@Uber_Support
@UberUK
This is the 2nd time this week that a driver has picked up my food from the same restaurant & cancelled my order while en route to me! He stole my food & UR doing nothing about it 🤬 He even text me to tell me he’s taking my food! U can’t make this shit up!
Tried reporting this many times through the useless Uber app only for them to reply with this bullshit about how he couldn’t find my address!!
I literally have screen shots of him picking up my food then messaging me that he’s taking my food but you wanna act blind?? 😡
So I’m currently in Malindi, Kenya and I’m going to do a little thread of all the beautiful beaches/places I’ve seen!
Sardinia Island
Watamu 🇰🇪
The clearest water I’ve had the pleasure of swimming in! Best believe I jumped in with my baati 😂
@jrdndesetoiles
I wanna know where they found her kmt out of the whole Morocco as well 😫 What a joke... I would’ve niced her hands differently 😫 Go on
@sabsshenna
on instagram for some next level Henna 😉
Put the kids to bed 2 hours earlier today because I just can’t deal anymore, woke up with a banging headache that’s still going strong & had to “mother” & be patient all day irrespective of how shit I felt. I don’t even care if they don’t sleep I just need them out of my sight.
Happy 34th Birthday to my better half ❤️ Not even gonna make dua for him coz all his duas were answered when he found me 😂 oh & let’s just ignore the kids they killed the pic 🙃
@effisforfifidds
@Uber_Support
@UberUK
Lmfao that’s what smacks it 😂 Thanks? Thanks? The AUDACITY 😂Absolute scum kmt I hope he got food poisoning from it lmao he’s probb done it before that’s why he’s so confident kmt
In conclusion Motherhood is the real ghetto & nothing in this world will ever be enough compensation for what we go through, only Jannah in shaa Allah. No wonder Mothers have such high status in Deen, because this journey is filled with blood, sweat and tears.
@downforuliv
@Uber_Support
@jackieburkhartu
Funny that they replied to her faster than they did me kmt she has me blocked and they’re still not taking accountability for their thiefin drivers 😫
After two girls, having a boy is what made me decide I never want to have another baby again 🙃 Allahuma baarik when I say he is ACTIVE…& not the good kind, the kind where he looks for new ways to off himself everyday and I have to be 10 steps ahead 🥲
So I’m on this Muslim mums group on Facebook and it shocks me how some grown women still view sex as something dirty and shameful because of how they’ve been raised 😞
Imagine this girl got married, showcased everything on snap, the honeymoon, the fancy hotels etc few days later she's extremely sick to the point she's throwing up then comes on snap talkin'bout "Subhanallah evil eye is real" turns out bishh was just pregnant kmt 😣
@UmTee
Marriage isn’t easy sis, we live in a time where marriage & weddings are so romanticized but no one ever talks about the tests & hardships that come with it, every couple goes through shit, don’t give up on ur marriage just yet & don’t regret, make Dua & reach out for help x
Believe me when I tell you there’s nothing “soft life” about being a SAHM. I fully understand why any woman would want to go back to work after kids because this shit will drive you crazy. Especially in the winter months, as if SAD wasn’t already kicking my ass 🙃
@doseofkard
THIS?! It’s so crazy to me that giving Salam to a friends spouse is viewed as “disrespectful” as if we can’t interact with each other like normal decent humans they’d rather pretend we didn’t exist 😂💀
Our 6 year anniversary was yesterday & we both forgot so I guess we’re both trash but is okai isss okaaii 😂❤️
*Me in the 2nd pic: look at me like you love me please 😉
May Allah protect us from evil, may he strengthen our bond and keep us together til Jannah Ameen
One women commented how she hid her pregnancy from her brother because if he saw her pregnant he would’ve known that she’d had sex and the embarrassment that would’ve caused her was unbearable...*facepalm* I didn’t even know what to say to that boy...
Studies show that children who use correct terminology when referring to their private parts are better able to avoid abuse and/or talk about it if it happens (god forbid) Children should be comfortable when talking about their bodies, their bodies aren’t a source of shame.
First of all you’re married so I’m sure your father & brothers and everyone else knows that married people have sex and get pregnant, it’s natural, I don’t see why that’s shameful, isn’t that what their parents did to conceive them? Or did they just pop out of a tree? 🧐
Sometimes I gaslight myself because my Husband does his best with the kids/house when he’s at home but he’s gotta work most of the time & even with his support it’s just so overwhelming but then I think how can I complain when there’s (single) mums out there who have it worse?
