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𝐀𝐧𝐝𝐫𝐞𝐰'𝐬 𝐅𝐢𝐚𝐧𝐜é ∙ 𝐋𝐞𝐯𝐢'𝐬 𝐌𝐚𝐦𝐚 ∙ 𝐄𝐦𝐦𝐲'𝐬 𝐎𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐌𝐚𝐦𝐚 ∙ ᴍᴏᴍ ᴏғ ᴛᴏᴅᴅʟᴇʀs |ᴄʀᴀғᴛs|ᴀɢɴᴏsᴛɪᴄ|ℬℯ𝒶𝓊𝓉𝒾𝒻𝓊𝓁𝓁𝓎 ℬ𝓁ℯ𝓃𝒹ℯ𝒹
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Joined June 2022
My cousin gave his girlfriend a promise ring…. …which would be adorable if they weren’t in their 30’s with 3 children 😂. I’d put that ring in his dinner and watch him choke on it 🙄😭.
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My cousin died 😔. She had a hysterectomy May 17th, she’s been swelling since the surgery and was told she was ok. Yesterday she laid down with her husband to nap, he woke up and found her gone. She was only 38. I’m in disbelief.
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34 years ago TODAY my mom found out she was pregnant with me. 4 years ago TODAY I found out I was pregnant with Levi. TODAY I found out I’m expecting my second child. December 6, 1990.December 6, 2020.December 6, 2024.
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I DON’T HAVE CANCER!!!!!!. I have a “complicated cyst” meaning it has fluid AND chunks of protein in it (gross), but I don’t need any sort of treatment. Just have to watch it myself and if it grows, they’ll have to drain it.
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I’m only announcing on here because you all have been my support system for so many things. I found out I’m pregnant this morning 😭🥰 this was not planned and it was prevented but I guess god had other plans. Please pray for me and this baby to remain healthy ❤️
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Dear Lord, don’t let me miscarry. I can’t handle that. Please let this baby be ok when I’m able to see them.
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My mammogram is at 2, not 10. I’m a mess. I woke up in a panic thinking I was late. My lump is getting sore but my period is in a week. Cyst. Cyst. Cyst. It’s going to be a cyst! . Right?? 👀.
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This tweet is getting traction. I have nothing to promote, but do want to say:.If you’re a woman, take every odd thing with your body seriously. Have it checked. If the doctors say you’re ok but you’re still not sure, SPEAK UP! Do not be afraid to demand what you need.
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Andrew booked a bed and breakfast for us for tomorrow night. He said I can do nothing all day long if I want, but we should grieve in a cute b&b. He’s also letting me buy new comfy clothes.
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My cousin was white. But BLACK WOMEN NEED TO BE EVEN MORE ASSERTIVE OVER THEIR HEALTH!!.Don’t let doctors do this to you! .Any woman! MAKE THEM PROVE THAT YOU ARE IN FACT HEALTHY.
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@Kyla_Lacey @SocialRosy Ummm, well one is in a grave and the parents had to put her in that grave…I’m sure they’d prefer jail over this nightmare.
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Andrew and I decided to not let this tear us apart and to try harder for our boys. I won’t be going into 2025 with a new baby on the way, but I’ll still have Andrew by my side ❤️.
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Also, they cannot refuse care. Don’t let the cost of American healthcare deter you from getting help. Rack up medical bills if you have to, don’t pay them if you can’t. JUST MAKE SURE YOU ARE OK!!!.
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@diandragatti They’re doing an autopsy to know exactly what happened, and then go from there ❤️.
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@bloodylikeabod @keirstyyy NO THEY ARE NOT! Preventing your body from doing what it’s supposed to do at the appropriate developmental age WILL have repercussions. Stop this nonsense.
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@LonestarMama6 Someone suggested I abort the baby I’m carrying now because it was unplanned and even prevented, but I still got pregnant. 7 weeks tomorrow ❤️.
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If I walk into a public restroom to find a man using a dildo on himself, he’s getting pepper sprayed.
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@jocelynrache That’s exactly it! Abortions is being celebrated today, and that changed my mind completely. I can’t support those people and do not want to be grouped in with them.
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I look terrible 😭 but they gave me some pain meds and I’m feeling better. Still in pain but I can handle it better. I love you all so much. I wish I could hug all of you
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@mandalynns23 Someone told me to get rid of my cats because they steal baby’s breath and kill them 😂🤦🏼♀️ (I’m almost certain a cat sat on somebodies baby and this is where this came from).
