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If you have an iPhone, you can get widgetsmith on the app store and try this. Make a folder in photos for ‘adiyah and create a widget on the home screen so you can recite whatever comes up ان شاء الله
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I don’t think men understand how scary they sound when raising their voices. Being calm isn’t just an admirable trait, it’s very much required in interactions with women. I hate to sound weak but such harshness from a man can make a woman tremble in fear.
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I’ve spent a lot of time wondering how the sahaba رضي الله عنهم managed to live on little sleep. How did little naps sustain them, strengthen them? Then I started slowly realising that crying is a very effective way to attain deep sleep.
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Someone once told me ‘there will come a time when you will look back & remember these initial times, you will want that level of imaan back but remember that in every stage of your life, you’ll have different trials, always pray for a higher state of imaan, not for the state in
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"After healing from your obsession with social media, you will find that many have surpassed you, some in memorizing the Quran, some in mastering Tajweed, some in memorizing texts, and others in excelling in various arts. Meanwhile, you are stuck in front of your phone
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Naseeha for the brothers from the perspective of a woman 🧵
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I think everyone, especially unmarried girls should fast a lot. Fast Mondays, Thursdays, white days, recommended days in certain months. Fast the way of Dawud عليه السلام. Once you’re married, you need your husband’s permission to fast so take advantage of this time ان شاء الله.
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Sisters, make up your fasts asap. Making up missed ones + another week you can’t fast + 6 days in shawwal will take up a lot of days in the month, keep a buffer for if you get sick/ tired/ unable to fast. Make them up quickly ان شاء الله may Allah make it easy آمين
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Train yourself to recite the shahadah at the slightest feeling of pain or fear ان شاء الله. We never know when our final moments could be and if we’d be able to think and recite it then.
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If you think about it, when you ask Allah for something, it becomes easier to be grateful towards Him for it. For eg- making chai, you make du’a that it tastes good, it does, you get happy, thank Him, now you’re in a state of dhikr + happy + built connection + tawakkul
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I remember ustadha talking about how when we stop doing as much ibadah as we used to & get into our old sins, we see our prayers being answered. That makes us think ‘what’s the point of doing that much anyway?’ & in this thought process, we forget that every nimah is from Allah.
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We need Muslims to enter the psych workforce. A Muslim therapist must remind the patient of the deen, encourage them to try prophetic medicine & help them tackle situations practically. With correct intentions, both parties gain ajr. سبحان الله
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The girl who spoke about ‘hijabi privilege’ is very very right. I don’t even have to open doors when I’m around Muslim men. They don’t lift their gazes at all, just look down, open the door & move out of the way. May Allah bless our brothers in Islam & protect them آمين
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Apparently women fake fasts in Ramadan so their male family members don’t know? :/ that’s so sad.
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My brother’s friend group is hyping up the hafiz of the group bec he corrected the imam during taraweeh with confidence for the first time
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It’s very easy to pick faults in our parents & badmouth them openly & privately. But that previous sentence alone should make us tremble in fear. Our parents have rights over us. Obeying them is an act of ibadah.
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Long ago, ustadha was talking about tawakkul. She was explaining how it’s a vast concept, it’s not limited to sabr in pain (as we usually think). She explained (briefly) that tawakkul is also standing for salah, and trusting that Allah will take care of our worldly problems.
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This exactly!! 😭 I’m 21, he’s 17 but he’s been acting older than me these days? Pushing me to the safer side of the road, holding my hand tightly in large crowds, I don’t even have to use my brain to cross the road anymore. Ahh may Allah protect our brothers آمين
Love how men are instinctively protective of their women. Me and my brother went out for dinner yday (living alone isn't as fun as it seems). Khair so, the road was gushing with traffic and seeing that my bro instinctively pushed me towards the safer side. I was confused for a-
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And the sahaba رضي الله عنهم weeped while reciting/ hearing the speech of Allah.
I wonder if the combo of qalb-e-salaam after repentance + du’a for refreshing sleep + correct niyyah to sleep + shedding tears fi sabilillah is the key to fruitful rest hmm
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Wallahi you all need to fear Allah when even thinking about interacting with the opposite gender. I’m not trying to one up anyone or act pious, I do honestly want the best for everyone. The slightest sins will begin to darken your heart, they’ll have consequences without a doubt.
