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What's the meaning of it all ยฏ\_(ใ)_/ยฏ DM for Ghostwriting services ~ MY ONLY ACCOUNT โค๏ธ ~ INFJ ~ Life path 33 โ๏ธโ๐โ โก โ 777 333 888 โจ
Glasgow, Scotland
Joined May 2017
Intimacy isn't just about sex. It's having heart-to-hearts, staying up all night talking, sharing childhood memories, thoughts, fears, dreams & hopes for the future. It's uncontrollable laughter, direct eye contact and feeling each other without touching - it's exchanging energy.
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Intimacy isn't just about sex. It's having heart-to-hearts, going on dates, dancing, cuddling, sharing childhood memories, thoughts, fears, dreams & hopes for the future. It's uncontrollable laughter, direct eye contact & feeling each other without touchingโit's exchanging energy.
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Dating someone who gives you great sex, good laughs, best friend vibes, epic conversations and unquestionable loyalty >>>.
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Removing yourself from anywhere you donโt feel loved, appreciated and respected is top tier self-care.
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Normalize not forcing connections with people. If someone doesn't see the value in having you by their side, donโt try to convince them.
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Dating someone who naturally brings out your inner child, makes you laugh and never stops flirting with you >>>.
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Dating someone who naturally brings out your childlike playfulness, makes you laugh and loves you on the days you don't feel loveable >>>.
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Soulmates aren't just lovers โ they're friends too. Your soulmates naturally recognize you, vibe with you & align with you. They understand you, appreciate you, support you, love you, heal with you & grow with you. They make you feel beautiful in your own skin just for being YOU.
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Soulmates aren't just lovers. they're friends too. Your soulmates will naturally recognize you and align with you. They understand you, appreciate you, support you, love you, heal with you and evolve with you. They make you feel beautiful in your own skin just for being YOU.
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Stop oversharing โ not everyone wants what's best for you. Being private af about your personal life is top tier self-care.
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To avoid disappointment, take people exactly as they are, instead of idealizing about what you wish they would be.
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Manipulation is when they blame you for your reaction to their toxic behaviour, but never discuss their disrespect that triggered you.
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dating someone who naturally brings out your childlike playfulness, makes you laugh, and loves you a little extra on the days you don't feel loveable >>>>.
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Maturity is accepting you won't always get the answers or apologies for the shit that hurt your heart. but you heal anyway.
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Normalize not oversharing. Everyone is not your friend.
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To avoid disappointment, take people exactly as they are, instead of romanticizing about what you wish they would be.
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Avoiding people who lower your vibe is a top tier self-care.
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avoiding people who repeatedly trigger your mental health and lower your vibe is top tier self-care.
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Intimacy isn't just about sex. It's crying together, staying up all night talking, sharing childhood memories, thoughts, fears, dreams and hopes for the future. It's uncontrollable laughter, direct eye contact and feeling each other without touching - it's exchanging energy.
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Normalize not forcing people to choose you. If they think they can find better elsewhere โ let them. Respectfully.
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Normalize not oversharing. Everyone is not your friend. Being private af about your personal life is top tier self-care.
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Normalize not forcing connections. If someone doesn't see the value in having you by their side, don't try to convince them.
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Intimacy is more than just sex. It's having heart-to-hearts, going on dates, dancing, sharing your childhood memories, thoughts, fears, dreams & hopes for the future. It's uncontrollable laughter, direct eye contact & feeling each other without touchingโit's exchanging energy.
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Dating someone who naturally brings out your inner child, never stops flirting with you and loves you a little extra on your bad days >>>.
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The older you get, the more you choose calm over chaos, and distance over disrespect. You prioritize your mental health, peace, and happiness โ over everything.
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removing your presence from places you donโt feel loved, appreciated or respected is top tier self-care.
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When you start to realize so many people are emotionally wounded children in adult bodies, you stop taking so much shit personally.
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normalize being private af and not telling everybody everything.
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Most relationships taught me the more chances you give ppl, the less they value you. They aren't afraid to lose you bcoz they know no matter what, you won't walk away. Never let anybody get too comfortable with disrespecting you. Love yourself and choose distance over disrespect.
