I’m turning into that girl who doesn’t want to leave the house on her days off unless it’s for something cute like a new coffee shop, museum date, day trip, drinks, etc.
You can literally feel it in your mind, body, and soul when God is trying to force you to grow. He’ll give you clarity and make it almost impossible for you to stay complacent in the space that you’re in.
This may sound harsh, but as a woman you cannot surround yourself with a bunch of miserable women and thrive. I know everyone has their moments and goes through things but some are just internally miserable and will never be able to lift you or genuinely be happy for you.
I feel like oftentimes people who are selective with who they invite into their aura/space are labeled as standoffish, antisocial, or mean. In actuality they’re just super intentional and value genuine connections.
I just want to spend the rest of this year letting things flow for once in my life and not stressing over outcomes. Just letting God guide me while I work on being the best version of me.
I’m learning that when you’re not in the best headspace the best thing you can do is place your focus on becoming a better version of yourself or getting back to where you’d like to be. Once you do that you begin to feel expectant instead of defeated.
Again, I’m so happy my algorithm has been mastered. I only see things that are pleasing to my eyes and mental like fashion, cute photo collages, art, music, design, positive affirmations, etc. Mess doesn’t even hit my TL.
Note to self - please give yourself permission to be human, give yourself permission to have bad days, give yourself permission to be flawed, and last but not least please give yourself the same grace and patience that you give to everyone else.
@mightbechule
Girl, literally bookmarked this because YES. It’s crazy because when we were younger people were mean and judgy but now? We’re judging and comparing our own pics due to this “standard”.
Slowly falling in love with this new season of me, it’s been all about self love/care.
I’m finally realizing that self love isn’t just about taking care of your physical being, it’s also about honoring your boundaries, standards, intuition, and respecting yourself.
@cristinasgone
I really don’t see the problem here lol. Her man is locked up, she apparently misses him and needs some reassurance. It’s obvious that a lot of people have never been in love or emotionally vulnerable.
Trying to do so many things at once like heal, re-regulate my nervous system, further my success, be there for my loved ones but also create boundaries, take time to enjoy my life etc… It can feel so overwhelming but I trust that I’m walking into the best season of my life.