Mistress_Michelle
@The_Ms_Michelle
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~In an FLR with my amazing husband/sub @docile_sub ~Business owner. Advocate of women no longer being dependents ~Honorifics: Mistress, Ms, Ma'am, Miss, Madame
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My husband/sub is currently knelt down before me painting my toes. It's a ritual for us.
He's muttering things to himself as he works.
"This nail polish formula is terrible. When did the company change this?"
"I'm going to do another coat."
"I love this black/purple
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Let’s talk about the Edge-o-Matic!
@maus_tec
I will be writing this review through the lens of my own relationship. I’m a Domme with a male sub, and we're in a Female Led Relationship.
The Edge-o-Matic is an orgasm denial device that I use with my sub,
@docile_sub
.
~I
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Today marks 20 YEARS that
@docile_sub
and I have been together!
We met at the college we were both attending at the time. He was 20, and I was 19 years old.
We were taking entirely different courses, so normally we wouldnt have met. But, one day, we were both sitting in a huge
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It's really important to
@docile_sub
and I that we raise our son to respect women and treat them properly.
Our son is turning 13 years old soon. It's time to really layer on the lessons, even with little gestures to learn from. 1/5
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I had a check-in with my doctor that left me very amused while I reflect on my FLR with my husband,
@docile_sub
Doctor: “Are you receiving any support at home while you recover? Remember that you shouldn’t be exerting yourself yet, so you might need to call on family for
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I was already grateful to be in an FLR with my husband/sub
@docile_sub
, but my appreciation really grew this week.
I've had some scary health symptoms lately, and lab work confirmed that I need immediate treatment. It's not anything super serious, and I should be better in 6
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That moment when you overhear your sub in his "alter ego" during a work meeting...
Am I the only Domme that loves a powerful man in business, but at home I need a submissive good boy? I get the best of both worlds with
@docile_sub
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An important part of being a Domme is being able to admit when you are wrong. It's important to have the level of maturity to do so. This will help strengthen your bond with your sub.
When I make mistakes, I always discuss it with my sub,
@docile_sub
, and I apologize. It builds
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When you can't decide which one to use...just use them all! We did some maintenance. It was supposed to be "20 whips for 20 years" to celebrate our anniversary, but I was enjoying myself...so I did more 👌 My sub has a very red ass!
@docile_sub
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My sub,
@docile_sub
, surprised me by stripping naked and putting on a little black apron.
He then spent his work lunch hour in the kitchen baking me cookies while I admired his little ass hanging out of the back of the apron. 😍
The cookies are sooo good!
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Most men won't move over for a woman.
Have you ever noticed this? I saw this on social media a few months ago, but I never tested it, until today.
Today I was walking my dog in a park with paved paths. The paths have a line down the middle, so you always stick to the right of
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I would much rather he learn these little lessons from his Dad, than to have him learn from watching how his peers at school treat girls (calling them names when they don't get what they want from them, harassing them, or joining in on teasing them about their appearance). 5/5
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Whelp, we're having another snowy blizzard here in northern Canada.
What does a Domme do to entertain herself when she's bored?
She instructs her sub to get down on his knees and put on a show for her with the fucking machine!
@docile_sub
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My recovery is slow but steady.
Today I noticed deficiencies in the household chores.
Before I got sick, I made adjustments to our dynamic. Previously, I did not dish out physical punishments, as I felt it would encourage my sub to be a brat. However, he has grown in his
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I regularly ensure that I'm turning on my sub while he's locked in his chastity cage... it's fun to fuck with him and watch him squirm. 🔥
-While he's watching an intense hockey game
-Right before bed (this ensures the horny boy aches for me all night...what fun!)
-Before his
*She grabs me*
Her: "I might not be feeling well but you know I can turn you on whenever I feel like it and send you back to work, right?"
me: 😳🥹 "Yes Mistress"
Light tease and denial can send a strong message to a sub.
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My sub,
@docile_sub
, had some work to do in another city. He got up early to make the drive there.
We had a blizzard overnight, and the highways are like sheets of ice.
Not long after he turned onto the highway, traffic stopped completely. It's now been 5.5 hours that he's
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How did you serve your Domme today?
This question can help separate the fetishists from those who are truly submissive.
Did you do something to make her life easier? If she had a hard day, were you able to make her laugh or lighten her mood?
