The concept of Africans eating 3 meals a day, is post colonial. In pre colonial Africa, people ate whenever they were hungry. In one of the letters from the English to their missionaries in Congo, the sender spoke of how the negro mind had no proper perception of time and if

Observe more, speak less. People expose themselves if you just stay quiet long enough.

📝 | @Consequence ranks “The Eras Tour” as the century’s greatest tour in their list of the 100 best tours ever. “It hasn't even been a year since ‘The Eras Tour’ concluded, but its shadow will loom large over every stadium tour or ‘Eras’-driven concert production for decades.”

Today is International Country Music Day.

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rich people pretending to be poor will always piss me off

and when your life starts coming together, KEEP your mouth shut

people lack accountability, then be like, “you could have talked to me.” no, i couldn’t lol. you don’t listen. you deflect

There’s this thing in psychology called the paradox of choice. The more options you have,the harder it is to choose and even after choosing,you still second guess. That’s why we spend so long scrolling Netflix and end up watching nothing.

date him. flirt. have fun. but no sex, no cooking. no sleepovers. you're not his wife just because he dates you. wifey love is for a man who puts a ring on it

Do not pursue men, If he likes you, he will do everything he can to make it known to you. Nonchalant, avoidant men aren't relationship material. Leave them where they are.

is 27 a good age to leave everything you know and love and start over

so far in my 20s, the best lesson I ever learnt was that life will go on. People come and go, we lose friends, break up with lovers, meet new people, encounter success and failure and life will still go on. You will be alright. 🤍

Daughters didn't inherit the silence of their mothers. My generation is mastering the art of leaving, letting go.

you disrespect yourself when you beg someone for BARE MINIMUM things like love, attention, respect, affection, support, reciprocation. Don't do that sht again.

Not even exaggerating, having good friends will save your life fr

you two wouldn't be friends 😭

stop needing your family and friends to agree with your goals before you pursue them..

I pulled an all nighter in HS. It was hell. I felt like I wanted to vomit at school all day and I couldn’t close my eyes because if I did, I would instantly fall asleep. High school me was something else. I can never do that again at this age. I need to sleep every day.

PE in High School was insane bc wdym I just ran a mile, have 5 minutes to go to change & refresh, & now I have to sit in Math class for an hour???????????????????