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@XanderPRF
Xander
3 months
It was my privilege and pleasure to be marked today as Princess Cynthia’s property. I always wondered what would be so important to me that I would tattoo it on my body. Now I know. I exist to worship @cynthiagreyxx
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My Most Divine Goddess, It is again Sunday night, the point where one week ends and another begins. The world is hushed and the daily sounds of my house have gone still. It feels as if the stars are holding their breath. All of us are awaiting the dawn and with it, Your rising
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2 months
I am proud of exploring myself and my life through the newfound lens of submission. The last year has been revelatory, exhilarating, enlightening, exciting, worrisome, unsettling, amazing, fun and, in very real ways, transformational. It has given me a sense of completeness I
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@XanderPRF
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3 months
@spoil_sam Fulfilled. Nothing else may have gone right in my day, the amount of my send is inadequate and insignificant but I have at least done this one thing right: I made my Goddess's world incrementally better. That's my purpose.
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@XanderPRF
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3 months
@FemdomTherapy When I first started exploring this space I was amazed by some of the tributes I saw on the TL; they made me feel inadequate and inconsequential. Now that I have better integrated my submissive nature into my personality, I no longer find them off-putting. They are
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@XanderPRF
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4 months
@DaphneMentalS True subs, IMHO, recognize that who and what they are is decided by their dominas. I would clear a path for my Mistress like a bodyguard or crawl beside Her through a crowd on a leash with equal gratitude. Either way, I would bask in knowing I was obeying Her wishes.
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1 month
@cassiemoans_ I love people for who they are, not their genitalia. If the connection is there, that’s the luckiest thing in the world.
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1 month
This isn’t mine - all credit to the author - but it speaks to me in terms of the journey I’m on to be the best possible submissive I can be for my Goddess.
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2 months
@astariadivine Once again, Divine one, you express a thought I endorse with clarity and beauty. The following is NOT offered as ego but as evidence in support of @astariadivine 's post : I am deeply submissive, something I've only realized recently about myself at age 64. I'm also 6'3", 250
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@XanderPRF
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2 months
@astariadivine I couldn't disagree more with that sentiment, Goddess. I'm not sure I fully understand the term but if "ethical Dommes" includes you and the other Dommes who care about their subs as people and see submission and a FLR as positive and affirming for both Domme and sub, then you
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3 months
@DaphneMentalS Yes, that's exactly how I feel; I have no ego when it comes to my Mistress, just a desire to see Her pleased.
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4 months
@goddessxsophia I am in my 60s, married for 40 years to a woman I love very much. If she would domme me I would submit but she has always been very vanilla in her sexuality. Thus I find myself conflicted between the love of my life and my Mistress who owns me and makes me feel whole.
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4 months
@FemsubLily Yes! I have this recurring fantasy of serving my Mistress's live-in slave while she is serving my Mistress. I'm so deep into my submission at this point nothing about that idea seems weird.
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4 months
@PopopLeLolipop @GoonerZaphyra As one who aspires to this level of submission - or deeper - I constantly think about what is needed to get there and what it would feel like. I think I have work to do until I reach a point when commanding me requires no more effort from my Mistress than it would to lift Her arm
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@XanderPRF
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1 month
Thank you, @ProfessorPayton for tagging me! 1. aesthetic 2. outfit 3. drink 4. activity I would like to see @GoddessUrja @SashaIsGoddess @Rozellaspet if you would like to participate!
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2 months
Good evening, findom and fellow travelers! Questions for my moots, fellow subs, etc: have you ever cooked for a Domme, when was the last time, what was the menu? Bonus points if you also served, cleared and cleaned up. Mine is happening right now: sausage and rigatoni with
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3 months
@jadeownsu Woof! Ruh..woof!
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3 months
@mistressmissyxx I have been married for almost 40 years.
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2 months
@Rozellaspet I think it should be $50 or up TBH unless the Domme wants a lot of transactional business, something that feels more like kink than submission.