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@lukieash18 @901Lulu A white woman who did the same thing as carlee is in prison right now. Carlee deserves fair punishment.
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@CanuckCrusaderX And him. They both made the baby, not just her. A child ties you for life. Marriage doesn’t have to.
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MY BABY JUST PEED IN THE POTTY FOR THE FIRST TIME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!.
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September is suicide prevention month. This is what I lost to suicide. 19 years this month, actually. Ironic.
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I went into my follow up today, and told him I had been weak, nauseous and had a headache. That concerned him because I was on day 14 of bleeding. They did an ultrasound and found internal bleeding and sent me for an emergency D&C. This has all been insanely terrible.
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So. I’m talking to someone 👀. He’s a windower and has a son 6 weeks older than my son 😱 he’s 2 years older than me and seems like a genuinely good person. But he lives in Indiana 😭 3 hours away!!! We even have the same views on God you guys!!!!! 😭.
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@loveforlattes That would hurt my feelings 😭 I’d definitely bring it up and give him a chance to make it up to you. Maybe he feels like since it’s been so long, it’s not expected anymore? Idk. But your feelings are valid. I would have cried.
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They’re doing every test they can and a vaginal ultrasound. I hope they’re able to see a heartbeat 😭.
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I want to buy a Bible, but there are so many versions. NIV is the one that’s a little easier to read and comprehend, right? I have a very hard time understanding what the Bible is even saying in some versions 😭.
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Why did this just show up on my Facebook newsfeed????????? 😭😂🤣
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Ultrasound Monday at 2:30. Now they’re saying they’re not convinced that it’s a miscarriage. Idk what to think.
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@cassssandraxo Because it’s 2023 and there’s no excuse for sleeping with an infant when it could kill them.
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@PegFromParadise My mom had a hysterectomy over 20 years ago and didn’t have any complications. I can’t believe all the stories I’m hearing about the problems women have had from this surgery. This terrifying. I’m praying your DIL pulls through quickly ❤️.
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A miscarriage on Christmas 😭😭😔 I’m so f****** angry!!!!!!.
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I don’t realize so many people were praying for us 🥺😭 I love you all so much ❤️.
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@BasedZillenial Women can get Bacterial Vaginosis from having sex with a man who has recently had sex with someone else. It’s not an std, it’s because of the different bacteria’s. It’s not even healthy for us to share men.
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My best friend and I are drifting apart 😞😭 she’s been struggling for 2 years to conceive her second child and she HATES when people just “accidentally” get pregnant…like I did. I feel like I’m losing her because this is so painful to her. I need her through this 😭.
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I’m crampy and spotting. It’s probably a blighted ovum according to Google. I’ll have it confirmed next week. We’re devastated. I never thought this would happen to me. Seeing Andrew cry is gut wrenching.
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Y’all, my kid threw a marshmallow into the pee in his potty and ate it!!! . He puked. Then I puked . Send help.
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What I learned about miscarriage after having one with Misoprostol at 8 weeks 2 days:. - IT HURTS! It hurts so bad! I was so surprised that no one really talks about how physically painful a miscarriage is. -50% of first trimester miscarriages happen because there’s no baby.
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All bleeding and spotting has stopped. They think the red blood was caused from the internal ultrasound. Also, they think my levels shouldn’t be as high if it’s a blighted ovum. But I’m not convinced. They should have seen something I believe. I don’t think this will end well.
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My tummy is usually really flat so this is new 😂 all bloat I know, but there’s a baby in there!!
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I didn’t breastfeed the first time because I had zero support and couldn’t fathom adding more onto myself than what I was already doing. This time I’m going to try. And I’m already nervous 😟.
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@deathmothmads She did have parental consent and you seem petty. You can’t control what they do in their relationship. If it’s not a legalized agreement, you’re just blowing hot air. Focus on real issues so coparenting has a good chance of working.
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Just hanging with my fiancé at Disney World. (I have a fiancé!!! 😱😍)
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What do you guys do about your toddlers hitting you?! I’m at in wits end with it and he’s just running completely over me. Firm voice, raised tone, soft tone, “gentle hands”…nothing is getting through to him 😭.
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@GoldieQueen123 I’ve always thought it was morally wrong but I remained pro choice because of the kids who are victimized. But seeing how the pro choice movement has become more barbaric, I can’t support it and don’t want to be grouped in with those people.
