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Discover the swinging lifestyle with Dr. Georgia & Will, authors of Swingers' Little Helper. A married couple sharing sexy insights for the non-monogamous life.
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We had a really bad day due to lifestyle drama. To turn it around, we're going to giveaway a mystery present to a randomly chosen person that replies or likes this tweet within the next 3 hours. All we ask is you post a picture of the mystery present when it arrives.
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Let's normalize brunch swinging parties. Gives us time to socialize & play and still lets us get to sleep at a decent time for a lovely full night of sleep.
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If you want to be part of the lifestyle community, start by realizing not everyone is like you or in your situation. They might have different preferences or limitations. It's all good. Variety makes life more fun. Remember to be respectful and polite towards others :)
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Some of the swingers that we enjoy the most are the ones we have never played with. They are awesome people who are simply awesome to be around. Not all swinger connections are the pants-off type.
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Don't apologize for orgasming "too soon" during sex. You were enjoying yourself & it's a huge compliment that your partner was so crazy sexy! Now get back in there and return the favor. You still have a talented tongue & fingers!
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Please don't think that racism doesn't exist in swinging because you have never personally experienced it. That's like thinking there's no world hunger because you personally ate a big lunch. Different people can have different expereinces in the lifestyle.
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Friendly Tip - Be brave and make the first move. Too many people want sexy fun but are afraid of making the first move, so it just never happens. Be the hero and take that chance :)
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Women can want sex as much as men & men can feel as insecure as women. Let's all support each other :)
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Might be a swinger when you can't show your vanilla friends the pictures on your phone because there are too many naughty ones mixed in.
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Dear rookie swingers, looking away when people wave hello and hiding in the corners makes it hard to build a connection. Swingers are a friendly bunch & we don't bite unless it's a BDSM party :)
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Being monogamous isn't perfect for everyone & neither is swinging. Thank goodness we can all choose what works best for our own relationships.
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It is always exciting having that first kiss with a new swinger partner!
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Wish there was a swinger bootcamp with a trained relationship counselor that we could recommend to newbies.
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Don't apologize for orgasming "too soon" during sex. You were enjoying yourself & it's a huge compliment that your partner was so crazy sexy! Now get back in there and return the favor, you still have a talented tongue & fingers!
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Think it's hard planning a swinger date & arranging a babysitter? Imagine running a farm & needing to arrange a babysitter for your kids & a babysitter for hundreds of livestock so you can drive 3 hours to a date. The effort needed to be a swinger in rural areas is no joke.
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Many swingers enjoy reverse swinger dates. That's when you start the date with the play session, then go out for dinner. That usually leads to a second play session after dinner.
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Swinging is more than just sex. It's about freedom to be yourself, good friendships, a supportive community & so much more.
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If you are asking how to screen people for COVID-19 at your house party, it is probably too soon to be hosting a swinger party in your area. Let's be smart and stay safe :)
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Want to give a woman a better orgasm? Try focusing on their whole body. Don't rush it. Take your time to lick, rub, grind, caress, kiss, stroke, and suck all over.
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Friendly reminder that we only shed our clothes and not our manners at swinger clubs. Being friendly & nice keeps the sexy times rolling along.
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Breaking News - Women can like sex as much as any man and aren't crazy for feeling that way.
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A unicorn contacted us wanting to play & then freaked out after being surprised that we're married. Feel like we dodged a bullet. We find intelligence (& literate people that read bios) very sexy ;)
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Let's be clear - sex on the beach (overrated) is not the same as sex on a beach bed (which is fantastic). Sand just isn't a feel-good lubricant.
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If you drink alcohol at lifestyle events, consider weaker drinks & alternating with water, so you'll be in good shape for sexy time.
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Many swingers keep it a secret because life isn't fair & nothing is guaranteed. A single religious zealot can wreck careers or cause massive stress for children & families. Swingers should choose what is best for their situation.
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Dr. G & our team of researchers want to hear your voice in our third annual swinger survey! Please RT & tell your swinger friends :)
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You might be a swinger if you have a hard time explaining to your neighbors why they can't attend your house parties.
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Being naked alone at home can be great for building self-confidence! Get used to seeing yourself butt naked & feeling sexy.
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2 out 3 of people fantasize about sleeping with other people. 3 out of 3 swingers actually do sleep with other people.
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Consent is not a permanent thing. It is a moving agreement that can be changed or revoked at any time.