Shouldn’t these things be discussed before marriage? Also funny how guys go for girls that rock full makeup daily then expect them to stop the minute they’re married 😂 You can’t marry someone knowing how they are & then expect to change them because it’s what YOU want...
I pray we raise children who are comfortable enough to come to us for anything and I pray we don’t body shame them or suppress their sexuality but instead give them a safe space to engageg in conversation so that they grow into adults who have a positive view of sex.
As parents we are our children’s first teachers and we shouldn’t shy away from teaching them about their bodies, about hayaa, cleanliness and everything else, in the correct manner & age appropriate of course.
There are so many Muslim women who still can’t enjoy sex with their husbands because they feel guilty and dirty for doing it as all their lives their sexuality has been suppressed & they’ve been taught that it’s wrong to want or enjoy it, so sad wallahi.
Please don’t listen to this BS, especially if you’re Muslim, I promise u most times it’s ur hoe phase that’ll come back to haunt u in ur marriage, not lack of, nothing better than being intimate with ur spouse in an environment that nurtures & protects love, trust & vulnerability
We live in a hypersexual world and children are maturing and learning things faster than some of us are comfortable with but wallahi it’s better they learn from us than their peers or worse, pornography.
Parents! Just a reminder it’s not your job to keep your kid(s) entertained 24/7! Let them get bored! Boredom sparks creativity! Stop shoving a screen in their faces when things get a little inconvenient & ride it out! I know it’s easier said than done but it’s not impossible.
So my 4 year old just told me to wipe the tip of the straw after I drank some of her milkshake...I beg your pahdin? You do remember how you entered this world beloved??
Let us teach our children that their bodies are beautiful & not something to be ashamed of, let us teach them about healthy consensual sex, that when a married couple have sex they are rewarded for it, not that sex is this dirty thing that only kuffars do lol
Girls who think they’re getting 20k Mehr & boys who think they’re gonna marry 4 wives are both different sides of the same coin.
Yes it might be your Islamic “right” but it doesn’t change the fact it’s most likely not happening x
Another women wrote “I say this with a heavy heart but today my 6 year old came back from school & said something shocking to me...my heart sank...she said vagina, they taught them the proper names at school without my consent! How could they!” REALLY NIGGA???
What’s shameful about children receiving age appropriate sex education? Why give their private parts pet names? If anything that’s really pervy and its what predators do to children to make it seem like what they’re doing is normal...
This! No sleepovers or any school trips where you have to spend the night(s)
Never understood it when I was younger but now I’m a Mother I get it & would be the same with my kids, it’s not like predators have a sign on their foreheads so better safe than sorry as she’d say 👌🏾
26 Years of Marriage, 4 kids & 2 grandkids later & my parents still look this BOMB! 😍 Allahuma baarik ❤️ May Allah keep them together in this world & the next 🙌🏾
#mygoals
#marriagegoals
#blackdontcrack
👌🏾
I say this in the nicest way possible, immigrant parents need to understand that we’re not back home, if you bring your families to the west then they will mix & grow up with people of different ethnicities so don’t be shocked if your child decides to marry out of their race
@dthedonnn
@3edaa7
So being in a state of cleanliness that is a major requirement for Salah is stupid to you? Make istighfar and may Allah forgive you because it’s not something to be taken lightly
@Uber_Support
@UberUK
This is the 2nd time this week that a driver has picked up my food from the same restaurant & cancelled my order while en route to me! He stole my food & UR doing nothing about it 🤬 He even text me to tell me he’s taking my food! U can’t make this shit up!
@mindyaown2
@khalidmalinguur
@kxassn
Yeah the same parents that will turn a blind eye to haram then put a barrier when one wants to make it halal? Funny enough the whole amount doesn’t even go to the girl, usually a big chunk is for the parents to share amongst themselves and family elders 😂
Yes they are better with without a dead beat, most women end up being single mums bcoz the man neglects his responsibilities, I’ll tell u what’s “worse” than single mums though, married single mums who do everything a single mum would whilst catering to a grown ass man child 😩
Single mother homes are being paraded, yet their false bravado to the world is misleading others into thinking they're better off without a man, the west makes it easier to get rid of men and this way of thinking is polluting our society at large.
