For the uneducated: start here
Not only talks abt the fight for sex workers rights today, but also a history of the sex workers before us who fought tirelessly for our rights and the rights of all women and queer folks. We have been at the forefront of every social movement
I’m sorry if this is gauche, but I have to gloat for a second. I made $20k this month. Not only a record for me, but something that seemed completely unimaginable two years ago. I’m really proud of myself for hustling and making shit happen, even w my chronic fatigue
@centerfoldjai
@grindfacetv
Who put the baby out in traffic? The woman who was dragged out in the same said traffic or the man who did that to both of them? Let’s use our noggin
You can’t even just sell sex nowadays. You gotta be an influencer, model, writer, photographer, graphic designer, tech wiz, accountant, and modern day court jester 🤹🏻♀️
GFE means whatever the fuck I say it means for my OWN body/business and that does not include bare services so can we pls stop this stupid argument thx
5 years ago $20k was my annual income. SW is exhausting, dangerous, and mentally taxing. But I will forever be grateful for the life SW enabled me to have. This wouldn’t have been possible for me otherwise
Where are y’all advertising? I’ve only ever used Tryst which was never a problem until recently. I literally got ONE booking from a new client last month. ONE. I’m literally panicking
This new Hilton just opened up across the street from my apartment and I’m lowkey considering applying for a part time front desk job so I can get an employee discount on hotels for hooking lol
One of my regular sexting guys just let me know he’s seeing someone now so he doesn’t think he can continue our arrangement. I told him I understood. Not 20 minutes later he’s asking if we can “one last time”. Men truly have no self control or discipline
Wtf is up w ppl feeling comfy saying the r word again all of a sudden? Like it literally feels like overnight ppl decided it’s acceptable to use again and now I see it at minimum 20 times a day
My big goal for next year is to retire my mom. She’s worked damn near every day of her life and she’s 66 now and has no savings. She’s always helping others and has never put herself first. She works a physically laborious job and it’s starting to take a toll on her body
Finally blocked this dumb bitch. Always making smug remarks on tweets where I’m asking for actual advice/help. I asked WHERE ppl are advertising. If you’re not going to answer the question, don’t reply
@KeepEmLiable
@imiuiu
@allahliker
Of course the two biggest world terrorists wouldn’t recognize a court that prosecutes war criminals and terrorists 😭 do you think nazi Germany would have recognized the IMT prior to their surrender?
A white man profiting off of the backs of sex workers who regularly get their bank accounts closed and fired from their vanilla jobs. A tale as old as time
"OnlyFans, the subscription website that allows adult performers to sell explicit photos and videos, has paid out £1bn to its Ukrainian-born owner since he bought the company six years ago."
You do not know someone after 3 months. That person is still a stranger 😭 you haven’t seen the range of emotions they have. You haven’t seen how they react in different situations. That’s still the phase where you’re hiding your crazy
I wish my sd would just send money without me asking for it. He always does when I ask. But like if I tell you I just spent $800 at the vet, just send the fucking money. I’m tired of asking 😭
@Tirednfried
@sovieticatracho
Undereducated? Do y’all not realize how patronizing and elitist y’all sound? Plenty of swers are highly educated. Not that it even matters. And it’s obvious ppl like you don’t actually speak to swers directly, you just speak over them/on their behalf and it’s gross
Obviously there are parts of this job that are horrible & soul crushing (I would argue any job under capitalism invokes that tho)
But I really think that this is like a soul purpose for me. Like when I’m working & taking $ from men, I feel like I’m stepping into my power lmao
@miaowva
@centerfoldjai
@grindfacetv
Have you maybe considered she had a phone or purse in the car that she needed to get before being abandoned in the middle of nowhere w her child? Ppl who have more smoke for her than the man in this situation need to reevaluate their life
I’m gonna be honest I don’t remember screen names, I only know you guys by your pfp so if you change yours there’s a large chance I’m not gonna know who you are anymore lol
Sitting on the bathroom floor in Vegas silently sobbing to myself while my family is asleep. Being in therapy is good and all until you’re a little too tapped into your emotions 🙂
Grown men needing chore lists made for them like they’re 8 years old will never not be funny to me. Should we give you a gold star for completing each task?
*Tip for women.
Most of us men really want to help but don’t know how.
Give us lists!
Give us list items weekly we can take off your plate & we love to help!
Guys, ask her what can I take off your plate today?
The key is solid communication around this.
We can’t READ MINDS.
I’m against capital punishment but I wonder if school shootings would go down if we brought back public executions. Let the deranged teen boys watch their heroes get murked on the streets and we’ll see if they still think mass shootings are cool
A probably unpopular opinion: kids should not be on social media. Period. They shouldn’t be browsing it and they shouldn’t be posted on it by themselves or their parents. This needs to be cracked down on
I just took my third dose of compounded semaglutide. So far I’ve lost 7lbs. Before I struggled w intense food noise every day. Now I don’t even think abt food. I just eat to sustain myself. It’s been life changing so far. And I only had one day of really horrible side effects
Porn culture is having such a terrible impact on some men's ability to empathise with women. The idea that "empathy lessons" and
#bekind
can fix it - while you can keep your secret subscriptions - is laughable.
