🇺🇸Pro like minded, unambiguous bw of every complexion, ethnicity and culture. Racists, dusties, incels, mammies, narcs & pick me’s will be highly offended✌🏽
@ghostcoochie
@platformedboots
That’s the crazy part about it. Like he didn’t see her as his own daughter at a certain point? It’s so scary for women with kids to date
@yummi26
@HeyPariss
Yeah my esthetician looked at me like I was being difficult, because I didn’t want to take pictures. A discount should be offered if you’re going to be using my pics as promo
@sunnydaejones
@simsimmaaz
Periods, pregnancy, pregnancy loss, birthing, infertility, menopause, monthly hormone changes, fibroids, hysterectomy, etc. Being a woman ain’t just simply dressing up as one
@Annabllebitch7
I had a male friend do this to me after 10 years, and told me that if we can’t be lovers, then we can’t be friends. So he pretended to be my friend and waited for the opportunity when we were both single. That was so dirty
@Kemi_yondo
I do hate these black girl pity conversations so bad. I know plenty of fine bw of all “complexions” who get love everywhere we go, & attract all races of men. Won’t see me begging & giving colorist men my crown, on top of other races of women feeling they got something over me 👸🏾
@lmTheReasonWhy
The problem is when black women allow their jobless son pookie, and their cousin ray ray with felonies 2 move in on the low.All they do is turn the neighborhoods into the gutter,and harass the women/girls going about their business. I could never feel safe around that environment
@coupdereves
@kurkdjiankunt
Older women tear down other older women. Younger women tear down other younger women. Younger women hate older women. Less attractive women hate more attractive women. Successful women are hated or anything else we can add. I doubt that it was about her age & more so her beauty
@keyanagirl
@ne_melum
You were lucky to have had a woman like her to tell you the truth. Most don’t want to admit their sons behavior, and think it’s a reflection on them by raising a monster
@Hollywood_JT_
Her husband named all the things she does to improve his life, yet they’re concentrating on the fact that she only said he’s good to her, and spoils her. Black men are trying their hardest to make black women look bad, and it’s pretty damn obvious
@mecca_jordan
@FckYaStandardz
What was hilarious is when they were mad that NY said she wasn’t there to make friends and that she was only there for Flav. The gurls went crazy 😆. She knew how to get under their skin
@BMajors80
@Matchhunter44
@Vhoyde
What’s even wilder is that if a 15 year old was legal, then men like him would go for that. Men that old who choose women right at the legal age is predators. How much different does a 22 year old look from a 18 year old? If the dads are around, then he ain’t allowing you access
@bestpractices22
@Smart_Bae_
They’re always looking for an opportunity to humble bw. It’s a clear pattern at this point. The cattiness these particular males display is such a turn off
@Brownsu69681931
@bu_media
That’s such a silly anti blk comment. I see bw with all different hair types, including 4c hair growing this length. Y’all jusdon’t know how 2care for your hair, care about the wigs more,or simply don’t have the genetics to pull it off.I understand that coarse hair breaks easily
@IeashiaPatrice
@IbarYahawadah
Right, like they’re the ones we need to watch out for, and they never protected us before. These dusties love to operate in fear and chaos, because building and providing for bw is too much accountability
@brownbarb1e
Late 20’s/early 30’s are the perfect time to start having kids. Still young, yet more mature and financially stable. Your 20’s are meant to establish yourself, and party hard with or without a spouse.
@KiTheDon_
@amarihanifahh
It’s expected of a woman who call women “females” to approve of this low vibrational message. Y’all are so male identified, and lost that those of us who get it, see “women” who think this way as pathetic
@dudururo
I’ve noticed that non bw who date bm are more vocal about their disdain for bw . How come we never see this in reverse? Non black men who date bw never seem to come for bm. Bm make preferences feel real comfortable about speaking ill on bw, but yet he can’t say anything on Asians
@iammo_nae
@sunnydaejones
@simsimmaaz
I haven’t experienced all of them myself, & you deflecting doesn’t change the fact that these things exclusively affect women. I mentioned the infertility of some women for not being able to carry a pregnancy, or having to put it off for various reasons is a hurt trans won’t know
@Clems71477270
@eyejay_candy
@deshola55
Oh stop because those shaming tactics were only created to keep women in our place, while y’all cheat without guilt. Adultery is a sin, and cheating is morally wrong, so you’re no better than a ho, by being one yourself.
