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@cameroonguinean
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๐จ๐ฒ๐ฌ๐ผ Extremely Pro-Black ๐ชฎ | From the Dirty Souf ๐๏ธ | Pan-Africanist | Peace above all else ๐๐พ
College Park, Ga.
Joined September 2021
I just blocked and deaded friendships with 4 of my "homeboys". I had back surgery literally a whole month ago and not one of those niggas checked on your boy. I ain't say shit, I just blocked and let it be what it is. Niggas wasn't my real friends.
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We are both the prize, and the sooner each side realizes this, the smoother relationships will flow. You chose him, just as he chose you. No one forced either side to be together. Out of all the people you could have been with, you chose each other. Therefore, he is the prize, &.
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It doesn't matter where it happens, as long as it happens ๐ค๐ค๐ค.#marriage .#BlackLove
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@DramaGotRacks If that's how you look at it, that's how you look at it. That is your opinion and I'm not here to argue with you bro. I just know what I don't tolerate and will not tolerate from my circle.
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All I'm going to say is, check on your people man.
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Thatโs the kind of picture that makes you say โwhy would I choose anything elseโ ๐ค
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You are the prize. You wouldnโt need to keep having these types of conversations because it is already understood that each side is equally valuable to the other.
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@Irunnia_ Yeah, all six Bros and my three female friends were made aware of the surgery before the surgery and the day of the surgery.
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@bidemiistired Lmfao I swear John Cena going down in history as the invisible man ๐๐๐๐
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@LovenToxicGrace That. Is such a sorry ass weak ass excuse to date outside of black men. & by that logic, the only people who it should really make you feel gross to date are the specific people you've actually called that. You haven't referred to all black men in the world as cousins & family.
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@chukkysmiles_ The whole circle knew I was getting surgery prior to my surgery, and the "day of" my surgery just in case anything happened. Everybody was made aware: my 6 bros, and my 3 female friends.
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@NYTStyles Imagine being a black person and having to alter how you speak indefinitely just to be with somebody of a different race, instead of just being your full unapologetically black self with your own people.
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@Marcellaworld Life was beating my ass too lol we all going through shit, i checked on them but not once did they ask me how I was doing since my surgery. My other Bros did but those four didn't. You cut them out and replace them.
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@EtherealEva07 It does though. So many women let their pride in communicating with a man first sometimes kill a lot of their relationships/connections ๐คฆ๐ฝโโ๏ธ we want to be shown we are thought of and appreciated as well.
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Lol We all agree that that was very much justified.
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@b66ldyss Yeah. My other two male friends and those three girls still do, itโs just those four that havenโt.
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@justasisterfro2 He went to four different black people and ask just for a bottle of water to be paid for, and only one had a sense of compassion and received a blessing for it.
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@Mr2Pens I gave them a whole month since my back surgery, nothing was temporary at this point. This was a strategically thought out decision, I cut them off.
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This is video proof for those of y'all who keep calling Kamala Harris a "Black woman". She is not! In her book, she says "I consider myself an American, a proud daughter of immigrants, and a proud Indian-American." NOT a "Black woman" !
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@TheVillianRose2 @DramaGotRacks It's all good, he can feel how he feel. We all operate differently.
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@TakeYoTimeSlime There's certainly a bias. But if we're being completely honest, the women who think like her, they're not looking for a "provider" in its entirety; emotional care, partnership, & shared life responsibilities. They want a "sponsor". Someone to finance them only while doing nothing.
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@Fleezybe @DramaGotRacks What's to talk about? You showed me your true colors after I told y'all I was having back surgery. The fact that those 4 of 6 didn't hit me up to check in after to see how I'm doing after a whole month, Ain't nothing feminine, I see what it is, & I block to forget you exist.
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@sdjmjj15 Should have hit me up like "aye bro, I just heard from Malik & Chris that you doing good & can walk again, Just want to let you know I ain't forget about you bro & glad you doing better bro" I received nothing, & I know for a fact they didn't bc I've spoken to the other two.
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@Tasha_HTX Exactly. It's all good though lol situations will always show you who your real friends are.
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@3mani01 Yโall always complaining about something minuscule and then wonder why yโall are always single or in toxic relationships smh.
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@Kele_Megano Your photographer just sent you the raw file, it's okay I fixed it for you though. It looks even more elegant now!
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@heyiitswillow You donโt like that men are agreeing that she shouldnโt have even answered bro if she got a man?.
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Mannnn what South Park episode was this? ๐๐๐
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@KareemLeaksJr lol we all going through shit, i checked on them but not once did they ask me how I was doing since my surgery. My other 2 bros did but those four didn't. You cut them out and replace them.
