I remember for my 21st birthday I got my very first section in a club and invited all my “friends” to come turn up.. literally NO ONE showed up. I had some drinks and gave the section to some random girl and left and went back to my hotel room. I was humbled and never planned my
For context, everyone ended up having an excuse/reason why the couldn’t come. I’ve made amends, that was 6 years ago. I now have a healthy solid friend group of people I know I can call on if needed. Thank you.
Also, don’t let this discourage you from wanting to celebrate with others, just make sure you know your friends enough to know what to expect and who to expect it from. Communicate and show up for those who show up for you. 🫶🏾
I be so weary when it comes to revealing my status to someone I’m talking to cause you never know how they will react.
This man sent a voice note saying how much he respected my honesty and invited me out for tacos and margaritas tonight
I love tacos and margaritas 🥹
8 months of celibacy has taught me a lot. Self discipline, boundaries, a new respect for intimacy etc
With that being said; im ready to break a back and bed frame 😮💨