@Sikka_Q
It’s the way he’s telling her everything she wanted to hear now! All along while he was stressing her he knew what would make her happy and chose to withhold it, proper manipulator! Then writing this like some concerned husband 😩 Alhamdulillah you got away from this abuser!
I was expecting her to say something about how her daughter was being bullied from the way she wrote it but all that drama was because the school taught the children the proper scientific names for their private parts *facepalm* apparently they stole her daughters innocence 🙄
So I was having a talk with my husband about domestic violence & it ended with...
Me: God forbid if you ever hit me I would acc fight you back u know...kick u in the balls or something...
Him:......
Me: I’m not a weak bitch...I’m a strong bitch...
Him:...Ma Shaa Allah
Me:
If you’re man enough to get married then be man enough to provide for your wife. Men these day want the luxury of a wife while being coddled by their parents.
#nah
@15Swiss
You’re right and ur response is very mature, of course as a woman who’s had kids I think this is selfish af on the mans part, considering everything we’ve been through the past 10 months kmt but sadly it does happen & the best way to move forward is to talk about it and tackle it
After our swim they prepared a fresh sea food BBQ on the island! 🎣 Nearly everything was caught on our way there! It doesn’t get any fresher than that folks!
We had the juiciest prawns! Lobster and kings fish with Wali na mchuzi wa nazi! (Coconut rice & stew) 10/10 🙌🏾
6 years ago on April fools 2014 I found out I was pregnant with Mariya ❤️ Legit thought the test was gonna say “SIKE bitch” 😂 How time flies, one of the happiest days of my life man...
I’ve been trying to UP my henna game & keep my page as active as possible so if you wanna see my latest art please check out
@sabsshenna
on Insta 😉
#henna
#hennalondon
@vnvna_
@Uber_Support
@UberUK
@UberEats
Exactly! It’s not about the refund but the principle, why am I having to wait 2 hours for my food that keeps getting delayed because the driver decided to steal it kmt and they’re doing nothing about it to make sure it doesn’t happen again kmt
Mate in London these “salafi” youts will treat fully covered Muslim women like aliens that should be ashamed of breathing the same air as them 😫 But have no problem holding eye contact and conversing with non Muslim women on a daily 🙄
#madonnawhore
So guys just an update...
After contacting
@Uber
@UberUK
@UberUKsupport
@ubereats_uk
@UberEats
several times going back & forth this is the bullshit reply they give me!? What a joke of a company, they also replied to a fake tweet faster than they did to mine imagine!
People are getting married for the aesthetic & don’t realise that once the “honeymoon” phase is over it’s going to take more than looks or feelings to keep a marriage going 💪🏾
So guys I’ve upped my Henna game and I’m going to be sharing more of my work on here & continue this Henna thread 😊
Intricate Henna design Inspired by
@nurahshenna
with my own little twist for my girl Fatma ❤️
#henna
#hennaartist
#bodyart
@_Kmao_
Girl no way! Boys are so loveable but sooo difficult (in my experience anyways) they will have you sweating! Girls are physically calmer & less dangerous but as they get older the attitudes make you wanna slap them into another dimension 😂
Foreign culture? Are you high or something? That's her dad's culture u twat, thats half of who she is, how is she just gonna dismiss half of her identity like that? Self hate at it's finest.
My God this is so cringe, how are you having a panic attack because you’re touching his hand? What level of toxic modesty is this?
Really sis? You do know what happens after the wedding right? She about to have a heart attack 🙄
My Husband never watched Harry Potter growing (shocking I know) so this week we’ve had a potter marathon, currently on Order of the Phoenix & rewatching them all over again made me realise how funny it is that Voldemort is beefing children 😂
One last thing for those of you who are married, looking to get married or just curious, I recommend this book! It’s so simple to understand and I think every adult Muslim should read it.
Closer than a Garment by Muhammad al-Jibaly 👌🏾
So my husbands listening to some old Arab tune & tells my daughter “listen she sings very nicely” ngl I’m in the second room getting jealous & ready to pop up like “who gotta nice voice nigga?” Then I started listening & now I’m mesmerised coz her voice & melody is A1 😍
This! Parenting is bloody hard but I always make a conscious effort to raise my children and not just maintain them, constantly trying to better myself, May Allah make it worthwhile for us all 🙌🏾