My brother’s idea of coparenting is fetching his kids from their mom and dumping them off with my sister until it’s time for them to go back to their mom. Then he writes long posts on WhatsApp about what a joy it is to be a present fada 😅
We drove to our date in one car and he dropped me off in another. Kept on leaving our table to take calls outside so we didn’t actually get to enjoy our time together… when I asked him later what that was all about he calmly said he’s in the hijacking business 😭
My cousin is just one of those people who believe in an eye for an eye. It’s her personal dynamic and if you start with her you better prepare for the aftermath. For instance, a distant uncle tried to beat her once (think she was 9) for being “disrespectful” and she told my /1
Hubby got a stable job at some point and rented a place in the city for them to live together. They’ve got four kids now and she’s also employed a continues to deny that she ever beat that hun up. From a distance, it actually looks like they’re okay now. Ends. /14
And, I’m very very sorry to say because I know y’all like her, but on her deathbed she was asking for donations for her medical bills. While having medical aid and a fairly good salary as a doctor.
side because historically, she’s been the root of their problems. (My family absolutely knew that my cousin beat her up but in the absence of proof, they stand with her.) Next thing mom in-law decides to insult my family for not raising their kid well. Lol /12
My aunt’s retaliate and tell her they’ll beat her up “for real” this time for making up such lies about their kid. She’s in disbelief. No one is on her side. Anyway, my family reiterated that she won’t move back in with the in-laws to avoid future conflicts. Everyone’s happy. /13
uncle gore, “katse e tlo hwa e te ngwapetše” which basically means, “let’s square up!” So yeah she’s just always been like that. However, marriage had tamed her in a way. She has ALWAYS had problems with her mom in-law. Her father in-law would intervene here and there but /2
alone at the house. Apparently insults were thrown around and other general forms of disrespect. My cousin decides to beat her up once and for all. Moghel doesn’t fight back. She just cries. Hubs and his dad come back and cousin asks them to drive her back to her parent’s /9
& that there’s no way he’s marrying someone else. Cool, he apparently tells the lady to pack her stuff and her kids so he can drive them home. Emotions are obviously high but it is what it is. Husband and dad in-law drive the fertile bbz home, leaving my cousin and mom in-law /8
house. Hysterical mom in-law says she got a beating. Cousin denies and says she’d never hurt a fly. On some, “but baby you know me mos? Why would I hurt an old woman?”
They fail to resolve it and drive her home anyway. Cousin makes it clear that the only time she’s leaving /10
her parent’s house again is to move into her own house. Not back to his mom’s. Cool, both families meet over the weekend. Mom in-law says she’s emotionally scarred over my cousin’s actions. Cousin continues to deny. Both families agree that it’s hard to take the mom in-law’s /11
Cousin is obviously angry but she waits for her husband to return in a day or two. On the day hubby gets there, she’s packed her bags and tells him she won’t stand for the abuse anymore. Hubby doesn’t like this. Makes it clear that they’ll have kids when they’re ready /7
it wouldn’t help much in the long run. She had never retaliated. Once she felt she had taken enough shit she came back home. Both families intervened and mapped the way forward. Cool she went back to bogadi. (They lived with her in-laws at the time) /3
Eventually, mom in-law gets impatient with her “barren” makoti and fetches her bestie’s daughter (who has two kids) to live with them, with the intention to get the bestie’s daughter married to her son since she has proven that she’s fertile. /6
They weren’t besties but they managed to coexist peacefully for the longest time after the family intervention. After a few years mamazala decides to taunt my cousin regarding her not having kids. She lets it go for a while. Idk what agreement her and the husband had re: kids. /4
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Anyway, cousin endures until she’s had enough. She tells hubby to call his mom to order. Hubby does. However, hubby isn’t always there (he worked in construction and they town hopped a lot). This gave mom in-law reason to abuse my cousin more. /5
My cousin is just one of those people who believe in an eye for an eye. It’s her personal dynamic and if you start with her you better prepare for the aftermath. For instance, a distant uncle tried to beat her once (think she was 9) for being “disrespectful” and she told my /1
Ladies on Footy Twitter, what particular reward comes with being a patriarchy princess? This is not a safe space but you can tell us anyway because I assume with all the twirling you do, you’ll be protected by these losers you’re tryna impress?
The wives of illegal mining kingpins in Carletonville have been arrested for unduly benefiting from the proceeds of crime, and they’re set to have their assets seized. They were caught because they post their ill-gotten wealth on the clock app 🤣
“I don’t want to go to Sundowns because I won’t get game time” means you’re not confident that you can go head-to-head with the best. I respect it, but it surprises me that other fan bases find this mentality flattering …
“Manqoba is not in charge”
“No one knows what Steve is doing”
“Rhulani is not a good coach”
BUT TODAY: “Sundowns is not a good team, it just has an expensive team which is well coached”
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I know people who couldn’t get into Model C schools because their fathers are on their birth certificates and wouldn’t cooperate. Nna I’m begging you to leave men off your children’s birth certificates how
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House of Zwide casting a queer person to play a queer role really makes a difference to me. You can see that the actor is in their element with this character. Everything gels really well
How about men start celebrating men as a start? Go ahead and do it. Post ten men worth celebrating in your life. You can do it king - rooting for you!!
This app is one of the places where men are generally not celebrated, I mean sharp we cant post fathers because they shit but are you also saying your brothers are like their fathers?
Since it’s easy to lie to some of y’all who haven’t learnt much about our cultures, enjoy this video of the Batau people of Ga-Mogashoa - under the N. Sotho umbrella. What do we have here? Men in Scottish kilts. Our ancestors wore those ❤️
You are very wrong. It means your father’s biological sisters in general regardless of age, as well as their spouses. Your parents Rakgadi’s and their spouses are also referred to as such. Your paternal grandfather’s same sex siblings daughter’s and their spouses as well
Lizzie can’t be Rakgadi to Mapitsi’s children because she’s not Tbose’s blood sister. Instead, depending on who’s older between Kwaito and Tbose, she’d be Mamogolo or Mmangwane.
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Everyday we hear how Sundowns players are not the best in their respective positions but today they win because they have the resources to buy “the best” talent? Which version is the truth? 🥺
Telling us that you don’t know who to vote for is no longer cute tbh. If you engaged in matters that affect your community, you would know exactly who to vote for. But you want to make it look like the ANC is the only party available
National team selections are a balance of merit and a coach’s style of play/ideology. Broos has been impartial and true to himself so far. Honestly not complaining…
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Sylvia Monyela had been trying for years to escape her abusive husband and to open cases of abuse against him and the police didn’t take her seriously. Her husband, Lucas Phasha, ended up killing their four kids. He was on parole for murder and attempted murder at the time…
Murder victim Karabo Mokoena laid charges against her killer Sandile Mantsoe after he assaulted her.
But that docket “disappeared” and the case went nowhere.
Our law enforcement system is BROKEN and often easy for abusers to corrupt
Laying charges is very often totally futile
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I could propose that Makhadzi is the best pop star right now and you'll disagree because of the language she sings in, besides other factors. I am now proposing that she's a better lyricist (as per your definition) than all the local rappers who rap in English.