brute de force
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Benjamin Franklin Disrespecter
Tour De Force
Joined July 2010
The most important skill you should master isn’t making right decisions. It’s surviving the wrong decision. No one is capable of making right decisions. You just try to stay alive until some of your decisions turn out good.
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If you are not actively seeking conflict you are not a healthy man. A man who’s cup is filled with perfect health enjoys spending it more than he does money. Xtreme competition, xtreme endeavors. Conflict avoidance is symptom u are in poor health, & low vitality.
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Life for men is a marathon. Success and failure at any age does not mean shit. Nada. Bar athletics, can get into any field at any age and lap everyone. Men are essentially ageless. It takes just a year to turn your life around. And any jackpot takes a couple of months to.
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Can be in the deepest pit of hell or riding high on a hot streak. Worst thing you can do is check the scoreboard. Your bank account, your age, health bullshit. Scoreboard is for the audience not the player. Can check after the game is over. Except irl the game is never over.
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telling the truth is more entropic than lying. Liars want to impose their reality onto the world. want things to play out exactly how they imagined. Foolish. The honest man embraces chaos. He doesn’t know what telling the truth will lead to. He has the vitality to move w it.
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You’re pretty much born perfect and the only thing you have to learn is to unlearn everything imposed on yourself. Unclogging your psyche is the only skill out there. All other self work is an attempt to configure a system that doesn’t have dials.
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Remember seeing a poker player get mopped for 3 million in a cash game & upon his exit he was interviewed. Girl asks him how he’s so calm. He said if flipping out would get me the money back I’d be flipping out right now. All wisdom emanates from that comment.
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When the climb is over and you're standing at the zenith the glance ahead is gonna show all the spoils that you were promised. Thousandfold more than you thought. It will catch you by surprise. But a glance at the path behind is gonna make it clear that almost 0 of everything.
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Wearing masculinity as a decoration is extremely homosexual. Zero, and i mean zero amount of muscle, money, & having sons will make you feel like a man. Men are starting families, hitting the gym, wearing suits strictly for the appearance of seeming a man. Moving through sludge,.
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If you zoom in close enough everyone is a loser. Everyone is fucked up in ways you can’t even fathom. Some are just losers who make it work.
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The real epidemic of the modern man is being anxious all the time. Not because he has too many problems. Nah. Because he has too few. When you have just one problem, it's a problem. When you have many, you have none. The mind is dexterous at kicking in the muting.
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My daughter was just born. Natural homebirth is goated. The war cry of a woman in labor will wring in your head for eternity. Confirms my theory women are internally as tough as men are on the outside. And men are internally as weak as women are on the outside.
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When your back is against the wall it's not your family, friends, girlfriends, nation, investment portfolio that will save you, it will just be you and your mind. Invest in what matters first, your mission is all you have.
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Best part about carving your own path is not having a single soul to look up to. No one to give you advice. No one to outsource your pain to. No search for wisdom. All the answers are there in front of you. You carry all your pain alone. Turns you into a beast.
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Don’t think I have met a bigger sign of genius than being absolutely incoherent and unpredictable. Contradicting thoughts and actions. Last minute pivots. Living by the day and the moment. Only geniuses realize that you can’t plan much beyond a day. And even a day is generous.
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Hardest thing for a man to do bar none is not to behave desperate when he actually is. Still saying no and rejecting dogshit opportunities even when you need things to pop makes living gods out of men. Chilling back steady riding the waves wounded & soon the best presents itself.
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Suffering makes a man kinder. Only thing that life beats out of man is what’s poisoning his body. Life’s struggles are a man’s ally not the enemy.
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BS notion you have to rub shoulders w prestigious fat cats to ascend the ladder. Gold is found in dirt. Oil is at the bottom of the ocean. Diamonds in the mines. None of this by accident. You descend for lifes treasures. And so too, you descend to the throne.
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Who you need to be is usually a tiny step from who you already are. But you’ll wander very far before you realize you were pretty much there to begin with. No way around it.