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I want young girls to understand that there is contentment in spending time in the kitchen. Do not develop hatred for the knowledge our mothers have passed down for generations. By Allah, cooking and feeding the family isn’t and has never been demeaning.
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I think all sisters know that their first priority will always be their family. And I think we all agree that we enjoy putting our families first. It feels good to take care of people, nurturing all of that usual talk.
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I really do pray that all south asian girls can experience halal love. They don’t flinch hearing about abusive marriages. Everything can be turned into manipulation- money, food, shelter, family, friends, children, even facial expressions. I wonder if anyone has their guard down.
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When we were young, dad taught us stories from the Qur’an, mom sang nasheeds and recited Qur’an for us. Now, dad starts a story from the Qur’an and we complete the tafseer, mom recites Qur’an and we guess which surah she’s reciting. Crying. الحمدلله.
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South Asian girls really need to qt & explain how the rishta process has worked & is still working because the fact that this didn’t surprise me at all is a little bit concerning
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Told a sister I loved the style of niqab she was wearing & have been looking for it. Next day she hands me a bag, rose petals folded in the niqab, lovely scent. All she said was ‘I wanted to gift it to you the sunnah way.’
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Naseeha for the girls- if you’re getting dms & unnecessary replies from men, you need to be stricter. It doesn’t matter if you come off as rude. Block the ones that interact a lot, unfollow them, whatever.
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Do you ever walk on the streets in the heat & you’re fasting & you look around for a bit & your heart just breaks? These men are working so hard to provide for their families. Not an easy desk job, not working from home, not the easier tasks…they’re working so hard.
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‘If a muslim doesn’t finish the recitation of the Quran in Ramadan, which is the month of the Quran, then he will not complete its recitation during the remainder of the year except if Allah wills. And the lack of finishing its recitation is a failure which requires consistently
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Highly highly admire the girls who are able to treat their friends & family with utmost respect while struggling with intense mood swings every month. Some experience suicidal thoughts too. Not letting rage & sudden sadness get to you in the moment is so admirable.
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The best thing to do is start. It’s the only thing to do tbh. You’ve procrastinated the entire night, only one hour left for fajr? Get up now. You hate yourself for committing sins so you’re wallowing in self pity? No. Get up, do ghusl or make wudhu & offer 2 rakah in repentance.
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I know of someone who struggles to recite the Qur’an smoothly. She’ll err multiple times, correct herself, pause in between. But she keeps going. She doesn’t stop. She sees everyone else recite faster than her but she just says ‘wow ماشاء الله you recite so well!’
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Ustadha really went from teaching us with ‘I wouldn’t know, I’m still unmarried’ to ‘my husband-‘
Ya Rabb, please keep her happy & content with Your qadr always آمين
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Too many sisters wanting to put on the niqab but afraid they’ll take it off later. And everyone else around them trying to go slow. Banaat, once that face cover is on, you’ll wonder how you ever left the house without covering your face.
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Al-Hasan Al-Basri رحمه الله:
“The best season to the believer is the winter, its nights are long for those who wish to pray, and its days are short for those who wish to fast.”
[Ibn Al-Jawzi, Sifah Al-Safwah | Vol. 2 | Pg. 433]
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As a girl, you’ll really benefit with the presence of girls older than you in your life. From college work to sharing recipes to skin care to advice about marriage proposals & families, these girls just have beautiful, mature perspectives and it helps so so much. الحمدلله.
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‘Not every woman who covers herself is pious but every pious woman covers herself.’
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Why can’t we have proper segregated weddings? No male waiters, no male family members, no phones allowed so no one can violate anyone’s privacy. I just want to dress up & vibe.
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I don’t talk about marriage a lot but a while ago ustadha said something like if someone wanted to get married at a younger age to prevent zina, they shouldn’t be held back due to financial issues because the man’s parents can support his wife until he becomes financially stable.
