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I’m not a difficult person. I’ve settled for a lot in my past. I’ve gone through shit I’ve never want to again. I’ve seen my lowest point & it’s not something I want to experience again. I just know what I want & not settling for anything else.
I hate Embarrassment & Public Humiliation. Don’t ever put me in a situation to were people can laugh at me & talk about me. If we together, spouse or friend, our ups & downs are personal we can eventually move pass that. OUTSIDERS won’t forget. It's not about what you do, it's
I’m naturally a distant person, it’s never personal. I just like to be in my own thoughts, routine & energy. It’s when I have the most peace & happy fr.
I’m so glad I know how to be alone & actually be happy by myself. I can go without sex, attention, conversation & all that other shit from a man & friends! Y’all ladies better learn how to enjoy being alone sometimes
I’m not the type of female who have to hear from a man every minute of the day but you definitely not about to go a day or DAYS without talking to me 😭
Won’t date again for awhile, I just hate being so attached & getting so comfortable with someone then BOOM have to move on. They know my body, secrets & all about me. I don’t like that. Love is actually terrifying tbh. You don’t know what’s real & what’s fake anymore, I’m cool…
Celibacy is very easy when you realize that there’s literally no-one WORTH being inside of you if they aren’t helping to make you better & loving you correctly.
It’s so scary not knowing what people do behind your back & be in your face like it’s nothing. “Friends, family & significant other. Just make sure you’re loyal, cause what’s done in the dark definitely will come to the light SOONER OR LATER.
I just heard this therapist say that sometimes being a loner is a trauma response. You’re so use to people you love not showing up for you &/or you may have grown up in a toxic environment. The only one you could depend on was YOU! So you naturally feel safe when you’re alone.
I’m not clearing shit up. I don’t care what you think, or what you heard. Your going to have your personal opinion anyways. Plus I live for me so fuck you 🤷🏽♀️🥰
You have to get to a place mentally where nothing else matters but you. You have to focus on bettering your health, finances and emotions..If it doesn’t concern or benefit you then isolate yourself from it‼️ Focus on how YOU can grow.. Only YOU can make yourself happy..
When I’m overstimulated, I try my best to not talk to people because my tone & body language will have you thinking idgaf about you whole time I’m sooo overwhelmed.
Some mfs are so difficult to deal with. No matter how real & open you come to them with a problem, they will never address the issues at hand. They aren’t mature enough to deal w/the consequences of their own actions & ultimately play dumb & put all the guilt & blame back on you.
It’s 2023, we’re not wasting time on meaningless romantic relationships AND meaningless one-sided friendships. Love those who love you, respect those who respect you and keep it pushing 🫶🏾