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Breakfast! Watermelon juice with ginger, coconut water, kiwi, lemon. And whole watermelon slices๐
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@JIB530 @LondynnMilan Bruh. You need therapy for that family TRAUMA, going throughout life not dating black women because of some past family trauma shit that you've yet to deal with?? Nah bruh, find you a therapist & allow yourself to heal & forgive. You're not being fair to yourself until you do.
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@__kingnetta He hid it with me for a reason, obviously she was the reason he hid it, at the end of the dayโฆsheโs not blood family, he was, so I have no reason nor inclination at all to tell her about some Mโs he didnโt want her to have ๐คท๐พโโ๏ธ lol.
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@iSpeak_ebonicz I did, everyone knew what was going on and I knew what they had going on, but only two out of the six was still hitting me up to see how I was holding up and making sure I'm not doing anything to mess my back up while I'm healing. The other four was out partying and shit.
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I'm sorry you feel that way but I hope you keep that same energy. What are you a friend for if you're not actively checking on your friends & vice versa? If you, God forbid, ever have a life-altering event happen to you. I truly hope you feel the same way & keep that same energy.
@cameroonguinean Ngl, you sound self centered afโฆ no one is obligated to check in on you.
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@KhaParisDior I donโt think it has anything to do with some people not being about to โaffordโ it, but everything to do with it just looks like a waste for food you can literally cook yourself for less than what you/yโall had to pay. But hey, as long as you enjoyed it right lol.
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@iKev_sl I need women to value theirselves more! The first cheat, you leave! There is not a person, soul, entity residing in this world that is worth fighting for or dying for, thereโs a plethora of people out here in this world, no one is that mfโn special to stick by & almost die over.
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@Fleezybe @DramaGotRacks I don't know about you bro, but I am a real ass friend. I go toe to toe for the mfs in my corner, just keep it g with me, that's all I ask of you.
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Ain't nothing more beautiful to me than the black woman ๐ฎโ๐จ๐คโซ
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"This grown man business"
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Yโall talking about that white woman but Kierra Cole been missing for 3 years
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These are those bitch ass niggas with those fragile egos I be talking about. Bitch ass niggas can't even handle rejection. They go straight to trying to violate a woman because you got turned down.
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@ATLUncensored people keep failing to realize when you cheat, once caught, some people lose their whole ass mind & you can lose your life in the process, just break up with the person if youโre that unhappy smh that heartache can drive someone to do some horrid shit to you for cheating on them.
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A lot of these brothas were never taught/raised with comradery, caring & looking out for one another, always checking on each other. My father (a Vietnam war veteran) & I had a healthy relationship & we always talked. I wasn't taught to bottle my emotions. I was also in the army.
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@sabarbaradoll His parents probably told him Santa said he ainโt getting shit for Christmas ๐๐๐.
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@fatbuttkhy The vagina pictures don't do shit for me actually. I Always tell women don't send me that because it doesn't do anything. Lingerie pics or titty pics or ass does it for me. Just the vagina in picture form doesn't really arouse me like it does when I'm in its physical presence.
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How is it already a shootout at six flags & they just opened back up yesterday on the 2nd. This shit is sad. Them young niggas have no discipline. Nothing but degenerates out here. How are you shooting at a place that's for fun? How do you have opps at six flags.#SixFlags
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@Duffal0 You steady trying to prove some point & all I just said was check on your people lol If that's how you operate, you stuck in this gender norm where it's emasculating to check on your friends then. I'm sorry for every relationship & friendship you get in. u Won't have true friends.
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Made me some vegan chocolate chip cookies with almond milk ๐ช ๐ฅ
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@_therealbreee ๐ฃ fuck that! Me and the ancestors are connected! Ima keep growing my shit! ๐จ๐พโ๐ฆฑโ๐พ.
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@3LSII I mean I hear youโฆbut damn lol Brothas out here getting curved & left on read for cleat niggas ๐คฆ๐ฝโโ๏ธ.
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@casinojae Thatโs true but they donโt need to. I love the varieties of melanated women of African ancestry.
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I hate that you don't have real friends bro. Hope you never have to have major surgeries in your life man. Real shit.
๐๐๐ this sound like some shit a female a say . ainโt nb check on me ๐คฃ๐คฃ.
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@BurnerOnX I aint had these niggas since childhood. The two niggas who still around are the ones I had from childhood & are the two that have been checking on me. The other 4 were new, give or take 5-6 years. Plain & simple, I had back surgery, they didn't check on me, I removed impurities.
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@KekePalmer Optimism is definitely a double-edged sword, though positive in nature, it definitely can also distort the reality of what youโre being optimistic abt instead of taking it at face value for what it is. Therefore placing you in bad situations & making bad judgment calls a lot more.
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@recreateregine Truly, their reactions showed just how selfish most people are in this society.
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