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Why do I love the trials of niqab and gloves so much? 🧵
{said I’d elaborate someday, today is the day}
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Every sister makes jokes about her brother but we all know no one stays by your side like a brother. There’s no one I can trust more than my brother. No friend can even compare. الحمدلله.
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Sisters, you need to exercise (include strength training) to increase bone density. You’re already at a higher risk for osteoporosis in old age. Not exercising is a risk for development of pathological fractures, not to mention stress fractures at a young age.
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So the fact that your du’a got answered after you felt your imaan weaken, is a test in itself.
It’s so easy to get lost in the dunya. You think you’re finally above it, think you got a good grip but it turns out to be an illusion. May Allah keep us steadfast آمين
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1) Compliment the women in your life:
Your wife will dress up for you. I’ll talk about hijab in a second but even if she doesn’t observe hijab, she will still get dressed up for you. Compliment her & guide her towards proper hijab KINDLY.
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Having righteous friends (online, irl both) is such a blessing الحمدلله. If someone hurts me, they say ‘may Allah deal with them accordingly.’ If I’m stressed, it’s ‘may Allah make it easy for you.’ If I’m confused, their advice is to offer nafl salah + dhikr
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2) Give kind naseeha:
Men can get very harsh with their naseeha. If you treat a woman roughly, it will do the exact opposite. I will never be able to stress this point enough. Please be kind to your women. Give soft naseeha. Be gentle with her.
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Also, compliment your mothers, sisters and daughters. Women need attention. As a leader, make sure you give them the attention they require to also prevent them from seeking it somewhere impermissible. Compliment her every single day even.
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So cute I was just asking ‘why are you smiling at the phone like that’ & he’s like ‘isn’t that cool? He finally did it’ wow no hint of hasad. may Allah preserve their friendship, safeguard them from arrogance & allow them to learn from each other آمين
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I will never understand men who don’t offer salah at the masjid when they’re perfectly capable of doing it. Being able to make du’a between adhaan & iqamah, to rush for the first saf, to sit for itikaf? How can you not be eager for salat al-jama’ah?
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The sudden hate on women is very weird. How is it possible that people here have hated on every single type of woman? There’s no winning here. You could be an excellent cook + seeking knowledge + getting an important secular degree but they will still find a way to demean you.
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Fasting has to be one of my favourite forms of ibadah. Every du’a I make sincerely while opening the fast gets accepted, most of them being accepted while I was fasting. + no matter what you eat for iftar, it’ll taste delicious, even if it’s just dates & water.
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I think 2 blessings make engaging in ibadah very smooth & enjoyable- financial stability, loving/ peaceful household. To have both is the kind of ni’mah that should be shameful to neglect.
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If she covers herself completely then compliment her even more. Tell her that her jewellery looks nice, she did a good job pairing the outfit, her hair looks beautiful, etc. Value how much time & effort she spends to look good only for you.
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You shove the ideas of birthdays, anniversaries into your child’s throat. You force them to dress up for Halloween, Independence Day for school parties. You berate them for not completing their school Christmas project. You make Eid so unbelievably boring,
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One thing to understand is when you slander your innocent wife, blame her for trying to attract the attention of other men in public, you’re damaging her in a very different way. There’s a difference between being naturally bubbly & what can be perceived as ‘flirting.’
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4) You can learn from a woman:
You can learn sabr, kindness, softness from a woman if you pay attention. So pay attention to the women around you.
You can also learn various aspects of knowledge. So teach her & learn from her. It will surprise you.
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Don’t accuse her of anything, don’t emotionally torture her. Be careful with your words, she hurts easily. You can have good intentions but your execution is the only thing that will matter to the actual result. Don’t make the sin worse for her.
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Aalimyyah students thinking their education is not as good as secular education like medicine is so incorrect. Scholars are inheritors of prophets. Secular education (fi sabilillah) is great but some aalimyyah students don’t even understand just how superior their knowledge is.
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5) Listen when a woman speaks:
If she comes to you when she’s sad, just listen to her talk. No need to give her any advice unless she asks for it. Unless she’s falling into gheebah or any other sin, don’t stop her. That will be more than enough.
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Some of you need to go pray 2 rakah & thank Allah for not being tested like this.
