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chronic intellectualizer of suffering
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sorry to be the least romantic person alive but if my bf proposed out of the blue with a ring and never having brought it up before or having a discussion about it i would immediately know he has zero respect for me or my agency.
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still waiting for the day americans realise that an entire world exists outside of their liberal bubble.
White women are greater agents of patriarchy than any man of color.
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oh you started succumbing to patriarchal expectations in high school? should we throw a party? should we invite bella hadid?.
Not practicing makeup in high school is the main reason y’all over 25 and need your homegirl to put your lashes on for you.
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there is no correct answer to this because if it’s scarlet johansson or megan fox he’s a creep and if it’s lorde or lana del ray he’s a creep in an indie leftist way.
you can tell a lot about a man by his favourite female celebrity.
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i’m not even just saying this as a joke but americans are legitimately a little stupider than the rest of the world.
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and i'm making some parallels here stick with me . but men are constantly doing things in relationships under the guise of "surprise" or "romance" that undermine their partners' comfort and frankly put us in weird positions and it represents how dehumanized we are in their eyes.
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look at our feminist initiatives dawg … we’re doomed.
Don’t yuck someone else’s yum – everyone deserves the freedom to explore their own sexuality free of shame and stigma. 🫶
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and if i say the white woman gets used as a shield to silence all women and it's a direct consequence of our current framework of intersectional feminism which treats issues of patriarchy as nonexistent unless accompanied by an axis of oppression deemed more worthy (like race).
@app1etini I just know you're a white woman the way you wanna weaponize your comfort.
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women in all of the global south aren’t being raped and killed at the hands of men of colour for you to be out here saying this.
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this barbie thing is making me so mad because there is literal research that showed that little girls who played with barbies were more unhappy with their bodies after and you braindead liberal feminists think barbie is a feminist girlboss icon because she . has 200 jobs ?.
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this is basic feminism 101 but there is something to be said about how garden variety creeps get away with being creepy even in liberal circles because most people truly don’t think that SA adjacent behaviour is a bad thing when it comes in forms that can’t be classified as rapey.
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doing drugs in college is bad but being in the organizing committee for a fest is objectively worse.
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i know it's nearly impossible to meet people organically outside of dating apps but the lesser talked about downside of dating an absolute stranger is one day u find out some insane shit about them that you would have known all along if y'all existed in the same social circles.
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reels trends are so harmful ??? “sorry you’re not my type” “16 missed calls” how are we so blatantly advocating for teenagers to go through a glow up influenced by misogynistic beauty standards for the sole purpose of being perceived as more sexually palatable by men.
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we are all wired by society to cheer on hotness and it's morally dicey tbh anyone who calls themselves a feminist needs to start thinking about the implications of encouraging beauty and vanity cause it is literally the same thing as giving someone candy for doing self harm.
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emily ratajkowski writes about this: women are often overjoyed by the illusion of power we are given by men who are rich and powerful. they leave us believing we are powerful in our exchanges with them because we can withhold sex but that is the ONLY value they see in us -- sex.
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This shit being the idea of feminism of like 90% of self proclaimed feminists today is giving me actual depression like wow we r literally gonna be doomed forever and our daughters and their daughters and their daughters till the whole world burns.
a man can’t be more beautiful than a woman. hope this helps 👍.
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I would rather be on the streets than have this person as my flatmate.
hii guys, . looking for my replacement in a fully furnished 3bhk in wilson garden, bangalore to move in immediately. someone young, xx chromosomes, easy-going, won’t mind guests, pets, loud music, alcohol or smoke; preferably vegetarian and hindi speaking. share please, TIA
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planned parenthood start hiring interns who are informed about the ideals your organisation is built on instead of lazy idiots who’ll slap a shitty lib slogan on a canva template.
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i'm not white - but even if i WAS, are men of color given a free pass to rape and subjugate?.
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i'll gladly pay 10k for a club if it means i live in a world where the club isn't teeming with rich men trying to buy me drinks because they want me vulnerable and indebted enough to sleep with them.
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your 20s are for getting drunk n being silly with the girls if ur spending them always texting and fighting w some man you have lost the plot.
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i think we as a society need to stop convincing women that their dissatisfaction in relationships is somehow a result of their own emotional blocks and not a legitimate response to the feeling of being dehumanised by their (male) romantic partners.
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when we don’t actually think that certain actions are bad unless there’s some level of sexual misconduct involved we are opening ourselves up to a flood of online creep behaviour that sits in the blurred lines between what’s “rapey” and what makes women uncomfortable nonetheless.
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i love her and she's so correct.
Diablo Cody on why she couldn't write a draft for #Barbie and left the project in 2018:. “They wanted a girl-boss feminist twist on Barbie, and I couldn’t figure it out because that’s not what Barbie is.”
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such a purposefully obtuse interpretation of something that has been a feminist concern for centuries.
Every couple months people come on here talking about how a woman’s last name is *actually* her dad’s and I feel a bubbling rage that a man’s last name is considered his if he’s given it at birth but a woman’s isn’t.