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You underestimate how fast you forget about the misery when you get a big dub. Lightning quick. Can toil in tatters for years & you’ll forget it all in the snap of a finger. Even PTSD is from loud explosions and not the events themselves.
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All men give their best performance only after they get absolutely crushed by life. Only after they get stripped from any hopes and aspirations. When they’re left with nothing. A man is born only when the boy dies. It takes courage and vulnerability to let life kill the boy.
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Ur gonna regret all those times you didn’t waltz inside the smoky bar. Go running amidst the thunder & lightning. Get in your car at and blitz to the ocean for a midnight swim. All the venues you walked by without peeking inside. All the Hello’s you never said.
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Most people never realize u only seize a fraction of what you shoot for in life. To hit 6 figs you gotta be gunning for a mil. To snag an 8 youre gunning for 10’s. To be a billionaire youre going for immortality. Gotta shoot so far beyond what you want in life itll make u sick.
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Big myth that confidence comes from upside. 0 amount of good looks/riches makes u confident as a man. Nil. If anything has a spillover effect that makes u more insecure. Confidence comes from embracing the negative. If ur dog shit ugly and stride on anyway. Thats confidence.
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A lifetime of niceness,. When you snap once,. You won’t be taken seriously. Whatsoever. A lifetime of being an asshole. When you’re nice once. It’ll be the most cherished experience for them. Lesson in there.
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The hardest thing for people after a tragic fall from grace is learning how to be king of the slums while you work your way back up. You have to work with people who have less aptitude than you’re used to. You’ll be shot down by losers. You have to rally with the clowns.
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There’s an intelligence level u just don’t wanna hit in social settings. It’s too powerful. Makes you antisocial and trip over urself. It’s a dragon you have to suppress. Makes sense y very smart dudes like to drink. Polishes the edges.
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The irony is that the guy with the map is the one to get lost. The philosopher is the one to be most confused. The one who looks closely is the one to miss. The clearest vision comes to those who dare to see less.
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If someone in ur household is sleeping and you try to be overly cautious, tip toe around sneak by they always wake up. When you move normally & open drawers etc in careless motion they never wake up. Many things in life are like this.
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Can basically take unlimited losses in life & still stand strong as long as resentment and bitterness doesnt seep in. Once you become chilled on ice by bitterness ive scarcely ever seen anyone recover from that.
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Proven cure for laziness is overextending yourself to a nauseating level. Bringing on commitments that overwhelm you to the point you cant think straight. Youll be forced to start moving. Microwave the frontal cortex. Youll hone in on what needs to be done.
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The whole act aloof, busy, distant, reply late is peasant behavior. Game has ruined so many chances for men to climb the top rung of the ladder. The world at the top is too fast. Don’t reply to a message in 5 seconds you never will. The deal will decay. Momentum will fade.
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100% of male depression is expecting someone else to make the first move.
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You're more likely to get the things you think you can't have than things you know you can have. The guy living by the beach doesn't swim often. Live in a touristy city and you will never check out the hot spots. You know you can have it so you don't even bother to reach.
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Absolute comedy how the most unimportant people in the world pretend to be busy, take 3 hours to respond etc. But the wealthiest, most successful & important ppl I’ve ever met are always available, answering the phone at 2am if needed; respond in seconds. Lesson in there.
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You should always seize what you see. Because everything you see is yours. Things that are not yours you will never see. You either have taste that will conveyor belt you to divinity or you don't. That was decided at birth. All you have to do is submit.
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Winners are always having fun. Exclusively. As a rule. What they find fun the average person does not. They can be entangled in the most disparaging horror show circus of a situation & find enjoyment in it. They see everything as a game. And all games winnable.
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High Iq isn’t for pontificating and trying to understand how life works. It’s for YOLOING & sailing through the storms of life better than a dumb person would. Y most philosophers died losers. Too much thinking too lil action.
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The real war is always in the mind. It’s a war that doesn’t need medals on the chest. All the medals are worn on your face. Your gait reveals the landscape of the hell you’re returning from. When you have all the stories you no longer have to tell the stories. They’re etched on.
