For every girl who is reluctant to meet you, there is another girl who will gladly meet you for coffee/drinks.
Stop trying to convert uninterested girls.
You're not doomed if you're 5′6″ and look average.
Gym, healthy diet, and good style will amplify your looks, boost confidence, and increase your attractiveness.
You will drink and think about her for days after a breakup.
Meanwhile, she will cry for two days and find a new guy at a party her friends take her to.