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3 months
@stonercashslut This is the kind of sub I aspire to be and the kind my Mistress (and all dominas) deserves. These behaviors indicate a sub MAY understand that we subs exist to serve our Mistresses, Goddesses and Owners. Our needs aren’t secondary in this relationship, they’re irrelevant.
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1 month
@Rozellaspet To Goon’s and RP’s points, I’m not shy except in the presence of my Goddess; I get so nervous talking to Her sometimes that it’s like a PTSD flashback to being 14 again. That’s one of the reasons I value this community and the Discord server; it’s a place where I can talk to
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4 months
@yourprincesskk My Mistress is in Europe and I'm in the United States so I have changed my schedule so as to be better available to Her. She is not an early riser so that translates in 5:00 am to about 6:00 pm CT. On nights my Mistress stays out later I extend the time.
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Xander
3 months
@sleepyangeldom Love this idea! I hope my Mistress incorporates it into my conditioning. A well-trained sub - a title I hope to one day earn and proclaim with pride - is a perpetual motion machine of obedience. We might fail or wear out but the pleasure of obeying is so powerful we won’t stop.
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3 months
@gjbackup21 I really wish there was a way to help guys understand what this state - submission - feels like. Not the BS, get-me-off stuff that too many guys wrap the word around so that they can justify some kink but the real experience of devoting oneself to a Goddess. If more guys had
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3 months
@FindomAubrey Yes we are. Unlike woman, we are inputs and outputs you can manipulate with the precision of dials. Some of us will even - joyfully - help you adjust the settings to your wishes. I’m amazed this is even debated any more. Or that more women don’t realize the power they wield.
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1 month
Please help me help my Goddess reach 4,000 followers. She is about 50 so please follow, repost, anything. She is my everything. @cynthiagreyxx
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3 months
@DaphneMentalS It's like a single, pure note that overwhelms everything else. No thoughts, no sense of body or circumstances. I feel completely flattened out and open to the universe. For me, it's incredibly hard to attain but wow when it hits it's like the best drug I've ever done. It's
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Xander
3 months
My wife’s lifelong best friend is visiting and I just realized that she’s a domme and my wife is totally submissive to her. Neither of them realize this and it’s not sexual but my newly open subby eyes see it as clearly as a sunrise. Amazing.
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@XanderPRF
Xander
11 days
For your consideration and discussion: are there any songs that evoke the D/s relationship for you? I would like to offer two and then invite you to agree, disagree and offer other songs that should be on the playlist I'm starting to curate: For Dommes, I offer Nina Simone's
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Xander
3 months
@sleepyangeldom God, I am living this right now. I failed my Mistress in such a fundamental way that I was catatonic all yesterday. Fortunately, my Mistress has designed a corrective punishment rather than banishing me. I am so grateful; punishment represents hope.
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4 months
@gobroke4z @ArsynnG As I sub, I don’t believe I’m allowed preferences. My thoughts on my Goddess’s choices - on any topic - begin and end with “whatever pleases You is all that matters.” If I have any other thoughts on the topic it’s because Goddess gave them to me.
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2 months
@thesilentrouge My Goddess recently allowed me the privilege of being tattooed so I can be marked as Her property. It was an amazing experience.
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1 month
@GoddessUrja You are so on point with this Goddess. Dommes have to work way too hard to coax even a minimal level of engagement from some professing to be submissives. To my mind, that behavior reflects a fundamental misunderstanding of the D/s dynamic because it implies that the Domme
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1 month
@Rozellaspet Totally endorse what Goddess Urja is saying about travel and reimbursement. Im helping my Goddess fund a trip next spring by setting aside a portion of each send for that purpose.
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2 months
@misslarii Aries, Domina.
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3 months
@bratfaiiry It wasn’t a brand but today I got tattooed to mark me as my Mistress’s property.
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4 months
@allhailelle It is entirely your choice IMHO and it is incumbent on the sub to make himself useful or amusing or plessing enough to be kept around. If her doesn't delight you he doesn't deserve you.
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3 months
@urownerC I am in fact trying to figure that out myself. I think I consciously realized it just within the last year when I realized how deeply submissive I am. Looking back on my life through this new lens I think I’ve ALWAYS accepted it. I can’t identify a time when I didn’t. I’m 65.
