiere the whole day but no behind the scenes snaps of her or her on the carpet from his vantage point. he only posted his watch and pics of himself.
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@BlackTzedek Didn’t he have multiple kids on her 😭😭 so the bigger problem is her leaving and not her husband decimating their vows and creating legacies outside of their family. I mean just the ultimate disrespect as a wife and mom. She had every right to leave no one deserves that.
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The more I understand about the nervous system and how we unconsciously learn to be afraid in our bodies because we were popped or spanked or outright beat for what was often either mistakes or exploring boundaries (a natural phase of growth), the more I see the benefit of being.
as an adult, I wish we would all talk to each other more gently. refreshing af.
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yeah no, black joy is resistance. black music is liberation. foh you're the only one bringing up a fucking plantation. you're sick.
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@only1kosey @NotUncleJu @5_D what’s crazy is this is all a result of being so deeply uncultured and what’s worse, uncurious. the kilt is actually a symbol of fierce and blistering masculinity, worn by highland warriors in Scotland and the surrounding areas. a simple google search away 😭😭.
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i don't even relate to women who don't "get" meg. shut up, eve, the lilith's are talking 😂😂.
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even when he went to correct the compliment he said “jk she really liked it and thought they were good” not realizing I had heard what she actually said through the phone. it was one of those subtle things that he didn’t think anything of, but I saw my future flash before my eyes.
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and the constant accusation that she’s unaware of why she’s single. how insulting!!! I can’t imagine how much time and energy she’s put into talking and thinking about why she’s single. and she’s incredulous because what this woman is saying to her is probably shit she’s heard.
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This is literally why the birth rate is dropping I mean actually literally this is all that’s going on across the world this exact thing basically.
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black people have a hard time being anticapitalist because it feels unfair that we never got a fighting chance at ultra-wealth before the game was over. my advice? get over it lmfao our earth is dying we need to be oriented towards sustainable community not stunting.
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anywayz black trans lives matter donate to my friend's transition fund
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i stan lori harvey's ability to be projected upon without objection it really is a skill. lmfao to just never feel the need to defend yourself or prove anything. i'm taking notes.
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@JeniecePrimus Well he set the tone and set her up. And he should have shifted the convo there but he’s not very chivalrous as we can see by the multiple times he stated how he didn’t chase her. She’s on unfamiliar territory and in a room of all men, if he had protective instincts he wouldn’t.
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@BigGeejaynae Real ones know. If you’ve ever dared to be free in a way that your circle didn’t approve of then you KNOWWWW.
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@UncleKujo @mikeognxl @OmarDeanII she had a threesome and said many times she never wanted to be married idk why that's being used to shame her but y'all got it lmfao.
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@KweCreativ Keep going.
@caliphorniaqing Everyone could read the room but him. they were trying to let him know nicely that he wasn't the catch.
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@UncleKujo @mikeognxl @OmarDeanII why is two women and one man a threesome, and two men and one woman a train?.
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@offbeatorbit @KINGTREAA @saintdyana that's what i thought i been shook all day since i got that reply i didn't know WHAT to say.
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@NirobiTexan @MRBLEUFACE It’s crazy you think this many men are all pulling bad bitches. We’re mid for mid in these streets don’t act like you don’t know.
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@shOoObz they’re a deeply repressed people it’s so strange. it’s bad here in Minnesota cause not only is it physically cold but socially cold too. It’s been so many times at concerts or gatherings I’ve had to be the one to start clapping and whooping they genuinely just think it’s rude.
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so wait it was AFTER she fought through her tears that this man decided to put her first????????? it was only then that her love was on top???.
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short woman tall man love is so pedestrian. grow up, literally. tall woman short man love is legendary. iconic. inherently erotic. inspired! sexy! it's the only way really
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@_ImYoGrandpa it's almost like human beings are attracted to good and healthy things what a concept i know lmfao.
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i can't wait until i'm making enough money that when my friends mention money problems i just cashapp them what they need w/o even thinking about it. whenever i think about being successful i think about that the most lmao.
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i remember my ex’s mom told him to tell me over the phone that she was really impressed with my branding work and thought my design was beautiful and eye catching and he turns to me and goes “my mom said your branding work was boring and ugly”, then snickered.
