Almost 2 years ago beginning of December 2018 I got raped while on my period by
@olutobiii
. Ireland’s fave photographer. I was coming back from work and decided to stay with the person I had been talking to. He seemed lovely and we were just hanging out. He wanted to have sex
I need to find my best friend in primary school she left for UK while we were in primary3 we both went to Highrise private school Mosan ipaja her name s Onyinye I can’t recollect her surname thou hopefully I find her 😭
If I did speak I’d ruin his life. I felt bad for my abuser, I didn’t want people attacking me or accusing me of lying because I wouldn’t be able to handle it. But truth be told enough is enough. Black women need to be heard and stop trying to silence us. I’m done hiding.
I’m not doing this for sympathy I’m not a victim anymore. He even texted me at some point to apologize for what happened that day so it confirmed I wasn’t going crazy. I’m here for anyone who’s scared to share.
Everyone going to Afronation:
Wish you all a safe and amazing trip regardless of the festival. Be safe and jaiye jaiye. Don’t abandon your friends, don’t record people, don’t swim if you can’t swim, be aware of your surrounding and live it up sugars.
To go, So I went to bed and got up really early in the clothes I was raped in and went to work like nothing happened. I was ashamed, confused and heartbroken. I hid it for a while cuz I blamed myself that I allowed it happen for allowing myself to go there. I cried for months
And I immediately said no multiple times as I was on my period and I didn’t want to. He got on top of me forcibly taking off my clothes and I shrunk. I couldn’t breathe and I froze in giving a response. I let it happen what could I do. No one knew where I was And I had no where
Till I became numb and told my friends and family one at a time. I had nightmares, episodes, countless thoughts of suicide. Waking up in sweats or randomly working in bursting into tears so I distracted myself into work. I didn’t allow anyone talk about it to me cuz I felt like
11 men raped a 12 year old girl!!
Uwa was raped and murdered!!
STOP RAPING WOMEN
STOP RAPING GIRL- CHILDREN
STOP RAPE!!!
STOP HURTING PEOPLE. I am sick and tired of everything and everyone I am broken
Today is World sickle cell day 2020.
I am standing with you through this. I may not feel your pain but I can imagine how hard it must be living with sickle cell. We are together in this.❤️
Get tested, ask your partner for their genotype, stay informed.
How dare you FUCKING LIE YOU FUCKING RAPIST how dare you lie on me “I encouraged you to continue” on my fucking period, it was your sisters house you animal, I begged and said no you admitted it and now you’re recanting and chaanging things
Please don’t attach my name to any list going round as people have discredited the point of it and lying on peoples name. I am not for false accusations and I will not stand for any false accusations. I will stand for women who want to speak out but I am one human.
So I needed a time frame to speak on my pain. I don’t need cloutit doesn’t pay my bills. I won’t insult you I just pray God touches you have a blessed day