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Want to boost your odds on a swinger date? Take a shower right before the date. No, your morning shower 10 hours ago doesn't count. You want to be super clean & smelling fresh. Sadly, not everyone does this.
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Every swinging lifestyle party is a win because you get to go home with the sexiest person - your own partner :)
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If you enjoy a lifestyle podcaster, blogger, or whatever, please take the time to share supportive words with them. Sadly the haters & trouble makers are taking the time to message them. Fight that negativity by sharing your support :)
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We like being friendly, it makes life much more enjoyable for us. We might not have a sexy connection with everyone but we can still be friendly & party together.
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To all the couples having trouble making a connection in the swinging lifestyle, relax. You probably didn't pass your driver's test the first time & you eventually ended up with your license. Keep trying & it will work out for you :)
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Let's be honest a majority of swingers at one time or another will have a problem juggling the vanilla responsibilities & the stress to physically & mentally perform your sexy best. Relax and love yourself.
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We all enjoy the sexy side of things but sending unsolicited NSFW stuff often isn't the best way to introduce yourself. Developing SFW friendly connections is usually a better way to start. Think of it as conversational foreplay.
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Putting effort into a swinger date & not playing isn't bad. You still go home with the hottest person - your own partner. Playing is simply a bonus :)
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When friends ask us "what makes your marriage so strong and happy?" We want to say sexy times with hot strangers but just smile at each other and say trust, communicating and trying new things :)
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RESULTS ARE IN! Thank you to the 1,072 that participated & all the other helpers. This swinger survey touched on so many taboo topics (age, race, politics, religion, income, education, & more). Have a question? Let us know. We're happy to discuss.
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If you want to boost your chances of swinging success, start by sending messages longer than two words.
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Men - when unsure, go softer & gentler till she asks for harder. Too rough, too soon can ruin things.
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Not all swingers are super confident, but most are very friendly, so attend a real-life party and enjoy life with your special someone.
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It can be hard to explain to vanilla people how swinging with others makes us feel closer to each other. Yes, we play with other people, but we still crave & relish intimacy with each other. Having strong trust & communication brings us closer together.
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Might be swinger if you can't show your vanilla friends pictures on your phone because there are too many naughty ones mixed in.
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We like life much better when we stress less & fuck more. Life is short, so let's make the most of it :)
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You have probably never told anyone that you masturbated thinking of them. So imagine how many people secretly touched themselves thinking of you. You are sexier than you can imagine.
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Guys, relax about your size. Your style in bed is much more important than size :)
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People in glass houses should throw sex parties...and make sure to let us know when it starts!
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Soft swapping might not be the
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Do you know what's sexy to us? When responsible parents put the needs of their sick kid ahead of a planned swinger date. We love those cancellations because good people are extra sexy to us besides we don't want to get sick ourselves.
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Let's be clear - sex on the beach (overrated) is not the same as sex on a beach bed (which is amazing). Sand just isn't a feel good lubricant.
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Too few people understand the concept of gratitude. If a podcast helps you, give a good review. If a video was helpful, give it a thumbs up. If a couple helps you, send a thank you. That's how we'll get more nice things :)
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Swinger vacations are amazing but being home every day with your own special someone is the best! We love all of you sexy people but there is just no competition when it comes to our own amazing partner.
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Don't get caught up with internet stories. People are much less inclined to post their swinging failures. Be safe, take your time, and do what is best for you.
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If you don't think you have a hot body, maybe it's all those pesky clothes getting in the way. Let's get naked!
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It's nice receiving online likes, winks & flirts but if you want a response, please try writing a message longer than "Hi".
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Many swingers do love anal, but nobody enjoys being around annoying assholes :( Be the best person you can be :)
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The best diet is the one that removes the toxic people from your life.
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Want to know a secret? Most swingers don't always feel confident and often feel insecure. Be proud and love yourself!
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Our body flaws tend to only really matter only to us. All those other people are blown away with our sexiness that they don't even notice them. Be your best advocate & not your own harshest critic.
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Friendly Tip - Be brave and make the first move. Too many people want sexy fun but are afraid of making the first move so it just never happens. Be the hero and take that chance :)
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Life is too short! If you want to try swinging, then try swinging. Why miss out on the things you want to do?
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If you need guests to wear face masks at your swinger party, maybe it is a little too soon to be hosting a swinger party.
