Things have really gone haywire in this present society, especially in this era of GenZs. But with the right steps, approach & trainings, sanity can gradually be restored. It begins with you & I. Remain mute if you have issues with truth because I will drag you if you move mad.
Shout out to my first follower. Gbogbo ẹ̀yin hypocrites oríì twitter! Mo ti wá dé sìyín lọ́rùn báyìí gbégbé kìí gbé sóko oo. Ayée yín wá rógo báyìí lá ì dé cẹ̀lẹ́ ooo...
The first step towards ensuring a sane society, is to know "rights" and "wrongs" for what they are and act appropriately and accordingly.
The second step is for everyone to come together, to support the "rights" and condemn the "wrongs" regardless of colour, race, tribe and
@jon_d_doe
I'm confused here.
Who is the man and who is the woman? I believe this poster is a "she" who is complaning about her "he" boyfriend and not the way it is in this dm. A man can't be this f○○lish.
In that case, I'll reserve my comment
@jon_d_doe
She is "probably" an ashawo and a sex freak. Because why were you guys having a normal chat and she went into defensive mode all of a sudden! She also aopears to have higher mental energy than you do. Don't sleep with your two eyes closed. Meaning be careful, watchful & at alert.
@jon_d_doe
You come on here often to learn. But in all you've learnt so far, you have never come across one of several threads that talked about not performing fatherly duties on a girlfriend? Or one of several dms from people who faced serious consequences for doing so? The thing is, you
@jon_d_doe
Wow! My first follower is Agba
@jon_d_doe
! Iyalaya gbogbo awon hypocrites on this app are in trouble se! Make I go celebrate this with one bottle of "vawulence bitters". Thanks Agba🙏
Yesterday was all about standing with the truth. Supporting what is right & condemning what is wrong.
It's all about "contentment" this morning.
If you're always contented with what you have, you have already solved about 90% of your life challenges.
Contentment is not
@jon_d_doe
Since you love her, don't be afraid to fight for what you want. Place her on monthly allowance, buy phone for her, rent an apartment for her, also keep begging her. With time, you'll win her over. Shebi you're stewpid ni! You will learn by force. Òpònú.
@jon_d_doe
One of my exes "gifted" me 100k in the year 2013 as a contribution towards my carrier growth. I dashed her something worth 50k in 2014 too. Things didn't work out and in 2019, she demanded for the 100k and said it was a loan. "Oh you wanna be petty? I'm in too" I gave her 50k,
@jon_d_doe
"I have learn a lot from you". Now I want to believe that some imbeci|es deliberately send DM to purposely stress us in this community. Like they just want to sit back and watch how people will abuse them in the comment section cos what is this?
Good morning to us all.
Please be reminded that "most" people will be loyal to you only when they stand to gain something. Only few will stay with you through thick and thin. As soon as the benefits they get seize, they find their way.
So please live your life to impress
Whether you like, do good. Whether you like, do bad.
All I know, is that no one amongst God's creation is useless (especially we human beings).
The ones we know as "good for nothing", can be used as bad examples for someone we are trying to admonish.
@jon_d_doe
told her to return the gift I gave her in 2014 before I could give the remaining 50k. I told her I wanted the exact replica of that gift and not something different. Something I knew she wouldn't be able to get. Nah so we use that one settle score.
You're indeed an hypocrite true true, looking for public validation everywhere. So no one should touch yoruba tribe even if they are doing something bad?Oloriburuku ni awon iyalaya e.. awon to ni e, ati iwo gangan, e ti jo sofo danu lapapo. enu e lo wa yen. Omo irankiran.. Oloshi
@jon_d_doe
The "biological dad" is the Odogwu here, both home and abroad. His nickname shall be "DOUBLE MAJOR". I pity the step dad😢.
Good morning to us🙏
Most times, it is advisable to see every disappointment as a blessing in disguise.
This speaks a volume about why you should never hate your enemies.