Notice how I didn't ask, "how
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I have the best sub in the world, that is all. Just came on to brag about
@docile_sub
I had almost zero sleep last night, and he shifted his work schedule to help me out with my to-do list today. It might sound like a small thing, but something like that makes a huge impact.
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This is a perfect example of what I was talking about yesterday in regards to men losing their ever-loving fucking minds.
My friend,
@mebprincess1
, posted a video about women in the United States having to fight for DECADES for the right to have access to abortion.
My sub,
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I was really surprised by some of the comments I received today. People seem genuinely shocked that we don't have a Findom aspect to our relationship. It's really important to me that others learn about Female Led Relationships (FLRs). You don't need to have a financial aspect to
I had practically no money when I met
@The_Ms_Michelle
. I only had some cash from winning a fight tournament. With it I bought Her a meal. Since, we have built a life together and come out the other side debt free.
I know, if I had nothing, She would be at my side, lead in hand.
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We woke up to yet another day of snow fall.
Immediately, I said, "Mother Nature can EAT MY ASS!"
@docile_sub
: "But Mistress, that's one of my favorite services to provide.."
😂 Oh, subby! He's always good for a laugh!
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Happiness is sending your sub to the post office box to collect your packages...
and then telling him he must insert a large butt plug before he leaves.
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I'm still admiring my shiny, red toes!
My husband/sub has been painting my toes and giving me pedicures since we first met many years ago.
He's very serious about it. He did a base coat, two coats of red, and a top coat.
He looked so proud of himself when he was finished.
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He'll be coming with us to our favourite restaurant. Normally, we don't take our son with us for Valentine's Day dinners. However, there are more tiny lessons to teach him (opening the car door, hanging up the coat, pulling out the chair, asking about her day, etc). 4/5
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I was telling
@docile_sub
that I must be getting my period, as I'm always incredibly hungry the day before it arrives. I told him it's a hormonal shift.
My sub turned his head away from me, which I KNOW means that he's trying not to laugh at something.
I ordered him to "move
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Apparently, our son wondered around the shop, very intrigued by the options 🥺❤️
He ended up buying me a little potted orchid, which I love very much. He was SO proud to give it to me. He had the biggest smile on his face. 3/5
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That moment when your sub informs you that he needs to be let out of chastity so he can play in a hockey game tonight. Apparently playing hockey in the cage I have him in could cause injury. Oh, fine. Sigh. Grabs key.
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Where we live, it's a long weekend. Many businesses will be closed on Monday. This holiday is called "Family Day" here.
In my career, I often still have to work on most holidays. However, I decided to turn down all requests from clients and take this long weekend off to be with
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We celebrate Valentine's Day early to beat the rush.
This year,
@docile_sub
invited our son to the shop to pick out flowers for me. He said to pick out something that he thought I would love, and that he should do this to let mom know that she's special. 2/5
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We had a wonderful time celebrating Family Day in the mountains yesterday!
Thank you to my sub,
@docile_sub
, for all the driving he did yesterday. Our family appreciates you!
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I've seen A LOT of garbage from men on here lately.
What the actual FUCK is going on???
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I had a request from
@JDog71abc
regarding the approach I use to correct
@docile_sub
in our FLR. So, here is a looong thread.
Keep in mind that I am a lifestyle Domme, and I’m married to my sub. Our dynamic might be different from the next couple’s dynamic. 1/14
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Yep. My sub was a different person after an orgasm. Not attentive/less respectful/not interested in being my good boy. With the removal of daily orgasms, introduction of chastity, and some firm leadership on my part, he can get back into sub space after being permitted release.
As men we complain about our woman’s monthly cycle. I think a bigger challenge for our women is (forgive the crassness) post nut clarity. We orgasm (woman may or may not know it happened) , we aren’t as attentive, we refocus on them, we orgasm. Repeat.
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Yes, yes, yes. Very wise words from my husband/sub.
A lot of what I see on here for suggestions is very kink-driven and not at all service-driven. Ask yourself if you're thinking with your dick or TRULY serving Her and making Her happy. That's the key to a happy FLR.
Something I learned from
@AlisaCoaches
is not to overcomplicate submission. I see many recommendations from subs on ways to sacrifice more and more for a Domme.
We sometimes need to simplify and just focus on what She wants. Not how to maximize our own ideas of submission. 1/2
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Well, well, well. What do we have here?
I like that the test results show 94% Goddess for me and 100% worshipper for
@docile_sub
. We're a good match!