Imagine someone violating your body like that. Some of these mothers are lifting dupattas & scrutinising every inch of the girl’s body, it’s scary & super weird. May Allah protect us آمين
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3) Appreciate the food made for you:
It feels great to just see people enjoy the food you make but it feels even better when they encourage you. ‘Did you make this? Wow’ it’s as simple as that.
This comes under making your mother happy. Everyone should do this.
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Forget haraam relationships, you are committing zulm upon your own nafs by interacting with the opposite gender on dms, hanging out in secret etc. How many times will you see the same stories have to repeat until you finally get a grip on yourself?
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as your life passes by without you realizing it. You are just a step or a few steps away from the grave. So reconsider your life before you regret it, and regret will be of no use then."
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11) If you’re bold enough to ask her for marriage, you’re bold enough to speak to her father. Don’t mess around. ‘I’m not ready now’ ‘I’ll speak to your father later’ ‘we don’t need to talk until I speak to your father’. Don’t waste her time.
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1) Leave friendship with the kuffar:
Don’t be rude, but apply wala & bara. They can be the sweetest people you’ve ever met but they still commit shirk. If you chill with them too much, their traits will seep into you whether you want it to or not.
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2) Arm yourself with knowledge:
Seek knowledge & grasp everything you can. The thirst for knowledge, never let it die down. Memorise and understand whatever you are intrigued about. Prioritise the Qur’an. Make efforts to know your deen. The next time someone tells you niqab
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How can someone as a muslim say ‘I respect all religions, all festivals.’ How can the thought of shirk itself not anger you?
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3) No shame in being feminine:
We’re emotional & need attention. That will never make us bad or stupid. Be wary of any man who uses such arguments to play with your mind. A man who knows his responsibility of leadership will not sit and waste his time calling women stupid.
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6) Act upon your knowledge:
Men love to seek knowledge. It’s fitrah, right? Act upon it too. You’ve studied the character of Rasulullah ﷺ, let that show in your actions, spend time with your family, treat your family well, treat your companions well.
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Girls if you’re going to the masjid, I’d really recommend covering your eyes too and looking down until you’re inside. Even if there are separate gates, it’s very easy to start stealing glances.
I apologise for being blunt, didn’t want to sugarcoat it.
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8) Stop justifying free mixing:
‘I was giving her naseeha’ you’re on an app where multiple women are already aiding the woman you’re trying to help. Avoid interaction as much as possible.
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So blind of us to lead ‘women shouldn’t work’ conversations- we forget there are women who work to make ends meet, who clean floors & dishes & bathrooms for other people to be able to afford food, who take on their husband’s work if he gets ill & they have no cash to fall back on
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Who are you people even making du’a for? Where are u lot finding people to get married to? 😭 Atp I’m almost jealous. Forget the wasting du’a argument, where are you even meeting people upon the haqq, who think like you, match your requirements?? In tears بارك اللّهُ فِيكم
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omds I said ‘don’t backbite’ in a gc & got kicked? 💀 pls call out backbiting, YOU are getting sinned for it & overall it’s very embarrassing to enjoy it, you’re going to be held accountable for all of it
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I don’t want to start a gender a war but men are not raised properly. ‘Women were created weak’ this that all the time, and you’re absolutely correct. So teach the men to be strong and responsible. They have a harder job, right? So hold them accountable.
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If someone speaks ill about a Muslim in front of you, it’s your duty to defend them. You don’t just sit there quietly and listen, you try your best to defend them whether you know them or not. Especially if it’s immoral slander.
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Who in their right mind would decide to spread a video of a niqabi sister trying to eat? You aren’t defending her by spreading it. Report the video, dm whoever posted it & go fight them. May Allah protect that sister & keep her steadfast آمين
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7) Go to the masjid:
Go to the masjid for every fardh salah. This point doesn’t need explanation but it’s very important for obvious reasons. Understandable if you’re working, etc.
Let your children grow up in masajid & let them learn this trait from their father.
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Girls please dress up whenever you want. Just not in front of a non mahram obviously. Otherwise, do what you like. Apply as much make up as you want, wear pretty dresses (as long as it covers what you should cover in front of mahrams), wear jewellery.
