This isn’t gay.
This individual does not see women as human-equals and only regards them as useful for sexual satisfaction or child rearing—sex-bot nannies. This is the conclusion of patriarchy.
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“Date their homies” means they can only envision meaningful connection with men, the only other equal species.
One cannot date (have a loving, respectful relationship) with a being they find inferior, which is where patriarchy moves men: needing, but never respecting women.
@_c_wat
I remember every movie or tv show I saw growing up when a white woman would say with terror, “does this make my ass look fat?” I would be SO confused as to the implied problem.
@dontcallmechia
“Huh?! I that reminds me of something my FATHER, world renown, award winning actor DENZEL WASHINGTON, said this morning when we spoke... as we do OFTEN.”
@wumbooty
Parallelogram aside, if I had walked into a party in college this packed with not a dance in sight I wouldn’t have been able to leave quick enough. A pox on the entire house.
Parties without dancing irrationally aggravate me.
@EisenGewehr
@jzux
If it were a good faith question he would say he hadn’t heard of them or ask a question, not disparage [what he thinks is] her taste.
@mr_extRODinary
This is what doesn’t make sense to me. They cry about gold diggers and then spend thousands to “find” a woman in another country who wouldn’t want them if not for their funds.
@LikeASummerBres
100%
I laugh at this clip a lot but is also never sat right with me how this fucking child thought he could talk to/about a Black woman like that.
@Positivity_1229
Tobey is the OG and will be respected as such.
Andrew gave us Cool Peter. It wasn’t “accurate”, but he and Emma’s chemistry sold it. He was a more modern genius level kid with a darker/updated storyline.
Tom is killing it and far more accurate/believable as a teenager.
@JuiceReaper_
The OT explicitly states no use for women beyond sex and childcare… and that any other aspects of relationships, ones that require equality, they not feel for other men.
@DreamsN2Motion
If you’re asking in good faith:
“What (else) do you bring to the table?”
Questions of gold digging
Conversations about paying for dates
Questions about submission
And other similar conversations largely seem to be directed toward Black women.
So, Black men don’t want to:
-mentor Black boys who aren’t their own children.
-do a damn thing to hold white people or systems accountable.
Want to:
-be (revered as) leaders in the community.
-assume the responsibility of holding Black women accountable.
Understood.
@DatBkDude
@rarebre3d
I don’t think that’s why the complainers are complaining. I never see people mention the music alongside their critiques. Some of those same people would be elated if she wasn’t posting herself but some ex leaked a video of her twerking. It’s a particular freedom they hate.
@DreamsN2Motion
Case in point that just showed up on my TL:
And if you feel like they’re raising valid points, consider if anyone has ever thrown that kind of disbelief at a non-Black woman, who may be a stay at home mom, or just a kept spouse.
@afrosinchick
The concept of legacy in the United States relies SO much on omission and spin.
I was once asked how we’re supposed to raise kids to be proud of their country if we told them presidents owned slaves.
@FaatiTheStreet
@DreamsN2Motion
Because global and historic systems of racism, sexism, anti-Blackness, misogyny all end up with Black women at the very bottom. It’s horrible that people still try to gas light Black women about it.
@BougieLa
@EbonyStarr5
When was in the drive thru this white man walked out cheesin’ with a bag and... I’m not proud of the fit I was gonna have if they had then told me they sold out after seeing he got one.
Is it wrong that I feel entitled to a sandwich over a y-eat person if there’s a shortage?
@mr_extRODinary
Truly. Considering what they’re doing… it’s international sex work. They need to acknowledge they hate US Black women and go. Leave us out of it!