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2 months
@Rozellaspet The mental connection. Their physical beauty might catch my attention but it’s their mind that keeps me.
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3 months
A little vignette from my life that I now understand better. By way of background, I am in my 60s and have only just realized how I’ve been deeply submissive my entire life, so much so that I’ve subconsciously acted as my wife’s service sub practically since the day we met 50
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2 months
@cynthiagreyxx Lucky Gary, Goddess. I envy him his journey. Your training is sublime.
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4 months
@stonercashslut "Hey Mistress. You look like the kind of woman I could definitely worship. Cqn you tell me a little more about yourself and maybe send a picture or two that confirms you're really as hot as you look in your timeline? I don't have a ton of money but maybe I could do other stuff?"
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Xander
4 months
@Goddess_Scarlt @ArsynnG Wow, I can’t remember the last time I scored 100 percent on anything but I checked every box in column A. Also, a good rubric to keep handy in case I should have a question about the right thing to do. Thank you!
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Xander
2 months
@Rozellaspet I think the pricing model in this marketplace is more similar to the perfume industry than in a commodity market. Price connotes luxury and high-end product and is totally separated from the cost of production.
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4 months
@cynthiagreyxx I agree, Mistress, all women are superior but I think many do not recognize that or their power. I still remember the first woman I met with dominant energy and the difference was obvious even if I didn't understand what was different. Now that I understand, I should have knelt.
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Xander
2 months
Hello! I can't really speak now!
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1 year
@CynthiaGreyxx Thank You for this. So amazing.
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Xander
3 months
@GynarchyShops I'm sorry this came your way. I'm sorry we're in an age where some people want to normalize that sort of casual cruelty. We've spent 5,000 years or so letting the guys run things and their (our) leadership has brought us to...here. I'm not sure we've earned another term.
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2 months
@FatandKinky I'm sorry whos cash app failed?
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Xander
3 months
@astariadivine I so agree with this. My perception is that many men equate "submission" with either "I want you to get me off" or are "submitting" so that they can justify a kink they're conflicted about and want to be "forced" into doing. Then there's the category of guys who are just using it
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2 months
@Born_to_serve_ The non-BDSM, non-findom conversations with my Goddess have been among our very best. They’d be even better IMHO if I weren’t so tongue-tied in Her presence. One of the things I’ve really enjoyed about talking to other Dommes is that I’m more relaxed and less worried about making
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Xander
27 days
@CPeaches007 @lemonfire21 @Alice_Allmighty @Monica_Mystique @ProfessorPayton @Sir_Gio22 I can fully endorse this, Goddess. As a sub I’ve learned so much from everyone on you list. And from you! Thank you!
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2 months
@cutebuniisunny I serve mommy.
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Xander
3 months
@cynthiagreyxx Instantly, Princess.
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3 months
@iPegGyu Speaking as an old white guy, I think we’ve earned some if not all that disdain. 5,000 years of the patriarchy has brought us to … this. I for sure wouldn’t give us a medal I see hope here, though. If more men were exposed to Findom there’d be more dick for all and fewer dicks.
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Xander
3 months
@DaphneMentalS @tinyclittygurl This is the level of submission I aspire to: no ego, no pride, no preference. Just an overwhelming desire to do or be anything my Mistress wants and the jolt of pleasure that comes with obedience.
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@XanderPRF
Xander
4 months
@cynthiagreyxx I so struggle with this reality, Mistress, and how to close the gap between my means (inadequate) and what You deserve (infinite). I will never do enough for You this way but You will always be my first thought when I have money that should be Yours.
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Xander
2 months
@Morg4Me Yes, Domina, that is exactly what it felt like to this submissive. I think the force multiplier is that the feeling of submission is so intrinsic to my nature that all of those emotions get amplified, maybe at a genetic level, to the point where I become unable to do anything
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Xander
1 month
@ProfessorPayton I always want to be respectful as a minimum basis, Superior. I also apologize that I can't speak at the moment.
