I would love to know what bible she read that causes a lack of responsibility and accountability. “Letting go and let God” does not equate to waiting around idly , you actively have to make choices daily to deny yourself.
Since rejecting Christianity, I’ve had a greater sense of responsibility & accountability to people, my community & the planet.
I don’t wait for a “saviour” to fix things or “let go and let God”.
I don’t do things for “God’s favour”, I do it because it’s the right thing to do.