@roybatty010816
@tariqnasheed
You think he would have done this to a white woman? No, he automatically thought she was up to no good and that he would get away with it
@vinciburn
@rghzfye
Men don’t like it when it’s more men to compare them to other men, who may have been better in bed. The fear of competition just make them come up with something silly, just to keep women in our place
@LAYSAINTLAURENT
Notice how you didn’t say he’s taking care of the kids while he’s in school. That’s because women are still expected to be traditional at home, even while working just as hard as men to help pay bills. This situation would not work for “me” because of that
@nattydaddyxo
@Underrated_Dom
@SaycheeseDGTL
They believe that the lives of women are centered around men. She’s doing what she needs to do for herself spiritually, but trust she will find a man who accepts her for who she is “now”.
@RVAReid
They’re so worried about bw getting help with their fatherless kids, that they don’t care to actually be a blessing to a child in need. Nobody said to actually date the mom too. Wanting to be leaders and complain about the state of the black community, yet refuse accountability
@itsmeyourfavx
When they start talking about their mixed family members, and anything associating to my race. 🤦🏽♀️ Like you can’t just talk to me as another human being, and relate to me with anything else that we have in common?
@wavyemma
Guys are usually fake nice because they want something from you, although you can tell they resent you for the power your beauty has over them. Most women are instantly rude, and catty due to their insecurities. It’s the constant push to humble you, and/or use you for your beauty
@ASAP_Ford
@202NATALIEE
@clb5_
Bm date out more than any other group of men combined. It’s fine to have a preference, but it’s obviously more to it, and it has nothing to do with bw. I personally think bw should move on, and stop embarrassing themselves
@Bakkwoodzz
@nollywoodbabe
It excites low value men to humble and reject women they could never get. They like to project their insecurities onto these women, hoping she’ll feel low enough to give them a chance. Incel behavior
@DOPEITSDYNO
@jass_fenty
The day these non black women speak up for us and return the support, is the day that I may actually gaf, but today ain’t the day
@SpellyGirl
@DicksinMr
@pallnandi
This is exactly why people allowed R.Kelly to get away with what he did for so long. They sympathized with him, because he was once the victim. Y’all are very naive as to how predators think
@emilia945
@ArianaThorne
@YungYinkv
Trust ….dark skin “girls” are seeing this as a win for themselves just as light “black” girls saw it as a win for them with princess Tiana. It’s the adults who make a big deal about things that kids don’t see, unless you make them see themselves as a victim too
@Anxious_Thando
@ALoveSoSweet_
Yeah, but you know they have to make other women out to be the worst, so the pick me’s can feel good about “appearing” to be the better woman for being basic
@CoreenaJeane
@notcapnamerica
Yup that’s exactly it. Those racial biases always come out the subconscious, yet this very same person don’t believe themselves to be bigots unless they’re overt racists
@TwistdBallerina
@GOTCITYTEA
Yeah he can have a preference, but denying dsbw from certain clubs, or vip sections sounds no different than racism. It’s crazy coming from your own still using the brown paper bag test. Most bm are self hating and colorist,so it’s not just a preference. The gaslighting need 2🛑
@NicoleLewisLCSW
Why is wearing a headscarf (which is presentable to wear outside) so difficult to use as an alternative to a bonnet? I never thought about rocking a bonnet outside, & haven’t seen not 1 female in my family do it either. Everyone can do what they want, but it will always be tacky
@ttayehh24
@spectatorindex
Yeah I knew a man would say this. Women no longer want to be stuck doing most of the work raising children, even while married. Children are more expensive now at that. Women want to be in loving, supportive relationships/marriages before children and most men don’t provide that
@RidetheMaverik
@Shuri57821