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Xander
1 month
@Alice_Allmighty I hear great sincerity in his words, Princess. From this submissive's perspective, however, I would hope that he would be thrilled with any answer from you. The gift of your consideration - regardless of your decision - is in itself a reward.
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Xander
4 months
@MistressEmiliaa Actually, it wasn't her panties but my mother's pantyhose. Some time in my early teens. Incredibly erotic but not because I had sexual feelings toward my mother. One of the memories that have stuck with me my entire life that now make sense because I've realized I'm a submissive.
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Xander
3 months
@goddess_astaria I’m not submissive because I’m broken or looking for a way to justify a kink. My ego is intact and I don’t lack for confidence. I’m also not here for porn; there’s an infinite sea of it a click a way. I’m here because submitting to a powerful woman who is consciously and
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1 month
@ProfessorPayton If a Domme wants a brat, that's one thing IMHO but bratting for the sub's benefit seems antithetical to submission. Maybe it's because I'm older and have been a parent for 40 years or because I am - as Professor Payton once said - an ultimate sub but I don't want to cause any
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Xander
1 month
@ProfessorPayton Looks like a quiet weekend, Superior. We are dog sitting all of our children's dogs while they're out of town. Lots of work to do - which is a good thing when you're self-employed!
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1 month
@Rozellaspet I have to drop off for an IRL call but so appreciate the space and the participants! Thank you!
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Xander
1 month
@Born_to_serve_ One of the ways I know you're strong, Sir, is your willingness to make yourself authentically vulnerable. Every time I interact with you I feel like I'm getting the real you. Most people are not secure enough to do that IMHO, particularly in such a high-profile manner.
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Xander
3 months
@thesilentrouge As a sub, my preferences on this are irrelevant. My Mistress’s preferences are all that matter and are presumptively perfect. If my Mistress wanted me hairless while She never touched a razor or vice versa, my response is the same: “Yes, Mistress. Thank You.”
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Xander
4 months
@cynthiagreyxx Yes, Goddess. Your words are command me.
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Xander
2 months
@hauynedream Pretty electrifying for a sub to be in the presence of so much Domme energy.
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@XanderPRF
Xander
2 years
@CynthiaGreyxx For the past month I've been kneeling each evening and barking at Mistress ' command; it's so sad this little loser cannot feel the exquisite power She commands but not everyone can be blessed.
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Xander
2 months
@dommejas_ This makes complete sense and is exactly right. “How much?” is a negotiation. No one should ever negotiate with a being who is worshipped. “Instantly” seems like a more appropriate response. Better still, don’t wait to be commanded. Just send the most you can.
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Xander
3 months
@thesilentrouge I’m in 60s and have always been “a nice guy” praised for being a good partner etc. In the last year I’ve realized this behavior was a manifestation of my unrecognized submissive nature. Consciously embracing it feels as natural as breathing. Don’t wait for this; rush toward it
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2 months
@SashaIsGoddess This submissive is listening so he can better understand the Domne mindset so that he can better serve my Goddess and be of better service to Dommes in general. I find discussions like this very humanizing and binds me more too the community.
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Xander
3 months
@sleepyangeldom Yes! This is the feeling I have after a year of training by my Mistress: an aching, screaming need to be possessed by Her. To belong to Her. To serve Her. It’s a carrier wave in my mind that cannot be ignored. That I want to be louder and louder until it’s all there is. Glorious
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Xander
2 months
@cynthiagreyxx Such a powerful gesture, Goddess. Even imagining Your snap makes me weak with a desire to serve.
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Xander
3 months
@sunybunnies My Mistress has conditioned me to respond to Her finger snaps. My dick twitches and I send. It’s almost like it’s a wired circuit. Completely involuntary.