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A woman’s love for you is proportionally relative to how fast she’d collapse if she was in your shoes.
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If ur a man madly in love with a woman the only way to keep the fires kindling is to intermittently * disappear* on high adventures , even if ur married with kids. Nothing tears people apart like being together 24/7. Male adventure comes first. Especially when it hurts 2 leave.
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99.99% of men I know with fire in their belly are immigrants. Unless you can manufacture a real adversity, you’re royally fucked if you don’t move to foreign lands. No prophet is ever accepted in his hometown. You have to become a nobody. The naked man, the nobody is the only.
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20’s is all about breaking as many chains as possible until the reality sets in on u that u’ve never had ur own back before. First parents, then employer, then your biases. men draw lines. Once you know what you’re absolutely unwilling to do any longer, the way forward is easy.
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This is far above the most honest/raw/best question I’ve ever received on here
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Introspection is a bigtime luck killer. You don’t want to know yourself too well as a man. So many times you need extra horsepower , your mind will block you with the governor chip bc you’re too aware. Slumps get worse the more you analyze the slump. Externalize everything.
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A secret that holds true for every man of distinction is that deep down they are borderline suicidal/depressed the entire time but channel that energy into all facets of life. And it makes them giants. The trick is to never cave into the energy or it’s all she wrote.
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If you want to be worth a fuck ur gonna have to experience hundreds of nights of brutal disappointments, hundreds of try’s and nothing working, heart-stricken, blood drink, gnawing loneliness, then it all clicks. U leave way too much on the table when you opt for comfort.
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You won’t talk to hot chicks, won’t lift to max; won’t pitch wild ideas. Your entire life is designed around avoiding EMBARRASSMENT. You don’t want to LOOK like the little guy. But your rather BE the little guy as long as you don’t have to feel the sting of rejection.
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Money and women are the two domains you should take the least seriously. Tomfoolery leads to the biggest gains in both.
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The Gods got bored and made men and the earth and whatever just to have fun and the most entertaining ones get it all. Bad things happen to good people because they're boring af. Only scale against which nature measures the man is that of entertainment. Whoever is running the.
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Can march your way all the way to the top just asking for shit everyone else is afraid to ask for. The heaviest gates can open with an ask. It’s not qualification dependent either. It’s sheer audacity. Same way a minor paper cut can slice open your finger.
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One of gayest psyops by far is the idea that men keep all their problems to themselves. Nah. Losers do that. Getting assistance to tackle problems is the most masculine thing you can do. Building teams, building armies, getting ppl involved. Masculine trait.
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Women teach u everything there is to know about life. 0 wisdom in anything else. Nada. Everything else will load you up on knowledge. And if ur good with women ur good at everything else. Good at sales, good insights, good creative direction etc.
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You have no idea what a loser trait Worry really is. The less you have going on the more you worry, about everything. Youre sidelined, never in the game & you obsess over absolute nonsense. Take on the biggest challenges you never worry about.
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All the true hermits i know dont grow a sliver of social rust. Can descend into deep work barricaded for years & show flashes of brilliance socially when called to it. Bc work is the self discovery process. Converely those who go out every night are socially unimpressive.
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When you drive fast you almost never have to check your mirror or surroundings or look over shoulder. Its slow drivers who have to cross check everything & look over constantly. Life is very much the same. Slow mfers are obsessed with what other people are doing. Competition is.
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Talent is mostly a lie. Outside of athletic prowess the terrain in life is very flat. What looks like paranormal skill is just people refusing to accept less than a certain standard. They go after more than you and let the buoyancy from being in the scene do all the work.
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All men know negative emotions are a lot more powerful than positive ones. No man accomplishes very much from a good place. Positive emotions are weak, fleeting, and strive to inertia. Bad emotions are intense, lingering, & push for change. If you fight the negative you lose.
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If a chick ever says you look like someone she 100% wants to fuck.