It’s funny because most of them don’t want to get married ever, unless maybe they’re 50+. The dating game works better for them when women want marriage, so then they can exploit women. Having to prove themselves, evens the playing field, and they don’t want to give up that power
@Sylvthegem
@sniper688
@Xalexisssss_
A whole woman who risked her life to bring y’all child in the world, and if she’s a good mother, why not show some appreciation? It’s only one time of the year. I bet if she was no longer here, you would wish that you gave her flowers
@queenveej
I knew this was going to happen eventually. They really thought they were going to make women submit and become desperate. It backfired just like I expected. They don’t know women well at all, and times have changed
@Views09
@feoflvco
How about date women within your league, instead of trying to force high maintenance women to settle for U. It’s more pick me women down for struggle love in the black community than not. If bw required more from men then the community would be flourishing &reflect that standard
@undamipengting
@velvetskinned
@lmTheReasonWhy
Stop coddling them and making excuses. Black women deal with racism and sexism and still manage to get ahead of black men. How is it that siblings who grew up with the same odds,the women end up excelling? It’s because y’all treat bm like they were born inferior & can’t get right
@SpringBaby5689
@Fiyasohollywood
@Natspbjsandwich
Y’all just feel threatened by light skinned women and nothing can ever appease you, because the jealousy is too deep. You should be upset with colorist men, and not the women who benefit from it. Damned if you do, and damn if you don’t energy is high with this one
@IbarYahawadah
@KittyLeSiren
That’s never going to happen. Y’all stay trying to scare bw into fear and submission, instead of being a actual resource for bw
@BigKingC_
@nhoodpublicist
I think women pick and choose which women they want to be offended by, because not everyone is allowed to be themselves without others taking it personal
@iamleimetria
@FullPort_
Shouldn’t have to explain things 2 a grown man,especially since we let men know that he’s pushing his luck.Guys know why they got blocked,but pushed boundaries anyway. You have to make it known how you want to be treated,but I’m not going 2 put in energy explaining when it’s done
@aydria_
Do you notice how you call women females, and then say men correctly? That’s very male identified ma’am, and it screams pick me. Yes a woman and a “male” should be asset to each other
@shayquayall
@jaxajueny
They don’t want to admit this. Talking about Blue Ivy hair. Every celebrity is bleaching & got a bbl. Using ageism, colorism, featurism, texturism,& body shaming against each other. Mom shaming,single shaming, childless shaming etc. Bw are just plain hard on each other & it shows
@LovePassant
These two look like models and you’re average at best. We know nothing else about the personal lives of this couple. Stop feeling entitled to black women out of your league, just because you’re apart of the same race
@BeaBad_
@myneck715
@BuddyNoLove
They never ask if those women were happy to do it all. No they wasn’t. They were miserable, and that’s why so many of them died early, are bitter, and have chronic illnesses. No woman is built for struggle, so trying to shame us to get back to being a mule ain’t going 2 cut it
@keepingupwmeia
@BDTRELILBROTHER
Why do black boys have to be raised so harshly? No wonder they have a hard time adjusting to society and being emotionally available as adults
@FlexMav2
@T_Marie60
@someclues
I noticed that too. They also started that rumor about Beyoncé once she put out “Formation”. It was too pro black for them. It’s a major ego bust when the complete opposite of the white beauty standard is shining over you. Even mediocre ww think they got a edge over a pretty bw
@CriticalBlkMale
@AfroxSuede
@Nobleity_3
I believe bm ask that because she’s pretty and because of her hair. Nobody is lying about that, and it’s just that self hatred bm have that you’re trying to ignore. I get this question all the time, especially regarding my hair. It is not a compliment either