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My sub's hockey skates are beginning to fall apart. It's better to just buy new ones at this point, but they're $1,000 where we live.
I jokingly offered to buy them for him, and he could "work off" the loan.
He told me this sounded like a predatory loan.
You bet it is! 😈🤣
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I have tried using a shock collar on my sub's groin in the past. It snapped him back into submission. He hates it, and it's not a "fun" punishment. I am on the fence about whether I want to correct him using this method in the future, as it doesn't seem to fit into our FLR. 14/14
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If you're a sub, what is your zodiac sign?
I'm curious to see if there's a trend!
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@docile_sub
You're also lucky to have a very laid-back wife who knows your heart and gives you the benefit of the doubt. Most women would have been in tears.
Instead I ordered you to lock up your cock and get back in chastity. No more play time today. Next time there's an out-of-line
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I'm 39, and in many ways I feel more attractive now than I did in my 20's. We'll have to see how I feel once I enter the next era.
*Side note: I was laughing at old photos of myself recently. The super thin eyebrows...WHY did we all blindly follow Gwen Stefani?!
It’s right isn’t it? 🤓
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When I see my sub in a suit, it's like a man seeing a woman in lingerie. It totally DOES IT FOR ME.
@docile_sub
returned from a business trip, and he was still in his suit. I had him model for me. Spin. Walk.
ZZ Top was right. Women really do go crazy for a sharp-dressed man.
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At this point, my sub will apologize and spend the next while trying to get back to the point where I shower him with praise, call him my good boy, and invite him out of his office and into the bedroom for fun. 13/14
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If I have him go too long without a release, he can lose his focus in our dynamic. Likewise, if he is permitted to have a release far too often, our dynamic will be in the toilet. I have had to find a balance with this, but chastity is a must in our FLR. 6/14
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Here's something that has always intrigued me about an FLR dynamic-
The men are often in control in many areas of their lives (many are in successful, high-powered careers). They want so badly to have someone else take the reins, make decisions, and be in control...
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Reading articles like this makes my blood boil. The hurdles this woman faced occurred not that long ago, when you think about it. Throughout history, men have constantly tried to prevent women from being successful. It still happens today, sadly.
Air Canada’s first female pilot recalls sector’s sexist hurdles on route to success
nationalpost.com
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I am typically very vocal with my praise. I thank my sub all the time. I call him my good boy. I mention little things that I’ve noticed that he has done for me without being asked to do so. I tell him how happy I am, and we often have “funishment” sessions. 8/14
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I strive to be like this each day
The most dominant women I know in real life are also the softest, most nurturing souls.
Their strength doesn’t come from harshness or aggression but from a deep well of inner confidence and self-awareness.
These women exemplify the ideal blend of gentleness and power, proving
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In a moment of correction, ALL of that stops. No more praise. No more “funishment” sessions. My tone shifts. My facial expressions change. At that point, I think anyone could walk into a room I’m in and feel my displeasure in the air. 10/14
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@docile_sub
This is excellent.
There is so much bullshit on here that I don't want to engage with.
I want to see examples of REAL female empowerment. Real Dommes flipping the script and taking control. I also like to see respectful subs and examples of beautiful FLRs. It's also great to
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I do have him in chastity. He is not able to find release until I allow it. I am very good at noticing a shift in his demeanor. At times, I have found that “if you don’t use it, you’ll lose it” comes into play with him. 5/14
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This is where sexual fantasies get played out. We both work from home, so I’ll typically burst into his office and tell him to get ready for whatever fun I have planned for that day. 9/14
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The method of correction that I use is communication. This might sound terribly boring, but it works. In our FLR, the sub wants to enhance the Domme’s life and serve Her while ensuring that they both live happily together. 7/14
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@travellingkink
Thank you, Mark, for speaking up. Women don't deserve to be treated like this. You're saying what many of us have been saying behind closed doors (or at least in our household).
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I firmly let him know what he said or did that was out of line and how deeply disappointed I am. As my sub, he wants to please me, and being notified that he has upset me is enough to get him to stiffen up and stand at attention. 11/14
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I do not physically punish my sub when he is out of line. Why? Because he would enjoy it too much! He WANTS me to get out my rattan canes or leather English strap. This is not proper discipline in our dynamic. 2/14
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If I respond by cracking the whip every time he’s out of line, then he’ll become a brat. It would encourage more crap behaviour and open up a channel for him to manipulate me into physically punishing him, which is what he wants. No Domme will put up with being manipulated. 3/14
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I also don’t correct him by having him be my sissy boy as punishment. Why? Because he would enjoy it too much! He WANTS me to humiliate him, as he would get off on that. This is also not proper discipline in our dynamic. 4/14
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I'm so excited for this!