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Men get 100% of their confidence from their psychological pursuits only. Plain and simple. The adventures, experiences, mental barriers they’ve endured. Getting a dream body, cash in the bank, bling etc just makes you shinier. Does fuck all for confidence.
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This is why moving forward will always be goated. Being stuck on one thing, an ex,a bad trade, a botched opportunity makes you a creep. In the literal sense of the word. In physiology creep means tissues getting stiff from inertia.
Can basically take unlimited losses in life & still stand strong as long as resentment and bitterness doesnt seep in. Once you become chilled on ice by bitterness ive scarcely ever seen anyone recover from that.
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Ever notice how lazy people are more exhausted than people who do a fuk load of work. Cuz laziness doesn’t exist. When u ignore the voice in ur head to act ALL day you are being physically & mentally taxed hella hard. Long term u “conserve” more energy by doing more. Lesson.
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No one swerves around the hazard on the road better than the guy distracted with the call with his divorce lawyer. Only time you beat a high score in a game is when you are zoned out and thinking about some other shit. Focus is not just overrated. It's a handicap. Only way to.
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#1 most fucked up way to go through life is not working with what you have in front of you now. Wishing for yesterday back when you can just rewrite history yourself is gay af.
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Every loser has a morbid fascination with imaginary battles. They invent enemies who aren’t real, obsess over people who don’t give a fuck about them etc. fighting ghosts. Never solving any real problems. Losers fight ghosts.
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Obsessive personalities break all the rules & still win. Overstimulated 24/7, no dopamine detox. Massacring songs on repeat 400x in a row, chaingunning cigs all day, sex every day. Mind a constant tempest. All roads to lead to Rome for the obsessed.
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You will go about life differently once you realize the poor man and the rich man live almost identical lives. It’s just a few tweaks, a few sprints every now and then that makes the rich one rich. Outside of that both are wanderers. Technically homeless. Always strolling.
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Hallmark trait of ADHD is letting problems stack up on you for inordinate stretches where everyone is panicking but you. Just to feel the breath of death on your neck. One day you wake up and decide to slash every single one of them & you never know when that’s gonna be.
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Ur average guy needs a monumental disaster to get pissed & change . Death of family, burnt down house , nasty breakup. But all the greats get pissed into action over the tiniest shit. Could be a hole in his shoe or his car door is jammed & it sets him off to go make 7 figs.
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Nothing more common than a Miracle. Nothing more usual than a long shot pulling through. Even 99% is closer to 0 than it is to 100%. The last 1% of any frontier is where math falls apart. Its such an open lane no one outstretches themselves to clasp it.
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most men wait to look & feel their best before they can take any action at all. And youre lucky to get that maybe a few hours a week. The way you perceive yourself is too fleeting & unreliable. Youre going places when you can consistently win when you look & feel like shit.
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There’s dudes who woke up this morning under fire from every direction. Nasty divorce, houses in foreclosure, lawsuits galore, businesses in the red, toys being repo’d. Still laughing, still swagger, they know they’re gonna be ok. But ur moping that ur car payment is 1 day late?.
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Shouldn’t be thinking about trying to cure the root of any of your problems until you get to the top of whtver game youre playing. Until then its all bandaids and tourniquets during the march. Curing yourself before you win is self sabotage.
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Ppl afraid to take on lifes biggest challenges become ants. Find problems where they dont even exist. Find achievement in rearranging things. Dragging the trash bins up the driveway, folding their shirts, putting a dish away. Think being tidy & neat is winning.
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Many dudes have made it into their 20’s without ever knowing the feeling of going berserk. Not at a project, not at the gym, zero Frenzy. Internet turned them into voyeurs. Life is a giant museum where they can only look never touch.
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This is why i said millionaire is a social construct & has zero to do with paper. Millionaire status has a rythym, a cadence, a ring to it. Its an energy. People know millionaire energy when they see it. Youre a millionaire in your mind way before you ever are on paper.