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Dating someone who understands you're a work in progress, but still adores you for the absolute fucking masterpiece that you already are >>>.
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You deserve a calm love with someone whoโs good for your mental health and nervous system.
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Relationships are so beautiful when you and your partner are actually good friends. You show up together, share inside jokes, talk openly, have fun, and totally vibe like besties. They shouldnโt replace your actual friends but itโs so amazing when the dynamic isn't just romantic.
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Normalize not forcing people to choose you. If they think they can get better elsewhere - let them. Respectfully.
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I love people who can put their pride aside, apologize, and actually change their behaviour. That awareness, accountability, and emotional intelligence is so attractive.
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Distancing yourself from people who repeatedly trigger your mental health and lower your vibe is top tier self-care.
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To avoid disappointment, take people exactly as they are instead of idealizing them for what they could be.
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Disconnecting from people to reconnect with yourself until you feel like you again is top tier self-care.
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I think when youโre transitioning from being a people pleaser into someone with more boundaries it can feel so weird โ it's hard to tell if youโre being mean or if youโre actually just respecting your own feelings, because youโre so used to putting other people's feelings first.
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Dating someone who naturally brings out your childlike playfulness, makes you laugh and never stops flirting with you >>>>.
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Soulmates aren't just lovers, they're friends too. Your soulmates will naturally recognize you and align with you. They make you feel seen, heard, understood, appreciated, supported and loved.
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Removing yourself from places you don't feel loved, valued or respected is top tier self-care.
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Never force connections. If people don't see the value in having you by their side, don't try to convince them.
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The older you get, the more you choose calm over chaos and distance over disrespect. Drama becomes intolerable to you and your peace becomes your ultimate priority. You start surrounding yourself with people who are good for your mental health, heart and soul.
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Distancing yourself when you feel weird vibes, negative energy or sneaky shit is top tier self-care.
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Dating someone who understands you're a work in progress but also still adores you for the absolute fucking masterpiece that you already are >>>.
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Removing yourself from shit that continually triggers your mental health and hurts your heart is top tier self-care.
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Having an emotionally mature partner is TOP TIER. You're able to express yourself freely and openly. They donโt insult you, they don't give you the silent treatment, they don't become aggressive or manipulative. They listen, they respond โ they patiently hold a safe space for you.
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Normalize not forcing connections. If people donโt see the value in having you by their side, don't try to convince them.
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To avoid disappointment, take people exactly as they are, instead of idealizing about who you wish they would be.
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dating someone who naturally brings out your childlike playfulness, makes you laugh, never stops flirting with you, and loves you a little extra on the days you don't feel loveable >>>>.
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To avoid disappointment, take people exactly as they are instead of romanticizing about what they could be.
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Manipulation is when they blame you for your reaction to their toxic behaviour.
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may your next relationship be the healthiest, happiest, goofiest, nastiest one ever.
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Unhealed trauma will sometimes give you a high tolerance threshold to emotional abuse. Just because you can endure it well doesn't mean you have to accept it.
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Stop oversharing โ not everyone is your friend. Being private af about your plans and personal life is top tier self-care.
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Manipulation is when they blame you and focus on your reaction to their toxic behaviour, but never discuss their disrespect that triggered you.
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Be so fucking proud of yourself for all the darkness you've gone through yet despite it all you still choose to heal and shine.
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Manipulators blaming you for your negative reaction to their toxic behaviour is the funniest shit ever.
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Vibing alone until youโre valued and respected is top tier self-care.
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The older you get, the more you figure out who your real friends are. It's not always about who has known you the longest, it's about who makes you feel seen, heard, understood, appreciated, supported and loved.
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Normalize not feeling bad for removing yourself from anyone who didn't feel bad for hurting you.
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The real flex is teaching your boundaries to be stronger than your soft heart. Be kind but take no shit.
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Removing myself from people and places where I donโt feel loved, valued and respected is my kinda self care.
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may your next relationship be the longest, happiest, goofiest, nastiest one ever.
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Manipulation is when they blame you for reacting to their toxic behaviour, but don't discuss their disrespect that triggered you.
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Removing yourself from any place you donโt feel loved, appreciated or respected is top tier self-care.