Mistress Alisa provides a wealth of knowledge, and She is an excellent coach for both men and women needing guidance in their FLR (or for those wishing to begin an FLR). Her guidance has greatly strengthened my marriage to
@docile_sub
.
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I will give instructions on how he can fix things and get back in my good graces. I will elaborate and tell him how he made me feel and how it hurt me (if it’s an emotional issue). This is honestly all it takes in our FLR. 12/14
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@docile_sub
All I know is that I laughed SO HARD at the part where I was supposed to say that I would "obey" you in the vows. I even asked the official marrying us to remove it during the rehearsal so he wouldn't accidentally include it during the ceremony the next day.
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@docile_sub
Many of the men on this platform love to speak to me as if I'm their "bro." They claim to honour women, yet their tone is condescending the moment they speak to one online. And these men claim to have a Domme at home! I would be horrified if you interacted with women like that on
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I was chatting with
@docile_sub
about a theory I had about the possibility of a large number of dominant women being Virgos (born between August 23-September 22).
I'm a Virgo, and so are
@LouisaUk12
and
@michellepfemdom
Virgos do seem to have a lot of qualities that are good
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@docile_sub
I love you, and I'm happy to have you in my corner. I'm lucky to have you feel protective of me. I wasn't unhappy about that at all. It's just shocking when I see you get fired up, as you're typically very...docile 😉 I know you're just frustrated with the situation, and that's
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@docile_sub
I feel like the combination of blindfold, nipple clamps, and my cane collection was a very nice combo today.
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Stories like this show us just one example of why so many vanilla relationships don't make it.
Here's a rundown of the story, in case you don't want to click on the link...
This woman has celiac disease and had major stomach surgery, which required a long recovery where she
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@docile_sub
Yes, thank you!
I've particularly enjoyed getting to know
@Rebuildingl0ve
and
@JDog71abc
. Answering their questions has been fulfilling.
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The women are often striving to find control in their lives (many are in careers where they are constantly shit on). The opportunity to finally take control is intoxicating and exciting.
*While this is obviously not the case for all FLR dynamics, it has always intrigued me.
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@docile_sub
Thank you! You are a wonderful sub/husband. I'm so happy to have found you.
P.S.-I love the gift 😈🖤
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@docile_sub
Well, I like enforcing the rule about not looking at your cell phone when I'm talking to you. This also seems to be the rule you struggle with the most.
However, as a Domme, I don't often enforce rules. I EXPECT my sub to know right from wrong while serving me.
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I have such a good boy in
@docile_sub
I have a medical appointment in another city today. It's-44 C and foggy. Vehicles are in the ditch. I was dreading this.
My sub announced that he'd be leaving a work meeting early so he could accompany me as he wanted me to feel safe.
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To me, "passive" is when you feel you have to do something out of obligation. It brings you little/no joy. It can cause resentment and lead to feeling like a doormat. "Submission" in the context of an FLR, is serving because you WANT to and it makes you feel good.
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@docile_sub
Top 3:
1.) Edgeomatic (which I will be doing a long post on soon for people who are unfamiliar with this amazing device)
2.) My newest strap-on. It feels like it's part of my body! I instantly feel even more powerful with it on. This was a very recent purchase that docile
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@docile_sub
I hope you have less stress at work today and that we don't get any more surprises with our summer plans. Yesterday was tough on you, and I hope you have a great day today.
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@Rebuildingl0ve
Yes! It's true! We were just warning our son about getting too close to Canadian geese! They can be vicious and they have attacked dogs in our neighborhood.
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@docile_sub
Awww. ❤️❤️❤️ We both sacrificed a lot to get to today. I'm excited that things will be a lot less stressful for a while. I love you!
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@docile_sub
Welcome to my life as a woman in the vanilla world!
When I use my other profile on X to discuss politics, most of my posts are ignored. However, when a man re-posts something I've said, he gets so much praise and recognition.
It was also like this when I used to work in the
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@docile_sub
At one point, I almost put in a phone call today to Australia's
#1
Finest Brat Tamer,
@JDog71abc
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