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It was a long night, and I’m probably overly emotional from pregnancy. We had a misunderstanding and it turned into an argument and I just shut down. I’m so tired. But my ultrasound is Jan. 24. My levels are perfect, super high actually. Twins run in my family so we shall see.
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At 8w2d I first seen my son, he looked like a Lima bean with a heartbeat. This time at 8w2d I’m taking meds to force my body to miscarry because it won’t do it on its own. What a way to begin 2025. Meds have been taken. And I’m just numb.
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I dreamed of a baby girl earlier today during my nap. She was a chunky newborn with dark curly hair 😭🥰.
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@harmonizedgrace I wouldn’t even know what to do 😂 “how dare you break one of my rules and continue to act accordingly while doing so!! You’re grounded! I think?” 😭🤣🤣.
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My pregnancy tests are finally becoming more faint. I didn’t think I’d ever get this HCG out of my system. Next pregnancy, I don’t think I’m telling anyone but 𝕏 until after the anatomy scan.
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@riseofmen Is it a boy? If it is, give it about one more year and he’s just gonna be one giant bruise 😂.
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Anxiety is creeping in…. …what if it’s stopped growing 😭 what if I go and there no heartbeat? 😭 I hate this stage of pregnancy. I can’t tell if it’s anxiety or if I’m having “a bad feeling” and I “just know”.😭😭😭😭😭.
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Just learned about the St. Nicholas tradition of letting your kids polish their boots and putting them outside on 12/6 because St. Nicholas comes and leaves candy for them. I am fascinated with this man! I may begin this tradition even though we’re not catholic.
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Remaining positive until I’m told not to!. I have a good history with pregnancy, I was healthy and my baby was 8lbs at birth. My body can do this again ❤️.I trust my body. And I trust God.
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@fayemikah Since when are men not allowed to have boundaries? He was respectful in everything he said. Why should he be with her if everything she does makes him cringe?.
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I love Andrew more than anything but my lord! This man is on me like white on rice about taking care of myself. Every morning, as soon as I wake up he’s like “you need to eat! Eat something! Take your prenatal!”. Sir, please, let me adjust to being awake first 😭.
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@TheFoxMatriarch He always makes sure I feel like the prettiest girl in the room. He put brand new tires on my SUV when he noticed mine were in really bad shape, and didn’t think twice before doing it.He calms my anxiety, and most relationships have caused me horrendous anxiety. GO FOR IT!.
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6 weeks today and can’t believe I’m not deathly sick. With my son, I was bed bound by this point. It scares me a little bit because why do I feel normal?.
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Baby mama x2.Never engaged.2 different dads. Man oh man how I have messed up my life.
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Just dawned on me that if I lived in the old days, I would have died during childbirth. My labor stopped at 5cm and there was nothing that could be done. And then I had internal bleeding from a miscarriage. I would be toast without modern medicine.
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Just want my followers to know that my son was born out of wedlock and I don’t care what your opinions of single mothers are. Finding true love as a single mother is possible, we’re not “used goods” as people like to say. It’s all about how you carry yourself.
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I really got pregnant by someone I’ve only been with for 8 months 😳. I don’t regret anything but I hate how that sounds 😂.
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@CanuckCrusaderX @VirgisViews I think the problem is that you believe “she was a whore so he doesn’t owe her anything”.
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I just got back from Starbucks…why did they paint an octopus onto their wall and only give it 6 legs?.This ruined my entire day.
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Relationship is crumbling.My 3 year old told me he doesn’t like me when I called to talk to him .And I’m miscarrying . I really don’t know why I’m even here anymore.
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Andrew let me go to Michael’s and buy a journal, ink pads, stamps and jelly pens. I’m going to poor my entire heart into this book.
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Yall my ring is so beautiful 😍 I saw it immediately but thought it would be way too expensive. Andrew asked if I could try it on and he said “is that the one baby?” .I was like “can it be the one? I can find something else” .But he bought it 🥹😭.
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Andrew’s mother and I have such different personalities that I’m always taking things she says as rude 🤦🏼♀️ I hate being from the south. Everyone is so overly nice that when you go just a tad north, everyone seems rude! I stay so offended!!.
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@EmilieMcKiernan He’s just the best. He took covid seriously when no one else in the south did. He saved a lot of lives in Kentucky.
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