You can trust a dishonest man to always be dishonest. The ones you should watch out for, are the honest ones, because you
@jon_d_doe
Dear poster! You might go ahead with all those points but you see that nunber 2? Don't do it. I repeat, don't.... The probability of you regretting it is high, especially for the fact that you're still young.. DON'T..
@jon_d_doe
This one won't even heed to any advise given to her so no need to waste time doing that. She has to make mistakes and learn from them herself, for her orientation to change. I just hope and pray it happens quickly so she won't end up being single at miserable 35... Church girl
@jon_d_doe
To meddle in the affairs of two people that are in love na wahala.
Here you are after hot make-up sex, looking for whom to use as topic of discussion in your next additional make-up sex chai'🤦♂️. I imagine what would have happened if he was advised to break up with her😂😂
@jon_d_doe
There is high probability that herself & that "friend" have something going on between them. She can't be trusted with finances too. See how she lavished more than 600k just like that! And she still dey lie ontop! "If I had known, I wouldn't have reported to Agba". Her right now
@jon_d_doe
know within you that what you're doing is not right. Why you have decided to continue acting f○○lish is what I don't understand.
You young men must learn by fire by force. You see some of the mistakes that some of us made? No you won't make them.
@jon_d_doe
The thing is, 99% of married women shouldn't have issues with the teachings because they tend to benefit the most. I mean, which woman will read that men are sole providers in marriage and have issues with it? The reason she did that is because she is CHEATING. Simple.....
can never predict when they are going to do something incredibly stupid and disappointing.
Same with your enemies. You know them to be your enemies because they own up to it and they carry it all about with their full chest.
The ones you should watch out for, are enemies
@jon_d_doe
It is nothing but a defense mechanism that helps them deflect from the truth because it’s too painful to bear. Thank you so much for yesterday and good morning🙏🙏
their inability to face the truth will make them to focus on dragging the messenger.
This is just nothing but a defense mechanism that helps them deflect from the truth because it’s too painful to bear.
People should understand that all these things have consequences.
religion.
But unfortunately, many of us lack the credibility to uphold what is right and condemn what is wrong due to many reasons which include but not limited to:
1. Greed;
2. Public validation;
3. Low self-esteem;
4. Eye service;
5. Fear of rejection;
Except for trusted family members, if you intend to loan money to anyone, you are "advised" to loan out what you know you can dash out incase of any unfortunate turnout of events.
Money is the root of all evil they say.
You will loan out money to a trusted fellow, and when it's
Ask him/her, "do you want your life to turn out as useless as that of so so so and so". He/she self will say "NO".....
You can choose to lay good or bad examples. The choice is yours.
UD
I remember this woman very well, and some other men and women too, very dedicated people infact.
This shows that NO-ONE can be trusted.
You can always trust a dishonest person to be dishonest. It is the honest ones you need to watch out for, because you can never predict when
Person wey I help grow page to like 5k followers, come give am free follow back, don unfollow me because I unfollow am.
Feeling important as if say e deserve the follow back wey I dash am before.
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who disguises as friends, secretly hating on you and can harm you in ways you least expect.
People who are your known enemies can even push you to greater heights without them or you knowing.
How?
"Whoever is not chased by his enemies wouldn't know that life is a race.
@jon_d_doe
I pity this guy sha..
Let it mistakenly result to pregnancy. You don hook be that. You can say she'll just be your babymama but trust me, you no go get rest of mind too... he needs a brain reset slap..
afraid to stand by the truth, do you think you'll be immune to the ripple effects?
The society must become sane again and the change we want, begins with us.
UD
Relationship isn't hard.
Getting a partner to spend the rest of your life with isn't really hard as well.
The problem of you young men and women is majorly greediness.
You all want to settle for ready-made meals without putting in any work.