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i fw lizzo heavy but i MUST admit there does seem to be a line of demarcation between white women who LOOOOOVE her and black women who just find her okay. what's good girlies???? black femmes why we not stanning the doll????.
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@ceechynaax this is def on him. Sorry love, the ring is beautiful though hope you got it resized quickly.
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y'all remember dream? that white girl group on bad boy? this one of the girls and nick carter from the backstreet boys raped her when she was a teenager. men are canceled forever.
I’m not afraid anymore #metoo
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@juuuraaa27 @KnicksCentral @wrembley @KeithOlbermann THE PROBLEM IS dismissing hip hop when you desire political commentary in music when it is the most political artform there is. THAT'S wild.
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@esssdabest I’m sorry but I hate how all of this is being presented as “tea” on social media. It’s really stark and horrible things that we should take a step back and process cause what you’re saying here is beyond gossip and nothing to sip on.
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@five_nine_dev @nke_ise @sasajuric it happened with a face recognition software as well, some of these sensors don't pick up darker skin, poc at the company would help.
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y’all will deny it but the same thing that makes you beat your kids is the same thing that killed this baby. all your misdirected rage and frustration towards your children, all the terror and pain they feel during, it’s the same it’s the same it’s the same.
i really can’t believe this girl i used to have on facebook really killed her daughter…. poor baby. this is so heartbreaking. CPS is a joke fr.
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17 years later and still giving nothing but stomp the yard opening scenes choreography and “wall to wall” vocals. when will it end jesus.
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@Sadie_Syclone oh i see. you’re dumb. I didn’t account for that and took you seriously. nevermind 😭😭
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why is this making me scream! lmfao this man seems like the nicest and sanest and most informative person on here y'all really must have fucked up to get him in his bag like this.
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I’m enjoying hiding your replies and blocking you creeps 😂 it’s so fun. You won’t get your evil shit off here this post is about love and recognizing the warrior spirit of this woman who rises from the ashes every time yall try to burn her at the stake 😂.
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@IamRheanna yeah I fully believe that the body is the greatest expression of beauty for the soul for sure. Because the body is the ultimate truth of your present consciousness, manifest into physical form. how couldn’t it be ultimate beauty as well? I’m just sad I got so lost in these petty.
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@uglyhxes @givenchyass if yall would have let him die quietly instead of praising him as a feminist and a civil rights leader, but nah. so the truth should be told.
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@sophiee_ob @Rihanatsona I’m talking about the performance of cruelty to thousands of parasocial fans.
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@FirstAndNumbers 😂😂😂 honestly some mornings I wake up like are u GOOD??? do we have BEEF what’s going on 😭😭.
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@OxtailsandRice @__star_b @redleg81 Y’all want our dads to mistreat us to prep us for y’all bullshit but nope!!!
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@jen1nifer @UrRealDad68 @J_Sammour @CarlinReeseWIP lmfaooo i'm tryna find out he said route running industry i was like
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@J_Sammour @CarlinReeseWIP but there's. a ton of men in the make up industry so no woman would say that.
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@saturday_purple Yeah who knows what’s even true. Though I do think it has a concerning undertone. This idea that he thinks his daughter will do or could do anything for them to be together. Very toxic position for a co-parent.
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@UrRealDad68 @J_Sammour @CarlinReeseWIP there are many female sports journalists who cover football and routes though so. .
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@rowengiles you do know the man "rapping" is gil scott heron, who was a jazz musician and spoken word artist in the 70's. what "street culture"?.
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@Poetic_Filth That’s what triggered me honestly imagine we both in the grippy socks and you trying to tell me sumn. No maam!.
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@ycsm1n Honestly they’re on to something. They’re just using really fantastic language and conceptualizing it in a magical way but it is a bright spot in the zoomer psyche for me. I hope they’re all able to shift into the best version of their lives.
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@SweetGirlNessaL this is a really good analogy and I definitely hit this hump in my self love journey because I felt like the inside of me was so radiant and attractive yet the outside of me actively repelled others and made them treat me badly. It is genuinely so disorienting and painful but you.
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@OMGchronicles @zellieimani god, the pure and lived-in joy that radiates from women over 60 is something i'm looking forward to.
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