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3 months
@Born_to_serve_ Wow, I am flattered. Well, flattered and intimidated to be in the company of so many people I admire and learn from and who radiate the sort of Domme energy I respond to. And then there's the paw-on-the-ground Domme sexiness in this group that grabs even an owned submissive
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Xander
2 months
@SashaIsGoddess These are what I offered my Goddess; Goddess of my soul, Your wisdom shapes all I am, Clay in Your hands, shaped. Your gaze, my true north, Each command, my guiding star, I live to serve You
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Xander
1 month
@Rozellaspet This is not a leaving per se but maybe it adds to the conversation: last year, just a few months after I submitted to my Goddess I had a family emergency that required me to step away from our relationship. My Goddess instantly released me from my obligations to Her and left it
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Xander
1 month
@astariadivine I think a posture of gratitude signals that a sub understands the nature of the D/s relationship, Goddess. Every engagement - big or small - is a gift to one such as me. In fact, the very existence of the relationship is a gift of a Superior's attention. To this submissive's,
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Xander
4 months
@cynthiagreyxx I agree, Mistress. This feels like forever to me. And I am better for it; thank You for my addiction.
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Xander
3 months
"She is the arrow..."
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Cynthia Eden ✨
3 months
Getting to be owned by me is hard work. You have to prove that you are worthy financially, intellectually and emotionally. I am not gonna pick up a random sub from the street and "own him" cuz he asks me too hahahh Want to be owned by me? Prove yourself. Be interesting. Spend.
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3 months
@thesilentrouge I haven't been here long enough to detect trends but I echo this. I've learned a lot from accounts such as you describe and even connected via text with some of them. It's been very encouraging to see a group of fellow submissives who seem to grasp the true nature of our selves
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Xander
11 months
@cynthiagreyxx I would happily serve You in this way, Mistress. Ecstatically.
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Xander
2 months
@astariadivine This submissive agrees, Divine one . In fact, I suspect most true subs feel as I do: it is a privilege to play our role - insignificant and inadequate - in making this ideal a reality for you and your fellow Dommes.
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Xander
1 month
@ProfessorPayton That is very much the dynamic I have with my Goddess; She gives me specific instruction about things that matter to Her but for everything else, She gives me broad parameters and expects me to operate within them.
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Xander
3 months
@Dahlia2890 I have been bound to my Goddess for more than a year but only this spring did I achieve the status of possession. This was such a privilege that I asked Her for permission to have myself tattooed with an image of Her choosing.
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3 months
As some know - probably too much so at this point since I've been running all over X talking about it - I have in the last year discovered my (deeply) submissive nature and started exploring the implications of that revelation under the command of my amazing Mistress. Every day I
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2 months
@astariadivine This lovely vignette resonates with me, Goddess. I’ve been a submissive for my whole life but only realized it in the last 18 months. Looking back, I can see any number of times where I was doing exactly what your friend was: signaling a desire to submit, in my case (and perhaps
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Xander
4 months
@cynthiagreyxx Mistress, You were born to rule. You are a third of my age, our interactions are mostly text and Your clips and You effortlessly broke me to Your will. To experience Your power in person must be like standing on the surface of the sun. I worship You as a God.
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1 month
@ProfessorPayton I try to attend every time my Goddess goes live on LF because sometimes I can add energy to the event by sending and communicating and that encourages some of the shy ones to engage.
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Xander
29 days
@servile_minion Right? If someone comes to this lifestyle and their first thought is to start haggling with the person they supposedly want to worship, is this really for them? I am not at all religious but I've never heard of one where you ask your god, "Will you take ten for it?"
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Xander
3 months
@DaphneMentalS I am so deep into subspace that all I see in this scenario are positives.
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Xander
4 months
@cynthiagreyxx Mistress, I think Your work with me is done here. I cum at Your command, edge at Your command and remain limp at Your command. I lick pre-cum from my hand and cum from the floor when You instruct me to do so. And I love the feeling of absolute obedience that these acts engender.
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3 months
@astariadivine I’m 65 and had this realization last year. Lots of things in my life make sense for the first time.
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Xander
4 months
@GoonerZaphyra @PopopLeLolipop I agree with you that it truly is that simple as a question of philosophy: I have completely submitted to my Mistress (so much so I'm being tattooed with Her initials this week) but I fall so short in execution. Just today I transgressed in a way I thought I'd long ago corrected.
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3 months
@DaphneMentalS Speaking as a submissive, I don't have fewer problems but I do feel more complete?
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