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so many of them struggle to comprehend basic things that they aren’t familiar with because they genuinely love their entire lives in a bubble i spent 10 whole minutes today trying to explain to this girl the mathematics concept of multiples i’m not even joking.
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if ur gonna date men as a woman u should try dating actually conventionally attractive men as opposed to the ugly ones who try to dress cool and paint their nails and take pictures of themselves from specific angles to bamboozle women into thinking they're hot in a leftist way.
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women get terribly defensive when confronted with the idea that they willingly participate in structures that are built to keep them oppressed is yet another consequence of choice feminism like girl how do u expect to ever be free.
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when did this become about her fucking privilege lmao … you guys can’t even sympathise with women in bad relationships without it being backhanded in some way.
Alia Bhatt can giggle about how her husband controls her, because she is privileged enough to leave him the second she feels she can’t take it anymore. But by romanticising that shit she is condemning every girl who is not as rich/famous as Alia, and that is the real problem.
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dating in india (among the social circles many of us belong to) is strange because our society is a lot more culturally repressed so in rebellion we put dating and hookups on this weird pedestal which affects our attachment patterns in a way the first world does not experience.
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the rumour mill is sooo important like in college you know when someone has a reputation of being a serial cheater or a weirdo who goes out with freshmen but u have no fucking clue what you're signing up for when u date a random person off the internet.
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people will look at this and still say that critiquing consumerism as a patriarchal device to subjugate women is misogynistic because it "diagnoses women with the shopping disease".
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i never see y'all accusing any other marginalised community of bioessentialism when they're aggressive about hating their oppressors but HOW DARE lesbians hate men.
there's a certain genre of lesbian who's almost performatively aggressive about their hatred of men and I'd say it's harmless and cringe but the bioessentialism of it all absolutely leaves them open for terf indoctrination.
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then i spent another 10 minutes explaining military time to her because her brain actually refused to do basic problem solving.
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It’s not the brag you think it is to proudly talk about how your poc household yells at/beats up TODDLERS for things like this like … get off your high horse!.
white ppl raise their kids so differently bc no way my mom would be sitting there kikiing after i dug my hand in a strangers’ food😭.
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liberal feminists acting like women’s lives will shatter if they don’t have boyfriends will never not be funny to me.
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It’s not peak intellectualism, it’s the entry level requirement.
Why do people believe being anti-religious is peak intellectualism.
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Feminism is when girl pretty boy ugly 👍 because obviously the only thing we strive for in a liberated society is being hot 😁.
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icks me so bad when people think my ideology is rooted in blindly hating men because they’re men as if i haven’t reached these conclusions through a calculated and dialectic process of analysing the experience of women as a class . you may be a fucking idiot that’s not on me tho.
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barbie is and always will be a symbol of women's submission to beauty standards created by men for their own viewing pleasure and releasing a couples lines of doctor barbies and lawyer barbies will never change that.
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i would be screaming crying throwing up if women didn’t like me while men found me fuckable.
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gay men b like i can excuse misogyny but i draw the line at saying f*ggot.
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she basically called black women promiscuous whores and herself a pure troubled lolita-core white woman and y'all defended her i'll never forget.
the soft spot u people have for lana del rey needs to be studied because wdym she admits to being a trumpie and everyones okay with it.
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associates telling me they eat one meal a day because “where is the time to eat in this profession” girl blink thrice if you need help.
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some of you want to strip ugliness of its negative connotations (all bodies are beautiful!) while continuing to incentivise beauty because it’s this fun girly thing and you feel good when your boyfriend tell u you’re the more beautiful girl alive—but this harms women as a class.
you can’t incentivise beauty and not simultaneously disincentivise ugliness under the patriarchy btw.
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i'm not gonna be a yes man as the women around me scrutinize their appearances and analyze their bodies and spend their time and energy trying to get the perfect "hot" ig story at the detriment of their own mental wellbeing nd hurt women as a class i refuse to participate in this.
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i love those friendships w girls where people just know u come as a pair it’s the most wholesome thing to experience.
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she could be wearing jeans and a polo tie and i would still call this anti feminist.
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@crispy_croquet And those black and indigenous Americans have undoubtedly suffered at the hands of white women’s racism and class privilege. Men of colour continue to be the patriarchal oppressors of women of colour. It’s not that hard to grasp.
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the hostility between career girls and marriage girls as u grow older gets so crazy.
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you’re all fucking braindead i hope you’re very very happy being degraded by men and convincing yourselves that it’s actually something intimate and fun and expressive.
maybe, just maybe, she doesn’t see sex as something degrading. maybe girls are allowed to see sex as something intimate or dare i say fun and expressive ???.
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leftist men will act purposefully obtuse when it comes to issues that are of grave concern to women and throw around gotchas in bad faith and y’all will forever applaud them.
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a country in the global south could defend their disgustingly misogynistic and all-round horrible practices and say “it’s western imperialism to question our culture” and you guys will just eat it up.