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Breaking News - Women can like sex as much as any man and aren't crazy for feeling that way.
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Being monogamous isn't perfect for everyone & neither is swinging. Thank goodness we can all choose what works best for our own relationships.
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In one study, 96% of women reported that they like neck kisses, so don't overlook this erogenous zone.
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If you want to start swinging, work on your patience. Many swinger couples take over two years talking & thinking before doing anything.
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Think about all the effort you put into a swinger date, and make sure you put as much or even more effort into your own private dates. Give your relationship the VIP treatment it deserves.
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Results are in for our third annual swinger survey with over 2,000 participants. Big thanks to everyone that participated & helped make this happen.
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You might be a swinger if you have to constantly create cover stories when your coworkers ask what you did during the weekend, or you just silently grin each week.
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Here are the results of over 1000 swingers surveyed. Thank you to everyone who participated! We'll be doing more research in 2021.
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Friendly Tip - Be brave and make the first move. Too many people want sexy fun but are afraid of making the first move so it just never happens. Be the hero and take that chance :)
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Swinger vacations are amazing, but being home every day with your special someone is even sweeter! We love all of you sexy people, but there is just no competition when it comes to our own fantastic partner.
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A great figure is nice, but it's your self-confidence that makes you genuinely sexy.
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Reciprosexual - not being sexually attracted until you know the other person is attracted to you. Help those reciprosexual people plus all the shy swingers by speaking up when you are attracted to someone in the lifestyle. Swingers love being complimented 😘
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Give yourself permission to enjoy life & live in the moment. Swinger dates are for you to enjoy yourself & escape those vanilla stresses.
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Please don't ram a lady's cervix (unless she asks for that). It can hurt like a #$&%! Pay attention and make sure you stay in her "feel good" space as all ladies are different.
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If you feel good right now, remember some of your swinger friends might not be. Many are putting up a brave face over their struggles. Take a moment to reach out and share some virtual support. Being a helpful friend is super sexy.
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Conflicted feelings over a previous play partner? Masturbate before responding to their messages. A clear, non-horny mind makes better choices. Think of it as a wisdom wank.
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It is hard explaining why you came back at 3 am when you only went out to a restaurant that closes at 10 pm.
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Swinging doesn't require a total lack of jealousy but more of taking responsibility for one's feelings & actions.
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Spend less time defending your life choices and more time enjoying them. If someone judges you for enjoying life on your terms, do you need that person in your life?
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The nicer you treat them outside the bedroom, the naughtier things can become inside the bedroom.
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When friends ask us "what makes your marriage so strong and happy?" We want to say sexy times with hot strangers but just smile at each other and say trust, communicating and trying new things :)
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Been told we're going to hell, so we rented a party bus if any of you sexy fuckers want a ride
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Why is swinging so fun & exciting? Well, having a naughty little secret to share as a couple is one reason.
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Friendly reminder that we only shed our clothes and not our manners at swinger clubs. Being friendly & nice keeps the sexy times rolling along.
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Mistakes do happen in the swinging lifestyle. When they do we usually don't forgive & forget but prefer to forgive & improve. We want to learn from the mistakes to improve our communication, rules, & safeguards so mistakes don't repeat.
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So you say you aren't a sex worker, but you sell OnlyFans sex videos, sell used panties, & do monthly appearances at sex events. Sounds like it's sex & work to me.
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Swingers might take off their clothes, but they should never drop their standards and values. Be true to yourself.
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Please don't wait until something is wrong to talk with your partner. Communicate about the complicated topics before issues arise. Be honest about sex, money, family, & whether it is genuinely ok if they finish your dessert.
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If you are lucky enough to find the weirdo that matches up with your wackiness, never let go :)
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It's estimated 20% of adults have sex 3-4 times a week, and 5% have sex every day. We're betting the swinging lifestyle has a bunch of overachievers.
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Swinger dates often bomb, but when the worst-case scenario is having sex with your own sexy partner, it is not that bad.
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Writing a swinger blog invites PLENTY of hate from religious & mean people. That just makes the positive feedback all the sweeter. 😊
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Swingers Help needs your help with a swinger survey! Only takes a few minutes and we're raffling away thank-you gifts.
Please RT & let your friends know :)
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Don't get caught up with internet stories, people are much less inclined to post their swinging failures. Be safe, take your time, and do what is best for you.
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