You're not intentional about what
@jon_d_doe
I think the best thing to do, is to try as much as possible to correct the wrongs within our in the best ways we can. That will continue to create a buffer effect until things begin to
within your reach and you don't do anything about it even when you have the capability to, and you concentrate on your kids alone, it is those set of people that will influence your kids and strip them off of any value you might have inculcated in them.
Whatever you think
time to return it, you start to have series of misunderstandings and you might even become enemies in the process.
All loan requests should be redirected to the banks (especially loans of higher values) as they are in the best position to take care of that, or you probably look
We in this present generation will birth the incoming generations and whatever truth we try to cover up, will come back to hunt us in the future.
The society is currently dysfunctional, now imagine that the next generation meets thesame dysfunctional society because we are
it, then by all means go ahead and buy because you wish to, not because you're in a competition with someone else.
There are some set of people who don't give priority to what can contribute to the development of the society, but they don't mind running into debts to cater for
about you having everything you need at your disposal, it's about being satisfied with that few you have, with the zeal to achieve more without giving any room for greed.
"My friend is driving benz, I must drive Benz too"! To what end? If you must drive Benz and you can afford
frivolities just to compete with one another. To what end??
Their kids grow up to have such mentality and the cycle continues.
There is a yoruba adage that says "A kìí gbé ilé ẹni ká fi ọrùn rọ̀ọ́" (You don't reside in the comfort of your home and snap your neck), literally
6. Impact on oneself and others;
7. Fear of being judged and/or criticized;
8. Wanting to escape accpuntability;
9. Fear of change;
10. Clout chasing.
I know that truth is always bitter because it reflects deep insecurities that most people try to cover up, hide and run from.
Meanwhile, if you don't race (whether by walking or running), how do you intend to get to your height or destination?"
It's a figurative statement. Re-read it to understand and think deeply about it.
Happy Sunday
JD
Kudos to you. But instead of this, why don't all the children come together and put someone at the forefront to lead the agent on? Let the person show interest, then he/she will demand for the copy of the documents under the guise of running a search at the Lagos town planning
So my friend called me yesterday shouting “Lola, there is fire on the mountain”. I was even like “it must be one MFM branch they just opened, the fire is normal” until she added “someone is trying to sell my father’s house”… 😳😳😯
Apparently, my friend is an orphan with about
within your reach and you don't do anything about it even when you have the capability to, and you concentrate on your kids alone, it is those set of people that will influence your kids and strip them off of any value you might have inculcated in them.
Whatever you think
goal no longer align with that of your partner, you just have to let them go, regardless of whether they hurt you or not.
Nothing beats sleeping and waking up in peace and with rest of mind, knowing fully well that you don't have unnecessary baggages to deal with.
UD
yourself and not to impress others.
"What will they say if I do this?" You see "they" that you mentioned! They don't care about you and everyone have different things that they nurse in private. Just make sure what you're doing is the right thing and damn the consequences.
That's why most people tend to lash out at one who publicly stand with the truth because they feel ashamed, exposed and vulnerable when faced with such truth.
So in actual sense, most people don't have issues with the truth itself because they know it one way or the other, but
Caring so much about what people will say will earn you nothing but depression, because you will always try to look for validation where there is none.
And when you die, most of those people will only mourn you for few hours and move on with their lives as if you never existed.
means "you're immune to whatever happens outside of your home so far you're inside". Is that adage still valid by common sense? No.. Why? If houses on your street are being damaged and cleared by a heavy flood, you'll get your fair share whether you're inside or not. Infact, the
safest thing for you to do at that point, is to be outside so you can join hands with other landlords to either find ways to arrest the situation or run as far as you can.
What am I trying to point out in all these analogies?
If you turn a blind eye to the nonsense people do
their inability to face the truth will make them to focus on dragging the messenger.
This is just nothing but a defense mechanism that helps them deflect from the truth because it’s too painful to bear.
People should understand that all these things have consequences.
When I saw the Malta 🇲🇹 NNPC comment by Dangote, I suspected there was more to it. Our group decided to investigate further.
Our discovery was deeply shocking.
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