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shameless self promotion if anyone from jindal wants a tattoo from me u can dm me haha i promise i am v cool.
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indians crying that gay couples should also have the right to exploit women under the surrogacy act will never not be funny to me.
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some of y'all will never ever see liberation fr.
putting on makeup is so fun! why do girls think they’re better when they don’t wear it it’s so strange.
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since it apparently needs to be spelled out women being upset about not having their own last names is not a critique of the system of humans inheriting last names from their parents . it's a critique of women's loss of personhood created and exacerbated by the family structure.
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there's a certain genre of lesbian who's almost performatively aggressive about their hatred of men and I'd say it's harmless and cringe but the bioessentialism of it all absolutely leaves them open for terf indoctrination.
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one thing that's obvious from the quotes and replies is that women will fight tooth and nail to uphold industries that are built on their oppression lmao.
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at what point in feminist history did it become not okay to criticise harmful beauty standards and things that perpetuate them.
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you can’t incentivise beauty and not simultaneously disincentivise ugliness under the patriarchy btw.
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insane that a bunch of pixels on twitter are complaining about free transport for women when the stark reality of this country is that most women do not have the financial independence to pay for a bus ride to escape domestic abuse or do ANYTHING.
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didn’t you publicly brag about going to a brothel that was later raided for sex trafficking?.
andrew tate fans think doing sex trafficking and bragging about it is "leaving the matrix".
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it is sheer stupidity to be shocked at how an attractive woman could possibly get cheated on but there is something to be said about how heterosexual relationships by design perpetuate women’s subjugation by attributing value rigidly and solely to beauty.
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WHAT I SAIDDD
dude u literally made ur entire living on jindal by selling 🌿 u should be the last one speaking.
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diablo cody has a better understanding of feminist praxis than 90% of u braindead liberal feminists on twitter.
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i would not be overjoyed about representation in an industry that’s built on the subjugation of women but maybe that’s just me.
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such a nasty fucking thing to say i can't believe the number of likes on this.
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"femal genital mutilation is of cultural significance to women" - postcolonial feminists.
what was the craziest leftist misogyny moment to you?.
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absolutely insane how you braindead idiots are defending the doll that is build like a victoria's secret model and refuses to be size-inclusive and only very recently started being race-inclusive.
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some of u would date benjamin netanyahu if he gave u a chrome hearts ring and a tame impala vinyl.
so ur telling me I got an EXACT 100 roses and a chrome hearts ring and he asked me to be his gf with tame impala playing in the background on a record player and I said NO ????????.
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twitter truly is the only place where i’ve seen people enthusiastically advising women on how to safely participate in oppressive practices.
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personally i don't think not being seen as queer is smth to feel oppressed about.
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@sisterdreamer weird behavior that isn't explicitly sexual but is rooted in patriarchal thought and viewing women solely through the lens of sex, like incessantly hitting on/flirting with random unsuspecting women while not necessarily making sexual comments - but that's only one example.
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Women winning the beauty standard Olympics being ur idea of feminism is really something.
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there is something to be said about the quality your leftism develops when you engage in it purely for the sake of being leftist rather than logically arriving at leftist conclusions through analysis of the condition of the world around you.
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so if uk unis aren't rejecting people and usa unis aren't rejecting anyone (i know for a fact they aren't based on the IDIOTS i have seen get accepted to columbia which needs to be stripped of its title as an ivy asap) i think it's obvious grad school is a massive fraud scheme.
has kings college ever rejected anyone.
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This is such a weird fucking thing to say.
Japanese women are literally begging to be impregnated but Japanese dudes are busy inventing and using the most complex gooning machines ever conceived.
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crushes on so many ppl vanished after seeing them like j*hnny d*pp’s instagram post 🤡.
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so much of seeing ur friends’ spotify wrapped is accepting them despite their faults like why do u listen to male manipulator music.
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y’all are fucking disgusting.
i’m so sick of these dumb aesthetics. you look a fool, lesbian.
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this summer there is nothing i want more than to become one of those hot girls who wear ancient band t-shirts without knowing a single song i’m just so in love with that look.
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you are not owed congratulations or deference for the desire to be beautiful by feminists
I don’t think the purpose of feminism is to make women feel affirmed and reassured about the desires they have developed under patriarchy. No, it is not feminist to want to be a housewife. You are not owed deference or congratulations for that desire by feminists.
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i love how Americans’ response to me critiquing the fact that they think everything revolves around them is to talk more about themselves and their problems.
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idec about emma watson but she’s clearly the latest victim of twitter’s misogyny.
it wasnt fun for the CGI department to fix her disaster of a dress in the dancing scenes bc she refused to wear a floor length dress 😭.
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society when rich cishet indian kids in tier 1 cities start to spend their 20s doing anything but centering romantic relationships in their lives
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i often think about how some of these first world feminists would have an aneurysm if they met the average feminist from the pits of the global south.
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