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I love people who are highly aware of their worth but highly humble too and never look down on anyone.
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Maturing is realizing you don't wanna be around drama, stress or conflict anymore. You start choosing calm over chaos, and distance over disrespect. You start prioritizing your peace, mental health, and happiness โ over everything.
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Manipulation is when they always mess with your mind by blaming you for reacting to their toxic behaviour, but never discuss their disrespect that triggered you.
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Be so fucking proud of yourself for surviving all the silent battles you never speak about.
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Maturity is accepting you won't always get the answers or apologies for the shit that hurt you. but you heal anyway.
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Distancing yourself from shit that continually triggers your mental health and hurts your heart is top tier self-care.
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The real flex is training your boundaries to be stronger than your soft heart. Be kind but take no shit.
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Removing yourself from situations where you donโt feel valued or respected is top tier self-care.
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I don't distance myself from people to teach them a lesson, I distance myself because I finally learned mine.
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'I used to dislike being sensitive. But take away that single trait & you take away the very essence of who I am. You take away my empathy,intuition,creativity,my deep appreciation of the wee things, my vivid inner life & deep awareness of others pain/joy & My passion for it all'.
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Being in a healthy relationship really taught me there's no such thing as 'that's just the way I am'. When you truly love someone you work on those toxic traits, you learn to communicate, you actively listen to each others thoughts & feelings โ you adjust, grow & heal together.
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unhealed trauma will have you rejecting healthy relationships with people who actually have your back.
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Manipulation is when they'll blame you for your reaction to their toxic behaviour, but never discuss their disrespect that triggered you.
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normalize not forcing people to choose you. If someone thinks they can get better elsewhere โ let them. Respectfully.
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Crazy how peaceful life becomes when you raise the bar on who has access to you.
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May you attract a divine partner who is as loving, deep, passionate, sexual, soulful and spiritual as you. Someone who is intimate, open and vulnerable with you in every sense. Someone who is so perfectly compatible with you, it's like you both manifested each other.
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I love a person who can apologize and actually change their behaviour. That awareness, accountability, and emotional intelligence is attractive af.
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Intimacy is more than just sex. It's having heart-to-hearts, going on dates, sharing childhood memories, thoughts, feelings, fears, dreams, and hopes for the future. It's uncontrollable laughter, direct eye contact and feeling each other without touching - it's exchanging energy.
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Avoiding people that repeatedly trigger your mental health and lower your vibe is a top tier self-care.
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Normalize not forcing people to pick you. If they think they can find better elsewhere โ let them. Respectfully.
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dating someone who knows you're a work in progress, but still adores you for the absolute fucking masterpiece that you already are >>>.
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I promise you, no friendship or relationship is worth damaging your mental health over.
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Your soul knows, it will literally tell you when it's time to move onto a new chapter of your life. Trust it.
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I don't do revenge. I heal, move on with my life and let karma deal with it.
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Intimacy is more than just sex. It's having heart-to-hearts, staying up all night talking, sharing childhood memories, thoughts, fears, dreams and hopes for the future. It's uncontrollable laughter, direct eye contact and feeling each other without touching-it's exchanging energy.
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May you attract a divine partner who loves every cell of you. The warrior, the gentle, the loving, the sexy, the comfy, the quiet, the talkative, the vulnerable, the bold, the sensitive, the nurturing and the powerful - the absolute whole, wonderful being you are.
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I promise you, no friendship or relationship is ever worth damaging your mental health over. Period.
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Maturity is choosing calm over chaos and distance over disrespect.
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Normalize seeing someone's lack of effort as their lack of interest in you regardless of what they tell you. If they wanted to, they would. Period.
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Never force people to choose you. If they think they can find better elsewhere - let them. Respectfully.
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Removing myself from situations where I donโt feel loved, appreciated and respected is my kinda self care.
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You deserve a calm love with someone who's your safe space, your best friend and brings peace to your soul during stressful times.
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The real flex is removing yourself from shit that repeatedly triggers your mental health and hurts your heart.
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You deserve a calm love with someone who's your safe space, your best friend, and brings peace to your soul during stressful situations. You deserve a gentle love with someone whoโs good for your mental health and nervous system.
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