@miaowva
@centerfoldjai
@grindfacetv
And that’s… bad? What if she didn’t have money? What if she didn’t have any contacts/support in that city? You’re acting as if she got back in the car, closed the door, and sped off w him after dropping off her baby 😭 like be so fucking for real
@Bakaa_Boo
@HUN2R
Paying for porn is not weird. It’s not weird to pay a worker for their service/product/entertainment. It’s the most ethical way to consume porn. Whatever this loser did is not that tho
Yeah of course trans women are women and should be able to compete. But that’s not what this is abt. It’s abt how TERFs are ironically deeply misogynistic. It’s abt how even cis women are harmed by transphobia if they aren’t performing femininity in a traditional sense
Trans people watching all the "allies" posting, but it's ok, she's a "biological woman" "she's always been a woman" "she's not a man". My brethren, even if she were a trans woman she should be allowed to compete.
I don’t understand the “I don’t pretend to cum” discourse on main (unless it’s just a marketing tactic which it probably is). Like I’m a performer. The moment that man walks in the door I’m acting. I’m putting on a show. It’s all a fantasy
Honestly, making this anon account has helped me SO much, mentally, emotionally, and also financially just from having the support and love and advice. It’s a type of community I’ve never had. I’m so grateful 🥺💗
Preparing for tax season and all I gotta say is, I feel like no matter how much money I make, no matter how much growth I have year after year, ALL of my money goes towards bills and taxes. It’s fucking criminal
I know like 4 ppls mains and that’s only bc they’ve told me/posted abt it on here themselves. I have no desire to know your mains. Some of you are very unhinged
I just want to fuck tricks for money and leave it at that. I don’t want to do photoshoots and be a twitter influencer and a web designer and make newsletters. I don’t have the mental capacity 😭
When will swers speak on their own personal experience and stop making overarching statements abt ALL swers. If you hate your life and feel degraded that has nothing to do w the rest of us
I survived my move 😩❤️ and guys… this is like my dream apartment I’m so so happy 😭 I’ve felt so depressed in my dark cave of an old apartment. This one gets so much natural light and I just feel like I can breathe finally
This is a safe space…? 👀
Savage x Fenty lingerie is so ugly and I had way higher hopes for it 😭 like I appreciate the inclusion but like that doesn’t mean it has to be ugly and unoriginal
Just did a 10 mile hike. I’m exhausted, burnt, and I have blisters (didn’t break in my hiking boots, rookie mistake, ik) but feeling on top of the world
@miaowva
@centerfoldjai
@grindfacetv
Again, WHERES THE SMOKE FOR THE MAN? You’re sitting here critiquing the victim and have no words for the man who put them in that situation. Fuck out of here. Was the man’s first priority the child? HUH? Don’t procreate. We don’t need more dunces
I definitely want to have children eventually, but I’m also good w skipping out on motherhood if I don’t find the perfect partner. Not settling for anything
Biggest dead giveaway that someone is lying abt being a former swer is when they use the term “Johns”. That’s the most civilian ass term. Like unless you were hooking in like the 1980s, I do not believe you
It’s so manipulative when clients mention that they’re looking for a regular. Tonight mine brought it up like 3 times. As if that’s going to make me work/try harder. I don’t need you as a regular. You need me
Guys !!! I just officially booked my first client 😭❤️
I’m so happy. This transition from part time SD/OF creator to full time FSSW has been so nerve racking but I’m so excited to make GOOD money 💰🤑
@AlessandraAster
You only arrive at this conclusion if you’ve literally never spoken to a sex worker in your entire life but somehow have a lot of opinions on something you know nothing abt.
I’ve been doing this for 7 years. It’s very much work.
I told my sd that I’m sick and puking and that I can’t meet up today and he replied “are you sure? I could make you feel better (;” and was dead serious. Literally wtf is wrong w these men? Like send me some soup and gatoraid, not push to fuck me while I’m sick
A new client just booked an 8hr. Why am I so nervous 😭 I haven’t had this long of a date w a new client booked in so long. Idk how I’m going to get through this
Is it too much to ask for a smoothie place that’s open 24 hours? I live in an apartment and don’t feel comfy blasting the blender at 2am but my hunger for smoothies never ceases
I just bought my first lottery ticket in years and it made me wonder if I’d leave SW if I suddenly won the jackpot. I’m curious if anyone else has had the same thoughts and what you think you’d do in this situation.
Why yall confused that his kids are showing up to court for him? I definitely am disheartened by the allegations, but like, THIS IS THEIR FATHER ?????? Yall have worn “Free My Cousin” shirts for worse. Relax a bit.
Do you ask waiters if they’re going to tip you? Providers are providing a service. Why would a provider tip a client? That wouldn’t make any sense with literally any other service job. I’m really not understanding what they’re saying