Updating Pinned: Male 25. Dominant, Master, Sadist, Owner, and Disciplinarian of submissive females. 8 years in the lifestyle. M/s and D/s. Founder and co host of the "Dom's Den" where we discuss all aspects of D/s and BDSM from the Dominant perspective. Discussions for Doms, subs, and anyone wanting to learn the lifestyle. New episodes announced regularly! DMs are open for questions. Respect is essential. Consent is key.

Leaders like You, Myself, and a few other Men on here @BuccaneerGhost @WordsToSir @Dick22846606 and a few others. As experienced Men in this world we can lead the way for others and set a good example for how a Man should conduct Himself as a Dominant using His Power and Authority to build up those under Him rather than oppress them.

@whocares_here I'm 6'3" 200 lbs of muscle. I think I'll be fine.

@subbylilly_ In My nightstand right now, two loaded handguns, two tactical flashlights, handcuffs, a small spanking paddle, a roll of cash, and a book.

When you truly know female nature you cannot hate them as a misogynist does but you also cannot deny the ways that they crave Male leadership and submission, which feminism actively fights against. Therefore those of us who understand must cast off both ideologies as well as those aspects of patriarchy which depend on misogyny for their existence.

@mewtewl @misogynistd4dy @misogynistd4ddy Reported

@bad_dolmance I recall one of the first posts of yours that caught my attention was on that very topic.

@bad_dolmance I have studies ancient Greek and Roman history but this is a very good point you make for people who have not and wouldn't understand the artistic/historical context.

Of course I recognize the rightful place of fantasy. It does seem to me however a responsible choice to label fantasy clearly as such when it will be mingled with serious content. On a purely fantasy account this ceases to matter because there is little chance for confusion but when the two exist together it is helpful to differentiate.

@Un3quivocalTrth Actually yes, a Man's testosterone is at its highest first thing in the morning after sleep. As the body tires from activity it slowly lowers to its lowest point in the evening before being replenished by restful sleep.

I have never known a Dominant without demons in His head. But I have never known any true Dominant who does not prove stronger than they are and ultimately Dominates His demons and returns them where they came from. I have suffered from trauma and PTSD in my own life. I'm rooting for you sir.

Age means very little to a Man's maturity and character. Many in their 30s, 40s, 50,s and even older remain in a perpetual state of adolescence thinking themselves strong and Dominant Men but not even knowing what maturity is, let alone Dominance and the responsibility inherent in Owning a submissive. You were right to block him and My sub will do the same. I wouldn't want his creepy "mature" ass anywhere near My submissive since I have a responsibility as her Owner to protect her.

@gentlemandom85 Only a weak man or an abuser feels powerful by breaking a woman down. A Dominant feels powerful when He is building her up, increasing her confidence, and helping her to be better today than she was yesterday.

A lesson for submissives #8 This lesson goes out to My fellow Doms as well. Read the profile bio before sending a DM. In this D/s community, Doms and subs often have DM rules and policies clearly stated in their bio which you disregard and disrespect by failing to read it and react accordingly. I have made this mistake myself and the lesson is well remembered. For a sub to send an unsolicited DM to a Dominant who is already in an exclusive dynamic disrespects your fellow sub by wrongly thinking you could pull Him away from her. It also disrespects the Dom whose favor you seek to win. An Owned submissive's DMs may be monitored by her Owner or she may not be allowed DMs from men. As an Owned submissive she may have dynamic specific rules from her Owner about how private messages are to be handled. Read her bio before messaging and act accordingly. Read her bio and see if she is Owned. Read His bio and see if He accepts DMs and if so for what purposes. Respect and courtesy are fundamental to this lifestyle. Let's all strive to treat each other and regard each other as we would want for ourselves.

@bad_dolmance @LittlevixenKit The collar symbolizes a stronger bond of trust and connection than a wedding ring ever could.

@Kykyx_03 I love you too babygirl

Blocking someone after a single disagreement indicates two things, a weakness in your original argument and a lack of integrity in you that you will not stand by your own words and defend them from the received criticism or disagreement. Blocking someone is reasonable when there is nothing further to be gained by engagement with that individual. Using it to avoid defending your arguments is weak shit.

@WordsToSir I don't ask. I instruct. If I want her in a particular position I will A. Order her to assume that position. B. Physically move her body into that position.