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My grandfather has been battling life long illnesses and got worse today, they’re saying he might not be able to make it. If you can spare time, please include him in your ‘adiyah.
جزاكم الله خيرا
May Allah expiate his sins through all of his trials آمين
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9) Stop fighting with random women online:
Treat Muslim women with respect. They are honourable. Do not use rude words.
وَٱلۡمُؤۡمِنُونَ وَٱلۡمُؤۡمِنَٰتُ بَعۡضُهُمۡ أَوۡلِيَآءُ بَعۡضٍۚ
The believing men and believing women are allies of one another
Surah At-Taubah, verse number 71
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Most times, in desi households, if you order food, you have to ask everyone what they want & order more anyway + if you go out to eat, you should get food for whoever is at home. Such a good habit to implement الحمدلله 🌸 easy sadqah
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But I also think that people online need to stop putting this idea out that our sisters in Islam are supposed to mould themselves into what ‘most men’ would want. You’re a muslimah, you’re not some checklist for a man.
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10) Remember the rights of a woman:
The quote about wives supporting their husbands poverty is circulated very often here. It’s a great narration. But make no mistake, it’s your duty to work your hardest to support your family. I’ve seen people here use that quote to mock women.
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Wow (as a doctor) I do have to say that half in the comments are medically illiterate to the point where it’s astounding & half haven’t studied basic fiqh of siyam.
Anyways pregnant mommies, if your doctor tries to scare you into not fasting because baby needs “nutrients” get a new doctor.
The main concern with fasting is dehydration, not nutrition. Your body has reserves and will literally take calcium from your bones
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Qts are a bit weird but this is the only thing I’ll say- don’t you dare spin a tweet like this & cause fitnah. This wasn’t about gender, it was about early signs of abuse, anxiety & general sensitivity of a woman. Or even about how a son talks to his mother.
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Two young kids were playing and when they saw me, loudly asked their grandfather ‘WHO IS SHE?’ He went ‘whoever you see, go do salaam first.’ Excellent parenting fr. May Allah protect their family and keep them steadfast آمين
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You strive for knowledge so you know the harm in not exercising, being lazy, overeating, so take care of your health. You know that knowledge can harden your heart, so spend time with children & try to keep your heart soft. You know to not indulge in riba. Strive for halal money.
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You know Allah hates filthy speech, so adorn yourself with good speech. You know shaytan loves arguments between spouses so think rationally & don’t let fights exceed the limit.
Do not ever think you know enough, always seek knowledge.
Next point is related.
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Something I’ll always find interesting is how a few that get married after being in a proper relationship don’t regret the time they spent sinning. They would’ve found their spouses anyway, but now do they wonder how it’s not possible to repent from something they don’t regret?
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that particular moment, because maybe you’re equipped to handle it differently (physical, mental health, etc). I know it’s sweet initially but make du’a for discipline. It feels good now, but there will come a time when it will become difficult to carry out good deeds like this.’
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The days I fast, I’m more active, have more energy & am more productive throughout the day.
Yk every time I cook sehri, I’m late. I delay (because of sunnah) but I end up delaying it quite a lot & every time I ask Allah to place barakah in my time at the very moment.
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4) Don’t daydream about romance:
It’s nice to talk about nikkah here and there but don’t lose yourself so much that that’s all you think about. It sounds funny but it’s very easy to fall into it. The minute you stop paying attention, it occupies your mind. So be careful.
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"The reason that friendships based on Islam and love for the sake of Allah are more solid and everlasting than friendships based on personal interests is because, as humans, our personal interests are constantly changing as time goes on, and we then tend to lose touch with those
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I genuinely feel like the arguments that take place on MT are through lens of the rich. I don’t mean filthy rich, just generally wealthy. The constant cycle of marriage, mahr, women working tweets is so bizarre. And I think it’s because there’s nothing else to talk about.
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To turn this into a gender war shows lack of comprehensive skills & hatred towards women. I don’t understand the defensiveness.
(+ don’t assume the previous tweet was related to me. My brother is my role model, he treats mom in the best way allahumma baarik lahu)
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