@123itsmeMary
that video got a million likes… like y’all can’t be serious.. like yt ppl didn’t purposefully ensure we were less financially stable as well. he’s a whole trump supporter too… 🤦🏾♀️
@flygyalkel
I want ppl to be honest abt how political friendships and just relationships in general are. Most of the time they’re based off luck. It’s not a personal failure to be lonely.
“mutual abuse” and it just be an abuse victim responding/fighting back how they typically do. like ew block me, you clearly don’t understand power dynamics + believe the perfect victim myth.
i can’t wait for the day y’all admit that cissexism + patriarchy is linked w children’s oppression and stop trying to gender mentorship. a cis man will sa his baby mom and y’all will be like he might be terrible to her but he could still be a good dad. HUHHH ???
convos y’all have around community and romance bother me bc it’s never in good faith. + it’s depressing seeing ppl express how they think their friends are disposable. and I’m constantly reminded even in my life that i’ll never be as much as a priority as ppl’s partners.
@urfav_linostan
Please help Suhail and his daughter evacuate Palestine. Juri has hepatitis and the bombing is violent. They desperately want a new life.
cis women act like it’s impossible to specify cis men when talking about patriarchal violence. it just shows how cissexist their view of gender is. your gender analysis isn’t good if you’re not thinking about trans ppl. trans women and men also experience violence from cis men.
like why are y’all clinging to the nuclear family and heterosexism than opposed to idk actual healthy members of community and a village. 😂 you do not need a cis man in the home especially if he’s awful.
Homeless mages are so unprotected from violence. It’s so depressing. It’s not classist to admit cishet men enact violence on them. However it is classist to act like as if they’re more inherently violent than housed het men.
this convo gets frustrating as well bc most ppl are deluded when it pertains to romance too. if you even mention how there isn’t someone for everyone or all the social factors that hinder marginalized ppl from finding romantic love, they’ll call you negative/deny it.
+ it’s just unfair how y’all expect ppl to potentially compromise their well-being bc of your refusal to prioritize community. why do I need to get potentially abused again bc you refuse to be there for me and think I’m beneath your boyfriend? :/
most of their politics only revolve around themselves. + so many of them think their own experiences trump theory. the amount of times i tried explaining certain concepts to them + get hit w “i’m a bw, the most oppressed, i know how the world works” when they were dead wrong 😂
Learn difference between commentary and crying.
I see no problem with a college-educated woman’s rights champion, gun violence victim, and artist who established her own mental health resource org being on stage.
What have you done? Hate from outside the arena. 🙂
it’s honestly really hard having any hope as a black mage. like y’all are so violently anti black, misogynistic, and cissexist. like ugh and we can’t escape any of that.
i love how cishet men pretend like as if a big portion of mages gendered violence isn’t done within interpersonal relationships with them. they’ll absolutely terrorize you and then genuinely think it doesn’t contradict abolition of oppression. ☠️
i think the most annoying patriarchal fallacy is the notion that love will just ‘kick in’ for a cishet man w out requiring any effort especially after going his whole life treating mages like shit. like please stop telling young ppl this!
i can’t EVER talk about the possibility of me never getting romantic love without ppl spewing nonsense platitudes or even victim blaming my way. they always boil it down to you not trying hard enough, trying too hard, or you “bringing bad experiences upon yourself”. Yawn.
exactly. “not y’all calling me trans, it never gave man” i know exactly what you are… the energy is never directed at c!shet men’s bigotry or how oppressive these gender binaries are and always at trans women.
Because the assertion of being unique and separate from trans women reinforces bioessentialism and cissexism. So yes, the patriarchal definition of womanhood destroys cis and trans Black women, but validating cis womanhood by being transphobic isn’t the way to go.
I’m so tired of “cishet male allies” coming into our spaces just to further perpetuate patriarchy + cissexism. You have no grasp on this society but are talking over the rest of us while simultaneously painting yourself as the “true” victims and not willing beneficiaries. 🙄
the way y’all treat ppl out in public too <<< someone will mind their business and you’ll cough excessively to shame them, point at them, laugh, etc. like yuck!
The way y’all speak about drug users….. I need “crackhead,” “junkie,” and any term that condemns drug users to disappear.
Even the way y’all refer to someone as an addict is plainly horrible.
Like instead of calling for het men to deconstruct these toxic ideologies surrounding heteronormativity you are criticizing women for hating it and them?? ‘If you hate them and can’t tolerate misogyny then don’t date them’. Omg the bar is in hell.
i only know one other person atm who has decentered romance. i just feel very frustrated and not seen overall bc I want support. cis men have ruined my life, my perception, and scared me away from relationships. ppl act like I’m nonsensical for wanting non romantic intimacy.
cishet women are such weak links. it’s so annoying how much they try appealing to het men’s interests rather than idk calling for liberation entirely. even in convos around dating.. they’re always trying to push other women to compromise rather than het men being better.
i hate it when the community ignores the voices of marginalized black ppl and tries saying “it’s only yt ppl offended” when they’re met w a valid critique of the language they use. y’all did that w sp*z and now you’re doing it w big back. 🙄
@lNDlGO555
she literally said and i quote “i have no issue w her being on stage” ☠️ this deflection is getting embarrassing. delete your tweets and stop caping for fascism under this guise of “caring abt respectability”. all the mages she arguing w clearly said they don’t like the fed shit.
Suhail and Juri have migrated to Deir Al-Balah. The bombing is fierce and donations have been stagnant. Please share or donate. Juri is still battling hepatitis and urgency is of upmost importance.
Sohair hasn’t received any donations in 3 days. Her and her loved ones have experienced illness, famine, and fatigue due to their genocide. Please boost, share, or donate to help.
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@oyanggy
Twitter has flagged my account and decreased visibility. Please help Suhail and his daughter evacuate. They haven’t received a donation in 4 days.
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so interesting how the ppl who say this aren’t even the most marginalized in the first place. ☠️ the global south DEF is more marginalized than anyone in the imperial core but still get the job done.
Please share or donate. They haven’t received a donation in days. They are currently in Deir Al-Balah. There’s heavy bombing and they’d like to receive a tent.
Hey, what's up. Just wanted to share something important—Suhail and his daughter Juri are really struggling to survive in Gaza and need our help. Any donation can make a huge difference for them, so please click the link below to donate or share it!
Leaving Christianity 100% lowered my stress levels.
I should’ve knew the Christian God was a weird motherfucker when he sent a bear to MAUL 42 CHILDREN for making fun of a man for being bald😐
Like Bitch are you well?
One of these days y’all are gonna have to unpack how your disdain for nails and other cosmetic practices bw do is misogynoir… like the amount of racism i received for my acrylic nails was… 😃
Thank you so much for the donations so far! Please share and boost this! Suhail and Juri are in Deir Al-Belah. They really want to evacuate to a new life and get Juri’s hepatitis treated. ♥️