Youll never see a high energy mf give a fuck about protecting his time or energy. Cup is so overflowing he cant ever lose a thing. He’ll just generate more from nothing.
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Anyone doing better than you has it way way worse than you. That’s why they’re better. It’s the penultimate paradox. You’d never wanna be in the shoes of those you look up to. The despair they’ve been through, the pain; the mauling. They sacrifice themselves for wisdom.
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If u ever take a swing at an opportunity and feel like you have to nail it 1st try u don’t really want it. U’ve convinced yourself u do. When u really want something ur whole engine will calibrate for it. U have an infinity clip. U are careless bc you know it’s already yours.
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Theres a game people play with themselves where they try to come up with the next million $ idea from the comfort of their chair. But Ideas are stick figure sketches at best. Non color. Needing a great idea before you exit a shitty situation is a foolproof way to stay there.
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Got arrested for speeding. 2 days in jail. Fasted. Synapses sparked. Brute is back. And we got a mega spaces loaded on deck.
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Testosterone will go down as the biggest psyop of our generation . Everyone was better off having no clue Wtf this thing even is. Been drinking morning to night and smoking 60 cigs a day. Still jacked, still strong af and 0 diminished performance.
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Ancient man had zero fucking clue what he even looked like let alone his body weight. He either speared the mammoth or he didn’t. Life in first person POV. The advent of the camera led men to live life in 3rd person POV. Deeply feminine and homosexual perspective.
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America is one big casino, not a country. Wealth changes hands 24/7. Every lord is an ex-junkie in withdrawal. All houses are made of glass. Every empire is built on sand. Every emperor is naked. The capital isnt even D.C. its Vegas.
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If you are falling apart it’s a sign you have strayed from your nature. Nature doesn’t break. A mfer on his mission can withstand anything. Anything. Can squander a billion opportunities & still win bloodstained. That just nukes his shell. Spirit is protected from the mission.
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Most guys see fitness as the most direct path to getting women but ugly chicks put male aesthetics first. The hotter the woman the less she cares about ur looks. Look around and you’ll see. Nature makes the rules.
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You will receive the most undying LOYALTY from ppl with checkered pasts who had fuk’d up childhoods. Nearly a guarantee they’ll take a bullet for you. The good ole’ Jonny boy who went to Princeton with the manicured family lawn will throw you under the bus 4 a Diet Coke.
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If u don’t start living the life u want right now as in this very second ur in big trouble my friend. When the money and success does come u will feel awkward in your skin. 90% of desired success of any endeavor comes in the 1st month if ur earnest. Only rule is u can’t fake it.
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Youll never see a high energy mf give a fuck about protecting his time or energy. Cup is so overflowing he cant ever lose a thing. He’ll just generate more from nothing.
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You will never ever outperform your self image. Whatever you believe your status is deep down is where you’ll always end up. No matter how hard you work, how lucky you get, how resilient you are, you’ll always level yourself out to ur baseline beliefs about who you are.
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I like this guy. A lot. Neanderthaling his way through life. Shows whats possible with a 300 word max vocabulary. You underestimate how royally fucked he’d be if his IQ was even 1-3 pts higher. So far in the poles of the left curve hes bordering on genius.
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Best part about being a man is never needing to know how you’re gonna get it done, but knowing you will. No chance of serendipity when you prescript shit. Only fools need order. Geniuses lorde over chaos.
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“Doing the same thing over & over & expecting a different result is the definition of insanity” is a lie. Stubbornness is the holy grail of virtue. Your technical process is highly overrated. Making your environment yield to you is underrated. Stubbornness is the essence of.
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Best part of being a man is you perform at ur best when ur at 25% of your best. Youll run up the biggest bag when youre down to crumbs, youll get the girl when you have a fever and a wicked cough, youll lift the most weight when you dont even have it in you to train.
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Telltale sign you’re after what you think you want rather than what you actually want is if you use a playbook. Can take your hands off the wheel and turn on autopilot. Gonna break all the conventional rules and still land the shot. Nothing to be done. It’s already yours.
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